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I know this is stupid and I'm stupid but I don't know
Hello-sorry this may be long--will rate though
Well to start off I'm 15/f and sadly never had a boyfriend (that was real and truly "love") or a real relationship. And recently at school (I'm a freshmen so I'm meeting all these new people) but it almost seems like when I met a new guy I get a lil crush but then within a week or so I'm over it. Well, err I want to say Wednesday of last week my friend came over and we called some boys. (We called two boys one being my friend and the toher being her friend who's also friends with mine) So anyways all of us talked for awhile. And I was like hm my friends friend (the guy who well call Bob) seemed pretty cool. SO we went to the movies together him, my friend, and 2 other people, and me. I sat next to him we kinda talked thoughout the movie..he bought me a drink..and that night i was like slap happy. I had a really good night with him and the rest of my friends. So the next day which would now be Saturday my friend came over again and we called them and we talked. Then later that day he called me back on MY phone (usually he calls my friends phone) and him and I talked for ohh about and hour or so which i reallly liked. And then later that day I met him, "bob", at a school (which i had my father drive me too and pick me up from lol) and him and 2 of his friends and i hung out. And then from then on we've just talked like once on facebook. But see I don't know wether I like him for real or weather its just me being stupid wanting a boyfriend so ticking myself into liking him. And I want to call him but I read in CG! you should wait for him to call you...and ahh! I don't know what to do. Him, my friend, and another boy are hopeuflly hanging out this weekend. But idk what to do or how to tell if I like him for real or if i'm being stupid and faking myself into liking him cause hes just reall sweet. So if you could please just give me a little advise or something??
Thanks for reading and caring about my stupid boy problems =P
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i dont think its possible to trick yourself into liking someone. and it seems like you like him, and you guys get along..so it wouldnt hurt to hang out alone, and see if you like him as much as you think you do. also..call him! most of my guy friends and my boyfriend say they like it when a girl calls them first.
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Okay well first thing I would do is tell him you like him,it seems like he might like, but anyways. tell him how you feel and what has been going on and stuff,like tell him you haven't had true "love" or w/e yet and stuff. and tht you havent had a real bf. he will prombly understand but before you do this kinda give him a hint you like him likw flirt with him a lil more then ussally.Be like "Hey bob i need to tell you something,I think I kinda like you,and I had never had a boyfriend before I know that you might think its werid and stuff,but i was hoping you might understand,and not jugde me by that fact,and I have been likeing guys for a week and then not anymore,and I think that you I do like... and then see what he says.
hope this helps sweetie =]
&& I hope everything works out...
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Take a deep breath, and don't stress.
First of all, you had a good time with this guy and he was fun to be with. So what if it's not True Love? As long as you're honest about your feelings, there's no reason why you can't go out with a guy that you're not head-over-heels about.
Don't pay attention to anything the magazines say about relationships. I guarantee that not one author of any of those articles has ever met you or Bob. How do they know what's going to work for you? Call him if you want to. Not only would you be returning the favor (he called you first, after all) but it's a nice ego stroke for a guy when a girl calls him. Just tell him that you hope to see him this weekend.
A relationship doesn't have to be deep and intense for it to be worthwhile. It sounds to me like Bob would make a great First Boyfriend - he seems nice, he seems interested, you have mutual friends and you don't have your whole heart invested so it's less likely to break.
Besides, who knows what the future holds? Sometimes love happens over time.
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you should totally go for it and CALL HIM! CG doesn't know what they are talking about with that, this is the twenty-first century, women call their guys/guys in general all the time. if girls waited for the guy to make a move, nothing would ever happen, because lets face it, they are CLUELESS! and, as for the possible faking yourself into liking him, you'll never know untill you get to know him better.
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