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well, im 15 and a girl. So there is this guy, let's call him joe. He's like perfect. He gets good grades and has a car and a job. The other guy let's call him mike is kind of like the bad boy in school. He does drugs and flirts with like every girl. I like them both alot. Is that bad? Should I go for the perfect boy or the bad boy? My heart is playing emotional ping pong right now. Thanks in advance. :) (link)
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Well obviously he's not so perfect if you cant choose between the two of them-but also,u cant help who you like.Is it really serious or just a crush?but you already about the "MIKE" character so why put yourself through something that could leave you hurt or cause you pain in the long run...I say go for "JOE"
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hey ;;
ima 13 // f
and im in love with this guy .
he nos that i like him
but he doesnt no how strongly i feel
and he doesnt even care that i do
he makes it rilly awkward but we used to be friend before i told him
and recently i told him that i didnt like him, and now its even more awkward and we rarely talk .
hes been ruining my life and i fell so hard for him .
ive been cutting my wrists and my friends have been very supportive .
but i just dont kno waht to do .
because i love him, but i dont want to scare him off or anything, so please help ?
sorry if its long i didnt mean for it i just tried to explain as well as i could
please leave advice :]
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First of all,u're young so of course you're gonna find other people.Im not saying you're not in love cuz i dont know how you feel in the inside but i can say,that no man is worth your tears and the one who is,wont make you cry.Cutting your wrist is something you really shouldnt be doing because while you're putting yourself through pain,he's not going through anything!!!Keep your head up and dont let him get you down.In due time,you'll be the one he needs in the end so dont even sweat it!Try to clear everything up with him..if that doesnt work,move on and don you!!!
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might be long, please help.
16/f
In ocotber i started going out with a boy. I had liked him all summer and we got really close but it took him a while to ask me out. Wel went out a little over a month(i know not long) and broke up with me because he liked another girl and didnt think it was right. I was really sad cause we were relaly good together eveyone said so. Well we still stayed friend though it was werid at first i sucked it up because i didnt want to loose him all together. He was talking to me online the other day and somehow got into talking about when we were going out and all the times and that we were good together and was like well do ou ever think that we could be back together and i was like im not sure because as much as i want to because i do miss him and liked being with him he hurt me because of another girl and im afraid of it happening again. My friends tell me that he always talks about how he misses me and wishes he didnt do what he did. So i Dont know what to do i just want HONEST opinons. If he asked me back out shoud i do it or would it just be a bad idea.
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Well i was in this exact situation!Boys are boys and no matter what,you cant change them from being a boy.I think you should give him another try because people do make mistake...But you also need to let him know that you're not his sideline chick and that he's not going 2 use you!If you all dont work out the second time,move on because before you know it,you'll be taking him back over and over again!Set him straight but give it another chance(i think)
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when you no your in love with someone but you know behind you back he is flriting with other girls but when yyou ask he if he's doing it he say he loves me (link)
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Give him a chance to tell you the truth...if he fails,then let him know whats up!!!Also,if you dont trust him,you should tell him that and you both should try to come to an agreement.Ask him why he loves you!If he cant answer,then its a big chance that he doesent mean it!!!Talk to some of the girls he flirt with,maybe they dont know you guys are going out.
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I've been in love with this one guy for six years, but hes more like a brother to me than anything else. He's going to college in May and i really really really want my chance with him before he leaves. I don't know if I should go for it because I don't want to kill the friendship. You don't understand. I mean, I'm IN LOVE with him. Help me!! (link)
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well,i think you should consider the consequences with being with him as a boyfriend.I mean figure out whether your friendship is more important because if the relationship was to end in a bad way,its a big chance that you all wont be friends again.Would you risk your friendship?Perhaps you should just tell him how you feel,you never know if he feels the same way about you.Also,if its meant to be,then it shall be..no matter how long it takes.Stop keepping your feelings for him balled up,LET HIM KNOW!!!
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