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This in regard to my mom and the jewelry and the purses. I feel if she asks me "how many necks to I have" or "You know they will have different styles next year" that she is criticizing me for buying as many as I do. And she only does this when I bring up the subject of the jewelry, or purses. All my friends tell me I am reading into her remarks and all she is doing is either teasing me or making conversation. What do you think - do you agree with my friends? (link)
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Thats just how moms are sometimes. Dont take it personally. Maybe she's jealous because you have more purses/jewelry than her. People are jealous far more than you would think, Im beginning to learn. And over stupid stuff too. Either way youre an adult its youre money spend it on whatever makes you happy.
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hi im 14 f and my bf is pressuring me into having sex but again not married ad it totally against my beliefs and i cant let him get to me wat shud i do? (link)
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Definitely wait!!! Just give him an ultimatum, if he wants to be with you then he needs to respect your beliefs. Tell him its making you really uncomfortable with him and you might have to break it off if he doesnt stop pressuring you. Too many risks are involved in sex just to go around giving it to guys because they ask for it. Tell him you dont want to end up getting an STD or getting pregnant, that should scare him.
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i finally found out why im so quiet and dont talk anymore! last year my best friend was so loud and outspoken and she helped me become like her. i wasnt afraid to talk to people and she helped me come out of my shell (and also made me popular) this year at the end of the summer we got in a fight so i didnt talk to her. i wasnt around her anymore so i stopped being loud and now im back to being a quiet nobody. we are out of our fight (yay!) but we havent hung out for 4 months and i wanna hang out with her because she was the one who made me come outta my shell and be LOUDDDDD. i wanna hang out with her, but i cant randomly go up to her since we havent hung out so long and be like HEY LETS HANG OUT TOMMOROW! i want to call her up this weekend and hang out with her but how do i do it? we havent talked in sooo long! (link)
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Yeah the same thing happened to me once, just call her up you have nothing to lose. The worst thing she's gonna do is not talk to you, and thats already happening. The more time that goes by that you dont call her the harder it will be. Try to find something you think she would really like, like a movie that just came out or something, and use that as an excuse to call her. Just say "Hey, I heard about this movie and I thought you would really like it, want to go see it?" or something so you wont feel stupid just randomly calling her.
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when you have to take a physical for school and you're given a urinalysis (piss test)do they check for drugs without request?
I've heard that they do and they don't,and I would like a straight answer from someone that knows for sure. (link)
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Some places do but not all. Im sure you can probably call the school or whatever they should be able to give you an answer if you straight out ask them (dont give them your name).
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17/f/usa. my fiancee' lives overseas where he works. and i know it's hard on him for us to be separated, but hopefully he's comming for a visit soon. anywayz, he has an ex that he was really close with. i mean it seems that they would have been soul mates. She knew EVERYTHING bout him, even if he didn't. well he got sick and he doesn't deal well with being ill, so his ex's mother was supposed to take care of him cuz she's a doctor,but his ex ended up doing it instead. she tries really hard to get back with him, and even offers and tries giving him "special gifts". he was in the shower and she stepped in with him and tried to seduce him but in the end, he didn't do anything with her, which i am very very thankful for. but im worrying that maybe she or some other girl will be there for him when he needs it and it won't be me, so he will go for them. i know it sounds stupid, but what should i do? i don't want to loose him, and i know he wouldn't cheat, but he and his ex were really tight, and i don't want her to succeed in seducing him. plz help if you can:) thank you (link)
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There are two possibilities...I mean he is obviously telling you about all the things his ex is doing, so he's honest. But by telling you either he is trying to make you jealous/get your attention, or on the other hand he really wants to be with her and he's just being honest with you. By all the details & stuff he has told you about her coming in the shower, trying to seduce him, etc, it seems like he is just trying to make you jealous or get some attention. Personally I wouldnt deal with his ex hanging around like that so if its bothering you then you should really put your foot down and tell him how you feel. If youre engaged then a lot of difficult stuff will come up in the course of your marriage so you need to be able to tell him how you really feel about all this. I mean if she was just a friend or if she was being respectful of your relationship then she wouldnt be acting like that, she obvoiously has very little self respect and you should tell him you dont appreciate it.
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