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I like someone else, he just got out of a relationship
OK well,
I have feeling for someone who's 2 years older, and I've had these feelings for a little while. But then on Friday, one of my best guy friends just got out of a wonderful relationship that ended terribly. And we had this party afterward for my other friend, and me and this guy were dancing. He was like you know, holding my wastes, and crap, really close, and I didn't mind it, well, because I love dancing, with guys. And now I sorta think I have feelings for him, but if we were to go out, I couldn't only because I can't get over the guy thats 2 years older. I mean the guy thats 2 years older doesn't even talk to me, but for some odd reason I still care and think about him all the time. And I sorta like the guy I danced with only because he's sweet and more my age. So I don't know what to do with both of them.
2 years older-I just super like him
my age-I have a way better chance with him!!
HELP!
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The guy friend seems like he needs a coupla weeks and try. But I say the older guy is too much of a mystery to date.
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You just need to think about the good and the bad of each. When I want to get over someone i think of the bad qualities. I usually end up being disgusted and never think of them again. The older guy seems to have no interest. I honestly would go with the guy your own age. But you have to decide that, not me. You need to sort out the good and the bad and see which one is more important to you.
I hope this helps
xoxo
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The one older than you, sorry to say it and not all older guys are like this, but some older guys look at younger girls and think of them as "fresh meat" or "Easy" and you deffiently don't want that to be your title. So, my advice to you would be to choose the guy more your age, but give it more time since he just got out of a relationship. Start hanging out with him more often and since you're best friends with him, treat him well and just make sure he knows you're always there for him. Eventually, spark up the idea about you two going even further in your relationship. As for the older guy, just try hanging out with him too and getting to know him, but my advice would be to just stay on the friends level. I hope i helped. =]
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