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boyfriend and bestfriend
theres this boy and he liked me last year and asked me out.i told him i was taken but i would still like to talk to him.i broke up with my boyfriend over the summer and he knew about it.then he agian asked to go with me.i told him that i see him more s a friend.now is the new school year and my friend Diane thinks this boy is kinda ugly.i dint think he's ugly and neither do my friend Brittany.now i kinda like him and he's is still trying to go with me.even though looks arent important to me at all i dont want my friend Diane saying shit about him or me. should i just forget her and go for it or do you think a friends opinion is important
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I think you should go for it. If your friend doesnt like what you are doing, then she probably is not a good friend. Why should you respect her opinion if she isn't going to respect yours? If your friendship with her is really valueable to you then talk to her and tell her that you like him and you dont care how he looks.
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forget about your friend's opinion. if you like this guy then you should go out with him. looks don't matter at all to some people. and if they do then they shouldn't. its about being with the person. not staring at them all day. hope i helped.
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To answer your question... it is a little weird, but don't worry so much about what other people think... if you like this guy and he likes you, go for it. Trust me.. you could regret it later on.
You're the one that's going to be going out with him. Not her.
Her opinion shouldn't matter.
If you like him, go for it. If she doesn't like it, or talks junk about the two of you then she's not a real friend and you need to let her know that right away.
good luck
xoxo
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No not weird just confuse say you were confused but now your set straight dont worry about it he will understand
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Okay, I've learned something...I went with one of my boyfriends because my friend said that we'd look cute together. I ended up dumping him 3 days later because I just didn't mesh with him. Now in matters of the heart, friends opinions do not matter. Now you friend only commented on his looks and as you stated looks don't matter. If he's a great guy, then she'll warm up to him, besides you're the one who has to date him. You better like him. So I say go for it, otherwise you could later regret missing an opportunity.
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Your friend is shalow. She doesnt think the same way you do about looks. You care about whats on the inside, and thats what matters. You have to tell your friend that she has her own opinions about him, and so do you. Go for it, and if she talks smack about you then forget her, cuz thats not what a friend should do. Good Luck Hun!
~Brina
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♥ Its just a boyfriend I've went out with guys that my friends think are ugly before..and it didnt break me n my friends up.If your friend stops talking to you all becuz u go out with somebody that she thinks is ugly then she wasnt you friend in the first place
x3-Janee'
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Tell your friend how you feel about it..
because she shouldnt trash talk anyone.
Also tell her, what comes around goes around.
karama has its ways. So dont worry.
<3
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Who cares what Diane thinks? She's Diane. You're you. We all have different types. Maybe she just likes half-black half-Asian guys with long blue hair and orange eyes. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It's none of her business who you go out with. She will probably go out with guys you think are scum but that's none of your business. If you end up losing her over it, well, that proves she wasn't that wonderful a friend.
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Hi! You should deff. take the chance with him! Your friends should be happy for you no matter what! Maybe she thinks he is ugly because she likes him and knows he likes you, so she thinks if you think she thinks he is ugly you won't go for him so she can! If that makes any sense! But if you do like him than go for it don't let what anything thinks get in the way of your feelings! Looks aren't everything, personality is and the way the person treats you! I hope I helped you!
always
amber lynn*
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Ok if you like him I think you should go for it. Personally I don't even get why you would care what this girl Diane says. If you like him than you shouldn't care what this girl thinks. Just ignore what she says. And just tell her to shut up because you like him. And looks arent the only thing that matters to you. Next time he asks you go for it. Say yes. & Forget what everyone says. If you like him just go for it ! hope I helped <3
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