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what would you do..
Say theres this one girl that you like alot [this is a friendship question by the way.. im not gay.. or something] but sometimes she can be really slutty & kinda annoying.. & none of your other friends really like her too much.
but your other friends love you & you like them alot too. you have alot of fun with your group of friends & do alot more with them & are just more like you.
But, the other girl.. doesn't have very many friends, & you feel bad ditching her.. just to stay w/ the other friends.
what would you do?
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You could explain to her that her behavior is making you reconsider your friendship. Keep track of some specific things she has done and tell her how they make you feel. If she says she wants to improve, tell her you'll help her if she really does make an effort.
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tell your friends and this girl what you told advicenators
CONSIDER IT
♥ Flaggal
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Hey, I'm Gabby, I'm 16 years old, so I understand about friend problems or questions, so if you ever need anything you can talk to me. I think you're a very good person by not wanting to leave the slutty girl out of the loop. That's really nice of you. If I were you, and the slutty girl doesn't have many friends, I would just try to maybe talk to her, spark up some conversation and see if you guys have anything in common. If you do, which will be likely, I would become better friends with her, which might just happen naturally. Eventually, eventhough you may not believe this, you could really change her. Like, if she hears what you think and about your views and opinions, maybe she will learn that what she does is wrong. And plus, it's hard, but what your friends think doesn't really matter, I'm beginning to understand that better as I get older. Hope I could help!
Gabby
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well sweetheart. i've been there and i know what your going through. my friend was like that, but she grew up, i mean just give it sometime. or you could take a break from this girl for a little bit just to see how it goes.
but if you like her alot i dont think what your friends say should be an issue.
good luck love <3
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i would plan a day or weekend out like to the movies or shopping jus for the two of us to have fun.
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tell them the truth that you feel bad for her and you dont want to ditch her becuase you aren't like that.or something like that but if you really think this girl as a friend tell her tht she should stop being all sluty and maybe she would get some friends and stuff like that but dont sound like a meany. try and sound nice and likke you care and she will most likely care.
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