Question Posted Wednesday September 14 2005, 8:14 pm
14/f & im a freshman this year - my question is do the uperclassmen [guys] even like <i>look</i> at the freshman? do they think we're like little and dorky and stupid? because <b>wow</b> alot of the upperclassmen are gorgeous, and i wanna like approach them and stuff in my classes but i don't wanna look dumb
thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Improbable answered Wednesday September 14 2005, 10:22 pm: Honestly, it depends on the individual. As a junior, I can say that I look at girls of any grade. The guys that are going to treat you like dirt are (usually, not always) are the football players, etc. (Probably the most "gorgeous" ones... lol.) The goal is to not act intimidated, but don't act cocky; let them know you're comfortable with being in highschool and meeting new people, but don't act like you run the place, they do. Just be relaxed, be yourself, and don't focus entirely on going out with them or anything. Just try to be their friend, and things should be fine. I hope this helps (even though it's not organized advice at all, haha), sorry if it doesn't. Good luck. [ Improbable's advice column | Ask Improbable A Question ]
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