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should i really go out wit this guy?
okay this might sound dumb to some of you, but i have a friend named well lets say kristen well shes the type that if you like the guy she likes shes alright with it intil you start to go out with this guy then she like hates you and thinks your trying to ruin her life so shes pretty emo, well the other day she told me that this guy that is really hott that ive been watching named josh that he liked me, well she thinks i like this other guy but actually i like josh, i dont know if i should start talking to him and go out with him since we like each other or should i back off since kristen likes him?
please help. it might be dumb but plz
no mean answers
btw: 15.f
rate 5's
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you should talk to your friend first because the boy is worth a friend ship and then see what your friend thinks becuase you dont want to lose 2 friendships in the mean time because you feel bad(your friend and the boy)good luck hope it all works out for the best you seem like a responsable girl and a good friend keep the good work up
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Trust me when i say this...most girls are like that. If you really like this guy then you should go for him, but not before you talk to your friend about this. Ask her if she is ok with it. If she says yes, try to make her agree to stay cool and support you through the relationship. If she says no, then ask her why and then talk to the guy about it, and as a last resort, talk all together if you can.
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well theres alot of factors in this situation. who liked him first? guys come and go but friends will always be there for you. i dont think you should stop talking to the guy, but i do think you should sit your friend kristen down and talk to her 1 on 1 and tell her how you feel, and make sure she knows that you would have respected her and her feelings if you were in the opposite situation. tell her you value her friendship and dont want it to risk it but at the same time you want to persue a relationship with this guy. hopefully she'll understand. =)
-kristen :not the same one lol:
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Just go after who you like. :)
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Your friend seems very selfish. There are plenty of guys to go around. She can't like them all. If you like this kid, and he likes you..go for it. Your friend should get over it..You might want to talk to her about it first, so it's not a surprise to her when you start talking to this kid, or even going out with him. I think it's perfectly fine for you to go out with this boy, especially if you two like each other and he doesn't like your friend (in that way.) If you are kristen are really that good of friends, she will forgive you and not stay mad. If you need anything else, let me know. Good luck!
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