Gender: Female
Location: PA
Age: 14
AIM: Blondy101sadvice
Member Since: December 13, 2006
Answers: 10
Last Update: February 2, 2007
Visitors: 1478
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(freshmen)at school i have no friends it not cuz im weird it is because i just dont fit in anywhere there are many cliques and i dont fit in is because i came from a different school area and because i am in advanced classes i still dont rele no anyone, all my friends from my middle school went to different schools but we r still tight. the thing is i have been very depressed over that all i do is hw i dont participate in school activties because i have no one to enjoy it with and i cant join clubs it is too late and i also feel very different because i am black and go to a prodominant white school i dont no wat to do, my other friends are also dealing wit this problem i feel rejected so the question is how so i become accepted in a world where i feel rejectedand also does this get better as i further my high school education (link)
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I think you should join activities because that is how you meet people. If it's too late i think you should go to your guidance counselor and explain your situation she will get you into something you want to do and why not join spring sports. I am also a freshman and i didnt realy have friends i just had to join some things i liked to do i made friends who share the same interests as me.
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ok. so i have a vagina that smells like pee and i wipe myself very good. could it be becasue i dont have my period ? im just concious about it cuz im afraid at gymnastics people can smell it. cuz i can smell it alot.
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I think most likely it means your going to get your period soon, most likely they can't smell it . You can always smell it because you knows it their... i went through something similar.
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ok so i'm 15, bi, and there's this girl at my school who's also bi. she's experienced and is currently with a senior. The thing is, they've only been going out a couple weeks, the girl she's dating is a senior who is not pretty or interesting or anything, and i'm pretty sure she's just going out with her to get back at her ex. Anyways, i like her soooo much! i've never been with a girl, but she's the only thing i think about! unfortunately she's a year and a half older than me! sometimes i feel like she likes me, but we're just kind of mutual friends, we have a class together and talk once in a while but have never hung out alone or anything. Well anyways i'm just wondering whether i should tell her? or not. and if so, should i wait till i get back to school in january or should i tell her on im or something this week. My friend is also friends with her, soooo should I:
1. tell her myself over break
2. tell her when we get back to school
3. see if my friend can talk to her and maybe hint that i like her
4. not tell her at all and try to forget about this because i have no chance with her
5. or not tell her just flirt and stuff- and if you think this is the best option, give me some tips please (link)
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I think that you should suggest to her that you hang out over break and i think you should tell her or you will spend your time thinking what would she have said if i told her i liked her
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I am best friends with this girl at my school. I tell her every thing! Whether it's necessary or not, I tell her. However, when I even try to tell her something, she is always getting interrupted by her friends. It bugs me!! I could be in the middle of telling her something important, and her friends will walk on by and change the subject, then afterwards she completely forgets we even talked! In some cases, she will even forget I am in her presence. She says her life is under stress, which I completely understand. I give her space when she needs it, I give her advice when she asks for it, and I support her in every thing! Also, she never tells me what is going on in her life though. We have been best friends for years, and she rather would tell someone she only known a week over me. The only way I can figure out what's going on is from eavesdropping (bad, I know!) and asking questions to her other friends. But when I talk to her, she never brings it up. She says she thought she told me, and she says that for all of her excuses. Some times she acts like she doesn't even know me well. I could sit there and cry and she'll assume I just 'had a bad day', and usually doesn't question it, unless she really sees something wrong. I really care for my best friend, but I am wondering if it's her fault, or if it's something else.. and what could I tell her??? I don't want to lose her, but I really want to change our friendship and to get it better.
Please help!! Thanks (link)
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I think that after school one day just go to her house and tell her you need to talk with no interruptions and basically tell her what you need to and help her get through all the stress
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I just- dont know how to make friends.i feel pathetic saying that,but really,its the truth. i have no idea how to start convos,act normal and just have fun and join in. no idea. and everyone seems to be so uncomfortable(sp) around me. i dont think im ugly..and i doubt that even matters. but i was kinda in this group and now im just there,i dont mean anything to them,only 2 i really talk to. its like if i left it wouldnt matter. i dont know how to open up,and i really need help, what can i do so nothing is akward?i really want friends who care. it seems so easy to everyone but me. i just feel like dont belong anywhere. i dont even know how to take the first step,if you've been through this,can you please help? i really appreciat it. i also need advice on being friendly and not makeing things to akward/makeing people feel uncomfortable,i love it when i make people smile,but it barely happens.please help & thanks. (link)
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I think that if you join a club or something you like to do than you are bound to have to talk to people and Im sure thats what people will also talk to you. And the 2 you talk to they could introduce you to their friends i was in the same situation and i now have way more friends because they like to do what i do.
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Okay so i like this guy alot. And my friend is in a school activity with him. Everyday she comes home and calls me saying "Oh yeah me and Frank had a great time in band. He told me all sorts of stuff." then in school ill be talking to him and shell go "Hey frank remeber yesterday we..." ive adressed it to her more then once and shes agreed to stop. I know she doesnt like him, because she told me who she likes. But she keeps on doing it! Shell be like "oh you weren't there, Jane" and ill be standing there like an idiot. She knows i like him. What should i do?
HELP!!!!!!!!!!
-Jane (link)
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Maybe you should just tell this kid you8 like him and then maybe he will be more interested in you then her
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i finally found out why im so quiet and dont talk anymore! last year my best friend was so loud and outspoken and she helped me become like her. i wasnt afraid to talk to people and she helped me come out of my shell (and also made me popular) this year at the end of the summer we got in a fight so i didnt talk to her. i wasnt around her anymore so i stopped being loud and now im back to being a quiet nobody. we are out of our fight (yay!) but we havent hung out for 4 months and i wanna hang out with her because she was the one who made me come outta my shell and be LOUDDDDD. i wanna hang out with her, but i cant randomly go up to her since we havent hung out so long and be like HEY LETS HANG OUT TOMMOROW! i want to call her up this weekend and hang out with her but how do i do it? we havent talked in sooo long! (link)
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I had a situation like that and only i was on the other side i think that you should just slowly start to talk to her and make up about the fight so it doesnt happen again.
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17/f/usa. my fiancee' lives overseas where he works. and i know it's hard on him for us to be separated, but hopefully he's comming for a visit soon. anywayz, he has an ex that he was really close with. i mean it seems that they would have been soul mates. She knew EVERYTHING bout him, even if he didn't. well he got sick and he doesn't deal well with being ill, so his ex's mother was supposed to take care of him cuz she's a doctor,but his ex ended up doing it instead. she tries really hard to get back with him, and even offers and tries giving him "special gifts". he was in the shower and she stepped in with him and tried to seduce him but in the end, he didn't do anything with her, which i am very very thankful for. but im worrying that maybe she or some other girl will be there for him when he needs it and it won't be me, so he will go for them. i know it sounds stupid, but what should i do? i don't want to loose him, and i know he wouldn't cheat, but he and his ex were really tight, and i don't want her to succeed in seducing him. plz help if you can:) thank you (link)
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Obviously he has no interest in her because he is with you and i think obviously you love him and you just need to trust him on this one talk to him and make sure he knows how much you love him and that you trust him not to do anything with her.
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okay well i know this guy let's call him "Dan". And we've made out and done some things but we weren't even in a real relationship and i told him that i wanted to be in one and that i wouldn't go any farther until we were in one. He tells me he wants to be friends with benifites and i'm all like no because i just can't stand those relationships. It's either you're with me or not. Then he tells "forget you then." And so i'm all like what ever i can find a better guy who'll respect me. Then when i was walking home he waited for me. The moment he saw me he walked towards me and was all like "sup?" I roll my eyes and walked past him like what ever. He was all like "you're just gonna walk away form me like that?" And i was all like yea.Then i just had to ask "why would you lie to me." because he said he'd never hurt me.The n he played stupid like what do you mean? and he asked if he could walk me home and i said i guess. but i was still mad. we talked and he said that he wasn't ready another girlfriend. So i'm all like ok that means we're not going to be anything. Then we went back to his house to talk somemore and he was all like we can kick it in the bathroom. and i'm all like wat? But we did and he said that his ex and him faught too much so he doesn't want commitment right now. Then i told him if we were in a F/B relationship i'm gonna get hurt again because he'll probably cheat on me. Then he tells me he swears he wouldn't and he hasn't ever since he's met me but i don't know if i can trust him.
So Please Help i don't know what to do, if i should drop him or stay with him.
Thanks! (link)
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Ive been in that kind of relationship dont do it because technically its not cheating on you because right now you are a booty call and i think you and "dan" should be friends for a while and maybe then you can become more than tht
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i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now (a year on the 1st of january) and i love him to death. we broke up for a few weeks before the summer, & he was talking to another girl. once i found out about that, i felt this sudden urge to cheat on him. well maybe it was just because i knew someone was around to cheat on him with. but whatever. one day after school i had this boy ben* come over. ben* is basically a major player, & i didnt know that when i met him.. anyways, this was the 1st time me & ben even talked outside of school & he ended up having sex with me. my boyfriend called my cell phone right after he left & i felt SO guilty. my relationship got back on track with my boyfriend.. & 5 months later, i called up ben & hung out with him again.. and cheated on my boyfriend again. this time it was because he wasn't paying enough attention to me. and here comes the worst part. i hung out wiht my friend carlene & her boyfriend dan the other night.. and dans 21 year old cousin kyle came with us. i ended up on top of him making out wiht him (is that illegal!? i`m only 15)..me & my boyfriend have sex without a condom because we trust eachother & i`m on birth control. i found out a month ago that i have recieved HPV from ben* and now my boyfriend also has it from me. i need to break this habit .. i may not have the best boyfriend.. but i do love him.. & i can't use cheating to get back at him when he upsets me. its just not fair.. & i realize that.. but i need to control myself. (link)
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I think that you need to tell him the truth if he really loves you and wants to be with you he will understand and forgive you and its not illegal to make out with someone over 18 only to have sex with them.
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