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sorry this is long, last night i dumped my bf, john, after 9 months of going out and i said that i didnt want to go out with anyone for a while, later that night i was with my friends and they called the hottest guy in school and he said he wanted to go out with me so now im going out with a hottie but i love john so much i dont know what to do i want to go out with john but im already going out with the hottest guy in school, i think im having a problem with letting go
please tell me what i should do i rate 5s for any answer
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well you have to choose whitch you would like to give yourself do you want the hottie you dont realy like or do you want the x bf you like ;lots its a matter of you and weather you want your head or your heart to be happy no one can realy help you on that you just have to look at the ups and the downs of both and itll work out
good luck
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Hottest guy in the school!!? Girl, I would LOVE to be in your shoes (considering I adore the hottest guy in my school...he is sooo hot) but...to you, it might not be worth it if you love John so much. Think of it this way- you dumped him for a reason. It just didnt feel right, apparently. YOUVE GOT THE HOTTEST GUY IN THE WHOLE SCHOOL! Okay, frock trying to be reasonable, stay with the hottie! After 9 months with him I'm sure you'll love him just as much!
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It might be too late...John is probably pretty hurt that you dumped him and went out with this guy right after. Why did you dump him in the first place if you still care for him so much? Try talking to John about it and see if he would even take you back before dumping the new guy.
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You should go out w/ John. If you love someone THAT much...looks shouldn't matter. Looks aren't everything, and if John loves you...that's better than any hot guy. Good luck and I hope I helped.
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Wow thats tough one. But ithink i can help.Maybe if you sit john down for a bit and tell him that when i said that i didnt want to date for while what i really meant was that i didnt want to be so committed liKE i was with you for a while. Im sorry but im seeing another guy. i am rel sorry that i got my words twisted, i hope we cna be friends. Try that. Good luck!
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Its all about following your heart. obviously, you love john, and i think you should be with him. I know that going out with the hottest guy in the school feels great, but you only like him for his looks. if you dont go back with john, you may spend the rest of your life wondering how it would've been like. you are not missing out if you go back together with him because there will always be many other hot guys out there to date after. but theres only one john:-)
*hope it helps*
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Well if you love John that much, you shouldn't have lied to him. You said you didnt want to date anyone for a while, yet you jump at the first hot guy that comes you way? That doesn't make sence. You really need to decide if you want to date or not, and if you do, go out with john, because you're being VERY dishonest.
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try too keep busy and your mind off him. IF he's going somehwere try not to go the same place. so yo could try the "ignoring" thing or you could just call him and talk to him and get out ow you feel.HOPE I HELPED
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Sounds like you're in a great relationship already??? You referred to two men in your question. One you referred to as "my bf john", "i love john", "i want to go out with john" and the other you referred to as "hottest guy in school"(x2) and "hottie".
You should ask yourself the question:
"Do I want to go out with (insert hottest guy in school's name), or do I want to go out with The Hottest Guy In The School"?
Answer that question and your path will be clear.
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