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E-mail: almybnenr88@yahoo.com
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Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out tonight and he kept tryin to like get into my pants, i don't mind because we've been doin that a few times and it doesn't bother me..but now i have my period and i don't want him doing that right now..what should i say to him to get him stop with out him being offended. i dont want him to think i don't want him to do anything any more..thanks (link)
You just need to tell him that you have your period and that you don't want to do anything while you have it! I'm pretty sure he will understand
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amber lynn


How do you burn calories? (link)
You can burn calories many different ways. It all depends on what you want to do! You can run and work out! There is a lot of work outs that you can do to burn calories..I just don't know them right off hand! Walking like once or twice a day will burn calories and many more things! Basically anything you can think of!
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amber lynn


I'm sixteen and I've never made out with a guy (or anything above that...and I only kissed once) is that a huge turnoff for a guy? I havent really had any boyfriends, but now I'm interested and I'm wondering will this scare guys off? (link)
I honestly think it would turn a lot of guys on! To most guys a unexperienced girl is the greatest thing! There are some guys that will find it a turn off but most won't!
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amber lynn


can you tell if your cherry has been poped??

thanks in advance..

i'll rate all 5 if your not a smart ass (link)
I don't really think you can tell! All I know is that you do bleed but like your body or anything doesn't feel different to you!
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amber lynn


ok well i'm a 16 yr old gurl and i just recently started going out with a friend of mine like 3weeks ago on thursday and i ador him......my first question is, is it weird that i might love him already? like i feel so confortable with him....and the other question is......i want to have sex with him...but is it to soon? like he knows i'm a virgin and he doesnt care to wait but i want to.

plz help i'll rate high
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I think that it doesn't really matter how long you've been dating to love someone! Me and my boyfriend wasn't dating and I knew I loved him! About the sex thing...that is totally up to how you feel inside! I would just think everything thru first! Make sure you both are doing it for the right reasons! If I was in your position I would wait just to make sure he really does want me and not my body! Its always a nice feeling to know that your man loves you for you not for what you have! I hope I helped you out a little bit
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amber lynn


i am about to go to a new school and i am worried that i wont make friends. aside from that, i am worried if i make friends they'll be with the losers or something. i changed schools because i didnt have any friends there and now i want a fresh start. any tips?! PLEASE help! (link)
I think you should just be yourself. Don't do anything to impress anyone or get into the "right" crowd. I hope you make the kind of friends you want to make! Hope I helped youu
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amber lynn


I plan on becoming sexually active soon. I am currently on birth control and we plan to use that AND a condom as protection. I was wondering if anyone knew the percentage of the effectiveness if both protection methods are used together? I know the chance of getting pregnant is really slim, but if anyone knows the actual percentages for the typical use of them (not totally perfect use), then I'd appreciate it. Thanks a bunch. (link)
The percentage of birth control if used right is 99% effective. You have to take it everyday around the same time! The condom is 97% effective is also used right! Hope I helped
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amber lynn


what are sign of pregnacy
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There is many signs of pregnacy. One is morning sickness, you can get it at anytime of the day! It just feels like your sick to your stomach and you feel as if your going to puke. Breast Soreness, Headaches: these are more common in pregnancy because of changes in hormones. You can also have vaginal discharge without itching or burning. Those are all the signs I know of! I hope I helped
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amber lynn


my question is how can you tell that guy is a virgin or not girl you can tell pop cherry but what about guys do they have some sign taht they are virgin? thx (link)
Boys really don't have signs that they are virgins! I would have never known that my boyfriend was a virgin if he didn't tell me! Once the time comes the boys do get nervous! Hope I helped you!
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amber lynn


my boyfriend wants to finger me and im okay with that but like what do i do while he's fingering me do i just sit there or what? (link)
You could do a lot of things during that..lol! Making out with him is a good thing to do! I don't think there is anything else you can do! hope I helped
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amber lynn


hey, do guys think it is gross when a girl cumms while he is fingering her or if she is already wet? have u ever cummed when a guy fingered you if so what did he do? (link)
I don't think its gross if a girl does that, it's a natural thing! I have before and he didn't really do anything! Hope I helped
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amber lynn


i know this guy and i think he is hott but he is one of the ones that you might not want a relationship with. But this has turned into a life or death situation. Today in 9th pd. he was all like "shit, ive been turned down way too many times and its pissing me off. I cant wait till i get home so i wont have to live this fuckin' life ne more." those were his exact words. Im sorry if they are a little... how would you say... explict? ne wayz. there was a point not too long ago that i was considering telling him i would go out with him. that feeling passed. but i dont know if i should go out with him or not. We are like bestfriends and i really dont want him to kill himself! I rate hi! (link)
That is a very tuff situation! I don't think you should ever date someone out of pity@ If you do date him and end up not liking him, and he is really attached to you than you breakin up with him in the long run might make him feel that way. I think you should talk to him about what he said and tell him that he doesn't need someone to be happy. If he still is all like I'm gunna kill myself than you should go to the school counseler, they can't tell him who said anything so your name will be safe but he really does need help! I really hope I helped you
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amber lynn


ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and 1 week he wants to have sex im 14 hes 15 have we been going out long enough (link)
Usually boys at that age always want sex! I would wait a little longer than 5 weeks! You have to feel comfortable about these things and if he is pressuring you, you need to get rid of him! Your virginity is a precious thing, make sure he actually wants you for you and not your body. Be careful darlin'
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amber lynn


My friend can be so bossy and mean sometimes and she gets mad at m for everything i hate it. We've known eachother since first grade so i dont want to ruin our friendship what should i do?
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Dear miss bossy:
You should let her know how you feel! It doesn't mean you have to ruin that friendship but just let her know it bothers you! If she gets mad at you for it than she wasn't really a friend to being with! She might just want someone to boss around and she thinks your the person!
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amber lynn


okay so like my boyfriend wantsta make out with me... and i really wanta make out with him too! but i havent really made out with anybody before so im scared because im scared if i make out with him im not gonna know how and hes gonna think im dumb or something... i really wanta makeout with him but im not really sure how to do it... lol!!! what should i do!?!? (link)
Dear my boyfriend:
You just need to go with the flow! It will come to you! I was the same way and thats what I did I just went with what he did and it worked out good! Hope everything turns out good
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amber lynn


So i have a boyfriend we'll call him B. but theres this guy that ive gone out with 11 times.. we'll call him K. Me and K have been through so much together and we're kinda always going to like eachother. Me and B got in a fight the other day and i was talkin to K about it.. me and k talked for like 5 hours about everything thats been going on and he wants to hang out this weekend. I don't know if i should break up with B and see wut happens with k or if i should stay with B and just try to forget about K because we've already tried going out so many times.. help please (link)
I think you should stay with B! If you and K have dated so many times I don't think you should hurt a relationship with B to try for the 12th time! Maybe you and B just had a difference and it will get better! You never know unless you try! But don't lead either of them on with your choice!
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amber lynn*


theres this boy and he liked me last year and asked me out.i told him i was taken but i would still like to talk to him.i broke up with my boyfriend over the summer and he knew about it.then he agian asked to go with me.i told him that i see him more s a friend.now is the new school year and my friend Diane thinks this boy is kinda ugly.i dint think he's ugly and neither do my friend Brittany.now i kinda like him and he's is still trying to go with me.even though looks arent important to me at all i dont want my friend Diane saying shit about him or me. should i just forget her and go for it or do you think a friends opinion is important (link)
Hi! You should deff. take the chance with him! Your friends should be happy for you no matter what! Maybe she thinks he is ugly because she likes him and knows he likes you, so she thinks if you think she thinks he is ugly you won't go for him so she can! If that makes any sense! But if you do like him than go for it don't let what anything thinks get in the way of your feelings! Looks aren't everything, personality is and the way the person treats you! I hope I helped you!
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amber lynn*


So ok i had sex um like two weeks ago....Down there is kinda like all red and it looks like someone like burnt the first layer of my skin off. See after i had sex it got real ichy(i thought maybe he cut me with his finger nails down there does that make you ichy?) But today after my shower i seen that there was like a lump but its like a pimp but its not one its just a blister looking type thing. I herd from people he had STD's and he does fuck and isnt safe...Are thease signs of a STD? (link)
Hey! You do have signs of an STD! You need to go to your doctor or a clinic and get it checked so you can get medicine! If you do have a STD you need to call the guy and let him know! be careful! I hope I helped you
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Amber lynn


Okay, I'm on birthcontrol. But, when you're on bc do you have to use a condom? And can he cum inside you and you still be safe? I"LL RATE 5's!!! (link)
Dear Birth Control,
Hi! Birth control is 99% effective, but you should still be using a condom! Birth control isn't effective to STD's. If he cums inside of you and your on birth control I don't think you will be safe! Your best bet is to stay on your birth control and use condoms to be 100% effective! Just keep in mind not all STD's are able to be protected by condoms! I hope I helped
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Amber lynn


my bf just broke up wiht me, and i am throwing up cuz of it, and i also can't breath wen im crying. what can i do to help? (link)
Hey!
First you need to calm down a little bit! When I was in 9th grade my boyfriend of 4 months broke up with me (at the end of the school year) so I feel your pain! I was in the same position as you! What I did was try not to think about it and be around positive people in my life! Try to think that things will get better! Think every positive! Thats all I really did! I'm so don't good with break ups! I always do what you do when i get "dumped" which has only been 2 times! But I do understand what you are going thru and honestly you need your friends! They are your people you need! They will help you thru anything! I promise! Hope everything turns out well and I hope you can rely on your friends!
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Amber lynn




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