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need advice really bad and fast
my ex and I started to text each other for about 2weeks now after an ugly breakup. Right after the breakup she was texting me some nasty comments and calling me all types of names. I finally got sick of it and texted her back asking her to please stop and to say goodbye for good. Well the next night she texted me back saying goodbye. I replied saying goodbye again and said that if she really needed to talk to someone I would be around. Well she textes me back immeditely asking me all these questions about why did I cheat on her and this and that. Even though I never did, she had heard I did and just reacted without ever asking me. Well we went back and forth all night and finally hashed some things out. Well the next morning she texts me good morning and tells me that she has missed me and basically wants to start again but really take are time this time. i said ok and we started texting each other back and forth. Well one night I was telling her about my new job and she said that I would be able to buy her a pricie wedding band, or take her shopping.I thought she was joking but the next day she says the same thing. I told her I would not be taking her shopping anytime soon and she said she didnt want to go with me anywhere at all. Ok fine, well last night she texts me late asking me to go by her house because she was scared, apparently in the last month she has had her car stolen in front of her house, gone to court for something, had to buy a gun, and has a cop go by her house a couple times of week. I asked her what was going on but she wouldnt say. When we broke up she went around telling people that I wouldnt leave her alone and that we had never gone out, now I question why she wanted me to go by her house last night. Apart of me thinks she is trying to set me up? Plus one minute were texting each other back and forth and next she ignores me. What should i do I dont know whether to cut all ties or not.
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I've TOTALLY met people like that, and I think you should break ties with her. She sounds REALLY manipulative, and people like that wear you out emotionally and physically.
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This girl sounds psycho. Block her number from your phone, now.
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I agree with you. It really seems like she's setting you up for something. Maybe she truly believes you cheated on her when you didn't, and she wants that cop to see you around her house. I think you should ask her straight up what going on. Ask her straight-foreward if she's trying to set you up. If she says no, doesnt give you a straight answer, or says she doesn't know what you're talking about, I'sd stop talking to her until you got some real answers, and THEN consider having a friends-only relationship. Hope I helped. Good luck!
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