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ugh waht should i do ?
hey ;;
ima 13 // f
and im in love with this guy .
he nos that i like him
but he doesnt no how strongly i feel
and he doesnt even care that i do
he makes it rilly awkward but we used to be friend before i told him
and recently i told him that i didnt like him, and now its even more awkward and we rarely talk .
hes been ruining my life and i fell so hard for him .
ive been cutting my wrists and my friends have been very supportive .
but i just dont kno waht to do .
because i love him, but i dont want to scare him off or anything, so please help ?
sorry if its long i didnt mean for it i just tried to explain as well as i could
please leave advice :]
<3
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First of all,u're young so of course you're gonna find other people.Im not saying you're not in love cuz i dont know how you feel in the inside but i can say,that no man is worth your tears and the one who is,wont make you cry.Cutting your wrist is something you really shouldnt be doing because while you're putting yourself through pain,he's not going through anything!!!Keep your head up and dont let him get you down.In due time,you'll be the one he needs in the end so dont even sweat it!Try to clear everything up with him..if that doesnt work,move on and don you!!!
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you sound like me when i was your age.
I'm not going to tell you that your feelings arent valid because they are. But unfortuantely i am going to tell you what you dont want to hear. Get over it.
No guy is EVER worth hurting yourself over. And dont cry over a guy that wont cry over you. If he makes you happy, maybe you could be friends or even tell him that you like him (a normal fancying amount). But to me, it seems like he makes you sad. One day you'll look back and thank yourself you realised in time that he's immature, and you are worth more. And you are. Your friends have been amazing, its time like this when you realise who your true friends are. Concerntrate on them.
As i said before, you remind me of me when i was your age. Im going to try not to bore you with the details but i fell in love with a guy at 13. I felt awful all the time and i cut my self. I tried to commit suicide but that plan failed. My friends were really supportive. I liked him for 2 and a half years, we went out for a few months at some point but i didnt get over him. My point is, i have to leave all my friends really soon because im leaving for college, and im going to miss them so much more than that guy. Any guy. You'll meet someone else, someone is worthy of you. Till then, best of luck xxxx
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well if this guy is 13 like you then he has to be scared.
teens including me tend to fall in love 'easily' and its not a problem but sometimes it gets out of hand.
its not a good idea to cut yourself because of 'a guy'
and yes you may be in love with him
but IF he's not in love with you,
its his mistake.
that is what you call a big jerk.
ask him 'do you love me because i need to get on with my life if you don't'
tell him how you feel and a 13 year old shouldn't feel this way.
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Cutting your wrists? CUTTING YOUR WRISTS? Overdramatic. He's a GUY. You're NOT going to marry him, that's like 15 years away. How is he supposed to know about the way you feel about him, if you don't tell him? Guys like it when girls tell them to their face. Since ya'll are so young, he's probably just scared & doesn't know what to do.
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If he is the same age as you; he could just be scared - scared to like you back or scared to admit that he likes you too. Boys when they are around like 11-14 are still in the "girls have cooties" kinda thing. Your friends seem like amazing people being there for you, you should really ask them to try to help you stop cutting. NO BOY is EVER worth hurting your self. NOTHING is. Just remember that.
You should tell him how you honestly feel, but dont expect him to be like OMG i love you too. Boys are stupif @ this age about that sorta thing...
dont worry though...everything will work out.
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♥ xo
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