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the oh so popular boy qeustions.
might be long, please help.
16/f
In ocotber i started going out with a boy. I had liked him all summer and we got really close but it took him a while to ask me out. Wel went out a little over a month(i know not long) and broke up with me because he liked another girl and didnt think it was right. I was really sad cause we were relaly good together eveyone said so. Well we still stayed friend though it was werid at first i sucked it up because i didnt want to loose him all together. He was talking to me online the other day and somehow got into talking about when we were going out and all the times and that we were good together and was like well do ou ever think that we could be back together and i was like im not sure because as much as i want to because i do miss him and liked being with him he hurt me because of another girl and im afraid of it happening again. My friends tell me that he always talks about how he misses me and wishes he didnt do what he did. So i Dont know what to do i just want HONEST opinons. If he asked me back out shoud i do it or would it just be a bad idea.
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Well i was in this exact situation!Boys are boys and no matter what,you cant change them from being a boy.I think you should give him another try because people do make mistake...But you also need to let him know that you're not his sideline chick and that he's not going 2 use you!If you all dont work out the second time,move on because before you know it,you'll be taking him back over and over again!Set him straight but give it another chance(i think)
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so many people will tell you he is no good, don't let him hurt you again, but i disagree. He broke up with you because he was trying to do the right thing, he had feelings for another girl and he did not want to string you along. In the end, he cannot control his feelings but he did do his best to do what he thougth was best
guys are stupid, they make mistakes, everybody deserves a second chance.
it seems like he misses you like crazy, and you miss him. You two obviously have feelings for each other so take a chance. You can't see the rainbow without the storm, remember that.
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I'm actually in the SAME exact situation. Like, when you went out with him, in those months & stuff, like its just all exact. lol, & now I think he likes me again.. because he says stuff like that too..& i always wonder to myself.. well what would i say, if he did? & i tell myself, that i'd have to deal with the fact, he'd do it all over again. & if im willing to take the risk of getting hurt again..then i tell myself to go for it. yano? like if you like someone, then give it another shot. the most he can do is hurt you, but hey.. now you can be prepared for it this time. or, you could say.. like "Well, what about what happened last time? i don't want it to happen again.." i think thats what i'd say. haha
anywayys, good luck
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it depends on how much you like him, would you rather go out with him and get your heart broken again and be sad. I say no because for the sake of your well-being
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