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i finally found out why im so quiet and dont talk anymore! last year my best friend was so loud and outspoken and she helped me become like her. i wasnt afraid to talk to people and she helped me come out of my shell (and also made me popular) this year at the end of the summer we got in a fight so i didnt talk to her. i wasnt around her anymore so i stopped being loud and now im back to being a quiet nobody. we are out of our fight (yay!) but we havent hung out for 4 months and i wanna hang out with her because she was the one who made me come outta my shell and be LOUDDDDD. i wanna hang out with her, but i cant randomly go up to her since we havent hung out so long and be like HEY LETS HANG OUT TOMMOROW! i want to call her up this weekend and hang out with her but how do i do it? we havent talked in sooo long!
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Yeah the same thing happened to me once, just call her up you have nothing to lose. The worst thing she's gonna do is not talk to you, and thats already happening. The more time that goes by that you dont call her the harder it will be. Try to find something you think she would really like, like a movie that just came out or something, and use that as an excuse to call her. Just say "Hey, I heard about this movie and I thought you would really like it, want to go see it?" or something so you wont feel stupid just randomly calling her.
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I had a situation like that and only i was on the other side i think that you should just slowly start to talk to her and make up about the fight so it doesnt happen again.
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Well, since it has been a while, I think you should apologize. Say an i'm sorry and explain why you argued with her. Don't give excuses. If you miss her, do it for a friend.
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