14/f & im a freshman this year - my question is do the uperclassmen [guys] even like look at the freshman? do they think we're like little and dorky and stupid? because wow alot of the upperclassmen are gorgeous, and i wanna like approach them and stuff in my classes but i don't wanna look dumb
thanks
Honestly, it depends on the individual. As a junior, I can say that I look at girls of any grade. The guys that are going to treat you like dirt are (usually, not always) are the football players, etc. (Probably the most "gorgeous" ones... lol.) The goal is to not act intimidated, but don't act cocky; let them know you're comfortable with being in highschool and meeting new people, but don't act like you run the place, they do. Just be relaxed, be yourself, and don't focus entirely on going out with them or anything. Just try to be their friend, and things should be fine. I hope this helps (even though it's not organized advice at all, haha), sorry if it doesn't. Good luck.
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why do private questions not count against your average. i think its kind of unfair because i always get 5s on private questions and lowwer scores on open questions.
but thats not all actually. sometimes.. my private questions do count but thats only when there low!
any help & ways i can fix this!
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Well, they probably do this so a friend can't ask questions just to give you free 5's. That way, you only get rated on advice to people who post public questions. Most private questions aren't major anyways. =P Good luck.
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okay well i have a biiggg problem. i kinda have 2 boyfriends. ik befor you start telling me imma skank or w.e just listen. so i have been going out with this kid for almost 4 months.. hes 17 *im 13 and we dont care about the age difference* but im in ny and hes in fl. so yeuh there is problem number 1. so i was at the movies with my friend her bf and his friend and my friends bf's friend asked me out and i said yes because i was SOOO mad at my other bf because that day he hung up on me THREE times and he was calling me liek an asshole or w.e and this other kid who just asked me out is reallly cool and stuff. so now that i sit here and actually say i have 2 boyfriends ik i have to dump one. but i do not kno who. its tearing me apart inside nobody knos how bad this is hurting me. if my bf from florida lived in ny i would deff dump the other guy.. but i REALLY love him. ugh i do not kno who to chose. puhlesz no smart ass answers. puhlesz hurry. i rate high!
I've been in this situation... on the side of the long-distance guy. Long distance relationships in general are painful... you have to have absolute trust, absolute confidence in your partner. Personally, I think you need to talk to your boyfriend in Florida. Tell him that you need to work your differences out because if he was there with you, you'd definately choose him. Tell him how much you care for him. Tell him that you need to have absolute confidence and trust in eachother (even if you already do). If he listens and agrees wholeheartedly, I'd say stay with him. Let the other guy know that you think he's really cool and really nice, but that you have another interest that's been around longer. (Don't have to elaborate on this.) If your Florida boyfriend refuses to talk or doesn't feel he can meet these terms, let him go. One last piece of advice that I may offer you... you may choose not to follow this. In my experience, the long distance girl just cut me off without telling me why. It was a horrible experience to have someone who says "I love you" often suddenly tell you to shut the fuck up and die. She still hates me, and it still kills me. So don't cut either of the guys off cold without some sort of explanation; I'm sure you'd want the same done for you if you were in their shoes. Good luck.
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ok so im really scared because i have been to the hospital before because i had a kidney infection and the pain came back again. So i went to the hospital yesterday and i had 2 wee in a pot! Floating in the pot was something white!!!! what is it? it was like a blob of thin cloth but so small. They gave me medicine and said i have an infection what if there is something wrong with me? It can't be a std because i have never had sex in my life. Im 17/f what is it? i will rate you high for some help on answers.
I'm sorry, I'm no health expert, so this advice is solely based on what I can conclude... I've seen bateria growing in things of food I've left around the house (heh heh), and when they grow in a liquid, they resemble a white film. It may have been some baterial growth coming out. I don't know if this is impossible, but it seems like it could happen with a kidney infection. Best bet is to do whatever the doctors tell you, they're the ones with the M.D.s. Good luck.
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Okay, I'm curious as to what you all think about this.
My boyfriend tends to travel in the summer. The summer between 11th and 12th grade, he went to Vegas. The summer after that (this one), he went to Florida. Both times, I cried quite a bit (I also happened to be PMSing both times, I think, but I'm not sure if that actually has anything to do with it). On saturday, he left for Florida again, for college. This is the start of (essentially) a five-year separation. I know this, and it upsets me...but I didn't really cry. I mean, there were a couple of tears, which he adorably wiped away, but there weren't like..."storms of tears", as a friend would put it. I really don't understand why I'm not more upset about him being gone. I won't see him until mid-December, and I'm used to seeing him quite a bit. (We're a very clingy/touchy couple)
We're engaged, so I'm not worried about him going and finding some other girl. He was only home for about two weeks, one of which I was stuck at school for, so I only got to see him for...well, threeish days (I kidnapped him, kinda, and kept him in my dorm), and then about four hours on friday before he left.
Shouldn't I be more upset that we're separated?
I think part of the reason I'm not is because I told him to go. He's going to Full Sail, which I hear is an incredibly good tech-school-type-place, and I wanted him to go and get a jumpstart on his career. I don't do regret, so I don't regret telling him to go, but I miss him...
But at the same time, I'm not upset...like...at all.
What's going on in my head? (Not that you can actually answer that...but you can try, right?)
Please, no stupid answers or chatspeak. I'll only rate you down.
-Siren =)
I've experienced something like this myself, only to a lesser degree. I think one of two things have happened, or possibly both. One, maybe you've simply become accustomed to the seperations; I know this next one is going to be long, but you're still slightly ready. More likely, though, I think the relationship between you two has matured into a deeper love. I get this impression from how you want him to jumpstart his career... you're really planning a life with him (haha, you're engaged right?), which is awesome. The bond between you two is now stronger enough to easily last the time. You're lucky to find someone you can mutually love so deeply. I hope the seperation doesn't go too bad, I hope you two are really happy. :)
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In a quick summary i will tell u my little but big problem.
I have a date on saturday with a guy i like a lot and its our first and yah i prob wont see him that much caz he lives like a half hour away but
okay tha last time i kissed someone was in april and im kinda scared like i know something between me and this guy is going to happen. but how do i play it off and have him not know that im an inexpierance kisser?????
please help me
As a guy, I can tell you this much: for the most part, guys don't judge girls on how they kiss. But here's some basic tips I have picked up from friends etc. First, if he has to wipe his mouth afterwards, it's no good. Try not to make it too sloppy. Don't go instantly for the open mouth; just put your lips to his, and pull open your mouth JUST slightly. If he does the same, go for it. If not, you don't look too pushy. But most of all, just RELAX. Don't think too much about it! Hope I helped even a little, but I doubt it. =P Good luck.
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I'm in 8th grade and I REALLY need a science fair topic/project/idea!! I'm in a high school credit course so, make it good! THANK YOU SO MUCH! I rate high.
Here's something I'm doing for my physics project now... You'll have to do a little research, but it will DEFINATELY impress the judges if you can show them this; it's junior level stuff! Basically, the idea is that you get a quartz crystal radio. This kind of radio doesn't use a battery or any other power source, it gets its energy from radio waves! If you tie a long copper (or gold if you can afford it) wire to it and connect it to a lightbulb or other device that uses minimal electric current, you can actually generate energy just from radio waves. That means you're creating power out of thin air! You could have a small scale version of it with a chart explaining interesting facts, like how long the wire would have to be to power, say, a small city. (It'd have to be huge, haha.) Anyways, this may not be what you wanna do, but maybe you'll like the idea. Good luck!
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