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i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now (a year on the 1st of january) and i love him to death. we broke up for a few weeks before the summer, & he was talking to another girl. once i found out about that, i felt this sudden urge to cheat on him. well maybe it was just because i knew someone was around to cheat on him with. but whatever. one day after school i had this boy ben* come over. ben* is basically a major player, & i didnt know that when i met him.. anyways, this was the 1st time me & ben even talked outside of school & he ended up having sex with me. my boyfriend called my cell phone right after he left & i felt SO guilty. my relationship got back on track with my boyfriend.. & 5 months later, i called up ben & hung out with him again.. and cheated on my boyfriend again. this time it was because he wasn't paying enough attention to me. and here comes the worst part. i hung out wiht my friend carlene & her boyfriend dan the other night.. and dans 21 year old cousin kyle came with us. i ended up on top of him making out wiht him (is that illegal!? i`m only 15)..me & my boyfriend have sex without a condom because we trust eachother & i`m on birth control. i found out a month ago that i have recieved HPV from ben* and now my boyfriend also has it from me. i need to break this habit .. i may not have the best boyfriend.. but i do love him.. & i can't use cheating to get back at him when he upsets me. its just not fair.. & i realize that.. but i need to control myself.
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I think that you need to tell him the truth if he really loves you and wants to be with you he will understand and forgive you and its not illegal to make out with someone over 18 only to have sex with them.
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you got yourself in a pretty sticky situation. If you really loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't have cheated on him. you can't keep doing what you're doing. either dump your boyfriend all together, or tell him EVERYTHING. dont leave something out because you think it makes it sound worse. Put yourself in your boyfriends position. what you're doing isn't fair, nor right.
you didn't even really ask a question...
i gave you my advice. tell him, and if he really loved you, you would forgive him. i don't care if you rated me a 1, i gave my advice.
hope i helped
xo
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Save you and him. Dump him...All you're going to do is cheat on him, and its not fair to him. Especially since you gave him HPV. Control yourself by looking outside of you. WHat are you doing to people? What good will come of what you're doing? Wheres this going to take my life? If I keep this up, how long will I actually be around.....
If you need help were all here...
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