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Hey my name is Becca and im a down to earth gurl I love givin people advice and taken advice! I think im pretty good at givin advice because i'v been through alot in my life so i can relate to alot of different kinds of things! wanna know anything else just IM me @ xobecca18xo...Bye!
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Age: 15
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Member Since: January 15, 2007
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Last Update: January 18, 2007
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i turned 13 a couple of weeks ago and from my mums friend i got some mascara and eye liner, i really really want to wear them but iv'e always kinda been a 'mummy's girl' and never worn make up. she caught me out once when i had abit of eye shadow on and didnt really approve.
so my question is how can i wear make up and get my mum to understand that im a little more grown up now ?!? (link)
Hey...
If you want to wear make up and have your Mom approve I would suggest for you to stick with very light colors and don't pound your make up on, for example......You could use a very thin line of eye liner and a very skin toned kind of color for eyeshadow with a little bit of mascara. It may seem like a lot but trust me when you have it on it's really not that bad!
Hope I helped!

*Becca*


im a 14 year old girl about to be 15 and since friday i had my period but on saturday i jus keep feeling pain after i pee and its dang sore. im scared to tell anyone. im scared to see a doctor too. do i really have a bladder infection? or do you know what is wrong with me? well, im jus in pain always now. and i try not to pee cause its really sore to pee and jus doing nutting is painful too. i only use pads so i have no clue what to do? if anyone know, please tell me. (link)
Hey I know exactly what you have lol you got a yurinary track infection...its not as bad as it sounds its just when sum how you get bacteria down there and it will sting when you pee all you gotta do is go to the doctors and he will make you pee in a cup and he'll let you know you got a yuronary track and he gives you some medicine and you will be all set! its notin to be embaressed about and its nothin serouse unless you keep waitin to go to the doctors..oh and when you drink cranberry juice it helps out the infection!!!


theres this kid in my math class who is a COMPLETE JERK. i mean he's really rude to everyone in the class and the teacher and he does whatever he can to try to keep people from learning. like he'll sit there and bang on his desk forever and the teacher tells him to stop but he won't. and i was going to sit in a chair and he saw me, he just pulled it away from me and sat in it himself. he's also failing that class really bad because he doesn't even try to listen or do homework, or anything. (i don't really care about that it's his decision) but are the any ways to teach him a lesson and show him how much of a jerk he is so he'll just stop? also, please don't tell me to go to guidance or talk to a teacher because i already did and they talked to him but he didn't change. thanks! (link)
You really cant teach this jerk a lesson because you cant change anybody besides yourself...so when he does that ignorant stuff just try your best to ignore it and when he says rude stuff to you act like it dosnt bother you because that will only make him mad and just laugh it off make him feel stupid dont let it ruin your day!


so i like this guy.lets call him ryan. okay well we talk (mainly in the morning) and he seems to be having a good time. But sometimes it seems that he only talks to me as a friend.

During P.E. he talks to this girl, Nicole, LIKE ALL THE TIME!!!!! && i can see the chemistry between them. I tryyyy to act like Nicole. And I try to be myself. but its bacically come to the point that ryan doesnt like enough.

I try to let this go, but it seems to be hard lately. like theres some voice in my head that says stick with what your doing or something.(im wierd :] haha j/k).

My parents wont let me date. im 14..yeahh its insane!!I've tried lying..yeah doesnt work out. && i hateeeeeeeeee telling my parents/sister about boys.

OMG PLEASE HELLPPP (link)
Hahahha lol yea well i think if you really want him to like you then just be yourself all the way! and if he still isnt attracted to you then hes just not the right guy for you because he dosnt like who YOU really are but if your trying to act like this gurl nicole he wont be liking the real you anyways?? and if your parents dont want you dating then just be in a relationship but dont get seriouse!


This might sound like a strange question, but i'm confused. Alot of people say i'm "pretty" or "beautiful" and it's usually from adults. I know alot of people say that to be nice but one day I walked into a room where my parents were having a party and my mom said as soon as I left they all said i'm so beautiful. But when I look in the mirror sometimes, or I see a picture of me, I really don't think i'm that pretty. I mean, I admit i'm not ugly, but sometimes I just feel like I don't look like that. Also sometimes when I DO feel pretty, like when I dress up for a party, it's when I look in the mirror, but when I see a picture of me i'm like woah i look disgusting. Sometimes I look at myself and I look decent, then I look in another bathroom mirror like at a resteraunt and I think my nose looks big or my skin looks hideous. And also I liked so many boys but no one has asked me out? I don't know if it's cause i'm too shy? Boys talk to me and flirt and stuff but no one has liked me or asked me out! All my friends that are average people not stunning or have wonderful personalities have been liked by a boy. I mean I have been liked by boys in like elementary school but, um that doesn't count. I think boys don't like me because I have a boring personality, and maybe it's cause i'm kinda ugly! But I don't think it's that cause most of my friends just look average and boys have had major crushes on them. I'M SO CONFUSED! What should I think ok myself? (link)
Hey gurl dont put yourself down like that!!! a lot of times the way you act reflects on the way you look..if you sit there and tell ur self and every one else you dont think your pretty then other people will look at you like that too! so stop putting your self down and remeber looks isnt everything !! and you shouldnt care what other people think of you anyways! good luck!!! oh and that boy thing, just be your self and they will come to ya! just be real !!! hope it helps!




is it possible for me to lose 20 lbs. by march 15? i'm going on vacation and i wanna feel good about myself. i'm 5'4 165, and i know that's a bit much. what are some examples of good meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner, and 1 snack a day) for me to eat?

15/f (link)
Hey 20 lbs by march 15 is kinda pushin it dont make a goal to loose a certain amount because then you will just end up givin up so if i were you i would do this

breakfast-sumthin like a piece of fruit and 1 slice low cal toast

lunch- burrito or sandwich with low cal bread and a 100 cal pak like the 100 calorie doritos or sumthin

snack- anything 150 cal or lower

dinner-chicken portioned size with veggie

snack-anything 150 cal or lower

***just keep track of your cals and get a lot of excersize in like go for a 30 min walk every day or at least 3 times a week!


hope i helped if u want let me know the results!
im tellin you this will work!***


ok so i really like this guy but i dumped him cuz he was going to dump me but i still want him but hes going out with one of my good friends even though she said she wouldn't i think shes a backstabbing slut but shes my good friend and if she likes him i want them to be happy but i am still in love with him what should i do get him back and how or leave like it is him being happy and me being so lost and sad





luv ya like a sista (link)
Hey my name is Becca i seen your thing and i had to answer because this same exact thing happened to me last year and i would cry every night.....I liked this kid and we were going out but then i felt like he didnt like me any more and he was out flirtin wit so many other girls and shit so i was like im done and we broke up but then not too long later my good friend started going out with him and it broke my heart but i would sit there and act like i dont care even though she would talk about him every 2 seconds....but at the same time i wanted him & her to be happy so i figured the best thing to do was leave it alone...i thought to myself it aint like they are goin to get married and spend the rest of there lifes 2 getha so just wait but when i say wait i mean go out with other guys but at the same time keep your eye open to see if he's availabal but talk to him as much as you can in a friendly way and let him know u there for him... but at the same time dont look desprate...k write me bak if you wanna!




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