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Question Posted Friday February 9 2007, 10:41 pm

well, im 15 and a girl. So there is this guy, let's call him joe. He's like perfect. He gets good grades and has a car and a job. The other guy let's call him mike is kind of like the bad boy in school. He does drugs and flirts with like every girl. I like them both alot. Is that bad? Should I go for the perfect boy or the bad boy? My heart is playing emotional ping pong right now. Thanks in advance. :)

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orphans answered Saturday February 10 2007, 1:59 pm:
Well...the one who does drugs sounds like a real keeper.

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LoveNJstyle answered Saturday February 10 2007, 11:24 am:
Oh man i had this happen to me before...i liked a "mike" guy foreverrr & after i started hanging out with "joe" more, i realized how much of an asshole "mike" could be. go for the guy that treats you right. bad boys are hard to get over, i know it but good guys make better bfs usually. hang out with both... you don't have to make up your mind now, give it time. <3

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teenagex3romance answered Saturday February 10 2007, 9:05 am:
whichever you like more but remember..
"you show me your friends and what they do and i'll show you who you are and what you do."

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birdladysofly answered Friday February 9 2007, 11:01 pm:
Well obviously he's not so perfect if you cant choose between the two of them-but also,u cant help who you like.Is it really serious or just a crush?but you already about the "MIKE" character so why put yourself through something that could leave you hurt or cause you pain in the long run...I say go for "JOE"

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andalixsays answered Friday February 9 2007, 10:51 pm:
The good guy seems like he would be better for you. But if you like them both, go for the one which seems easier to get. You don't want to get your heart broken when your prince charming was into you the whole time.
but if that doesnt satisfy you...
if youre going for a relationship, go for joe. He seems like the relationship type.
if you want a hookup, go for mike, i guess. or joe, either would be okay.

Oh, and i loveee the phrase "emotional ping pong." I might need to steal that from you sometimes =)

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karisue answered Friday February 9 2007, 10:48 pm:
you shouldn't base your opinions on how they act in public, get to know them for yourself. & stay single until you decide who you really can't live without.
its okay to like 2 different guys, actually ever since i was little my mom always told me it was a good idea to always have at least 4 guys, haha. you know, just in case.

but follow your heart & get to know them outside of school, you never know you could have their personalities backwards.

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