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I have use pads ever since I first got my period and I have never even thought about using a tampon. I think I want to try them, but I have heard very bad things about them. I heard they hurt when you put it in, and that they can give you diseases. I am really confused on what to do. Should i just stick to pads?

naww. try tampons. trust me, they are a million times easier. it hurts the first couple times you take them out, but otherwise after that its fine. and you can get toxic shock syndrome if you keep one in too long.. but that's very rare. just remember this.. would they sell something on the market that would be really bad?? thanks xxo

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Ok so theres this guy and he used to act like i was his girlfriend and i was totally ready for him to ask me out but he never did he just acted like he did... confusing i know haha and he knew i liked him.. so anyways homecoming is next week and i don't have a date i wanted to go with him but he hasnt said anything about it! How do i bring it up so he'll ask me to homecoming or even better ask me out!

(homecoming is friday october 14th.. so i need help quick, especially if i'm gonna make a garder)

thanks guys, and please don't give me a gay answer, its just rude and annoying

well i think that you should just go up to him casually and be like "are you going with anyone to homecoming?" it should click in his mind that you are about to ask him. if he says yes, then say "oh well i was just wondering if you had any friends that would want to go with me" or something like that so it wouldnt look embaressing. hopefully he would say no and you could be like "well would you wanna go with me?" good luck and hope i helped!!

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is the new iPod Nano worth buying?

i dont have it, but i would probably think that it is. lots of my friends have ipods [not nano] and i have a mini and they all work great and are really worth it. so my guess is that it is probably worth buying. they are so cool and really small. hope i helped.

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im getting headachs alot and i recently got an ipod so i have been listening to that alot.. could it be that? also i heard if you dont blowdry your hair, you end up getting headachs.. i wash my hair everynight and i dont usually blow dry it ..what could cause these headachs?

yes it probably does. i listen to my ipod a lot and it causes my ear to feel numb. just take some advil or something like that before you listen to it or when you get one. hope i helped.

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my best friend and i have been friends for four years now. she started dating this one guy, and they have been dating for over 5 months. at first, i was fine with it because she never really had a boyfriend who treated her so well, but lately she has been choosing him over me, a lot. but not only that, i'll ask if she wants to hang out, and she'll invite him to places with us without even asking me. and then they'll do there little couplely thing and im standing there like a retard. i get sick of being the 3rd wheel sometimes. i always picked her over my boyfriends, and i dont expect her to never spend time with her boyfriend but i do think it is okay to leave some time for a friend?! personally, i think she needs to choose: boyfriend or best friend.

wow. i cant agree more that she needs to spend more time with you. i feel exactly the same way about my friend except they have been going out not as long. just let her know. have her over to spend the nite. he definately can't come then. and maybe if you can, tell her that you'd like to have some more one on one time. hope i helped.

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Well for about 2 weeks so far I've been skipping breakfast and lunch and only eating a snack and dinner.My wrists are really skinny but my moms are 2.And my friends are really worried about me.They're always trying to shove food down my throat.What could happen to me if I keep eating this way?

not to bring you down, but you'd probably eventually become anorexic and be very ill and sick. trust me, start eating and listening to your friends. you do not want to get anoriexia, it solves nothing and could cause you do die. trust me, i've heard many stories about this. hope i helped.

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ok ok i KNOW this is going to sound REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY strange to everyone out there but ive been feeling really strange latly. i feel like god is trying to tell me something or im soposed to do something...something BIG! i mean i just have a strange feeling and my heart is constantly beating fast and hard and i space off just thinking about it. even my friends have noticed that ive been acting weird lately. its scaring me. so what should i do? is this just my imagination or am i really soposed to do something in my life?

if God really is trying to tell you something, you dont need to worry about understanding it. if he wants you to know something, he wants you to be able to know about it. hope i helped.

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hey i was thinking of changeing my hair brown idk why but i do but i dont know which is better do you people think blonde is better or brown is also if i keep my blonde i was going to go get highlights what do u people think?? thanks

i think you should keep it brown. its much more original, even though blonde can be cute. you might want to get some slight highlights if you want to, but make sure to keep it as close as you can to your hair color becayuse you dont want it to look too definate. hope i helped.

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where are some places you can get MUSIC CODES (not video codes) for myspace? It'd help a bunch! thanks!

www.hotcodez.com

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does anyone know many years you have to go to school in order to be a psychiatrist? not a psycologist . . a psychiatrist. thanks you very much*

my dad went to school for 13 years.. and he's a pshchiatrist. but he went to engineer school as well for four years. so i guess 9 years. you haved to do normal college, medical school, and redisency i think. hope i helped.

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theres this boy and he liked me last year and asked me out.i told him i was taken but i would still like to talk to him.i broke up with my boyfriend over the summer and he knew about it.then he agian asked to go with me.i told him that i see him more s a friend.now is the new school year and my friend Diane thinks this boy is kinda ugly.i dint think he's ugly and neither do my friend Brittany.now i kinda like him and he's is still trying to go with me.even though looks arent important to me at all i dont want my friend Diane saying shit about him or me. should i just forget her and go for it or do you think a friends opinion is important

forget about your friend's opinion. if you like this guy then you should go out with him. looks don't matter at all to some people. and if they do then they shouldn't. its about being with the person. not staring at them all day. hope i helped.

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Is it true that if you drink a lot of water at night you'll look healthier and your eyes will not look so tired in the morning??also...is there a such think as drinking TOO MUCH water? thanks!

i think that it will make you healthier. water is good for your body. yes there is such a thing as drinking too much water, but my dad said that people who did that usually have mental problems. so you probably won't have to worry about that. hope i helped.

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I have so many things going wrong with myself. But I am not sure if I am sick or not. There are so many explanations out there for everything that I don't know anymore. Here are a few things.
1. I cut, usually about 2 times a month.
2. I wash my hands and clean obsessivly until the tension goes away that I feel beforehand, and if I don't do this then something bad will happen.
3. I pull out the ends of my hair on urge.
4. I feel tension and stress about everything.
5. I have hallucinations throughout the day. I see presence that I know isn't there and I think my mind plays so many tricks on me.
6. I have suicidal thoughts.
7. My mood can change from anything. It cam change if someone makes me mad, or I think about the past, or it can vary from a position I am in like the way I am sitting or standing or talking can put me in weird moods.
8. I am so tired all the time and get depressed easy.
9. I think someone is out to kill me all the time.
10. I am very withdrawl and find it hard to express myself.
11. I have a hard time dealing with getting close to people and intamicy.
12. I have alot of fears of being rejected and feel like I am a failure all the time. That Im not important.
13. I have lost alot of weight over the past year due to lack of eating.(eating issues)
14. I find myself crying for no reason sometimes.
15. I suffer from sleep paralysis and have obessions with evil things.
16. I am never happy during the day or during summer. I think I might have seasonal depression in this area.

See, so many things are wrong? I am so confused and I can't think straight. I want help so bad, or some advice on what's going on.

it sounds to be like you have manic depression or something. i'm probably wrong, so don't take that seriously. probly not OCD. see a doctor. they can tell you what is wrong and give you medicine as well. hope i helped.

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What are the causes of hysteria and manic depression?
I think I might have it.
I am frequently having hallucinations and my moods are always changing. I feel like I have a split personality at times. One part of me is happy at times, another is so depressed and suicidal.

i don't know anything about those, but i was just gonna tell you that you should see a doctor. one of my friends lost a mom to manic depression by suicide. a phyciatrist or phycologist would be good. my dad is a phsyciatrist so i can understand.

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Okay, My name is melissa, and i'm fifteen. Theres this guy at my school who keeps calling me fat. He says that i'm obese and that i should just stop eating!!! The problem is, that i'm 5,4 and i'm 105 pounds. I dont think that's fat, and all my friends say i'm stick thin....but, i dont know. If he calls me that, do other people think that? And...if not, how do i get him to stop?

Please help! I rate high!

~Melissa~

i would listen to your friends. they're the ones that will tell you the truth. honestly, you don't sound fat at all! i'm skinny and i'm 5'5 and weight 110. he might be flirting with you.. but that sure is a mean way to do that. maybe he's not.. but just ignore him. if your not fat then people won't call you that. hope i helped.

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my cramps have been so bad all day its horrible i cant focus on my homework. what can i do/take. i dont rlly have ne special stuff like midol. but like advil nd tylonal type of stuff ;).

thank you. i rate. bye

midol or aleve should work. i dont take midol but i take aleve and that really works. take two in the morning when you have your period. hope i helped.

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My friends are always saying that when you go to heaven your always happy....but am i the only person who thinks that would suck? I mean think about it. There would be no excitment, no enthusiasim, no love, there wouldn't even be hate or sorrow...which i think we all need a little bit of. Am i the only one who thinks this way?

I'll rate fives for your thoughts!

~Melissa~

i know that its hard to believe that you will be always happy when you are in heaven. but really, we will be. we cannot even understand how happy we will be. i cant imagine it either. we just have to have faith and know that god will do the right thing. he made us right?? i mean, would you rather go to hell? its your choice.

hope i helped.

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Im 13/f

There's this guy I really like. Last year, we were really good friends, especially since we had all our classes together. Now we're in the 8th grade, we have NO classes together (grrrr)! I barely see him during the day. Now we've kind of spread apart. What can I do? Do you think Instant Messaging could help in any way?

i think that it would help. also try to smile at him or talk to him in the hallway between classes. there a guy older than me that i like and i never see him because he's in high school [a year older]. so next year i wont have classes with him either. just try to have some small talk. hope i helped!

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ok i am a 14 female and i want to start wearin tampons for PE bc i have to start PE but my MOM wont elt em she says,"no you shouldnt be puttin things up there" and i told ehr i had to for PE and she goes that she will talk to the PE teachers herself and not make me go swimmin but the thing is she thinks THAT I AM TOO YOUNG TO WEAR THEM. she said " ur a lil girl and your body is still developin and shouldnt be puttin that up there" what should i do? do you guys think i am to young to wear one??

not at all. i was 12 when i started my period and started wearing tampons immeadiately. make sure she knows that pads are messy and that you have to change them all the time. you are not too young. and tampons are made for people our age and over so it is safe to put them in you. and once you get used to them [after a couple uses] you can not feel them at all. hope i helpeD!

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I have been pulling out my eyebrows for over a year now, non stop. It's everyday. Beforehand I feel a certain tension(anxiety), it gets overwheliming especially when I am stressed out. Sometimes I pull for no reason while watching tv or such and then in the middle Ill catch myself doing it. So I stop for a few minutes then find my hand traveling back up to pull again. It's so pleasurable to feel the hair be pulled from my brow area. But now since it has been a year I am really wanting help with this, it looks horrible. I can't stop, it is just like cutting its a release of tension and helps me feel better at the moment. But now if I try to let them grow they grow all scattered out and are very course feeling which makes me want to pull at them even more because I cannot stand the prickly hairs. And when I do pull them out they have black roots and are very oily at the roots, I am afraid I have permantely damaged the folicle. what are some ways to help them grow back faster and better looking?

hey. i know exactly what your talking about. i haven't experianced it, but my dad is a phsyciatrist [spelling?] and he says that he's seen patients that have this problem. you might want to talk to your parents about this. i bet there's some medicine for it. hope i helped!

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