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Fat or Not!
Okay, My name is melissa, and i'm fifteen. Theres this guy at my school who keeps calling me fat. He says that i'm obese and that i should just stop eating!!! The problem is, that i'm 5,4 and i'm 105 pounds. I dont think that's fat, and all my friends say i'm stick thin....but, i dont know. If he calls me that, do other people think that? And...if not, how do i get him to stop?
Please help! I rate high!
~Melissa~
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could it be that this guy likes you just tell him it bugs you
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i would listen to your friends. they're the ones that will tell you the truth. honestly, you don't sound fat at all! i'm skinny and i'm 5'5 and weight 110. he might be flirting with you.. but that sure is a mean way to do that. maybe he's not.. but just ignore him. if your not fat then people won't call you that. hope i helped.
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105!! you are far from fat hunny! i just think he also may like you too
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Isn't it sad? I would guess that you are not fat because i have a friend who is like your height and is 110. This girl is very thin. It's also hard to tell from your info because you could be muscular for all I know. You really shouldn't think anything of what this kid says!! He's maybe trying to get attention or annoy the heck out of you. You only have one life to live so don't spendit caring about if people "think" you're fat!! Just ignore him and maybe laugh with him. That will defeat the purpose of what he's treying to do!
Xo.:Ariele:.oX
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no way, 105 is like nothing
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you are not fat at all! and some guys are asses and they use these New* frazes that are like fag, fat, fatty and all that. Just ignore it because he's probably the fat one anyway. But yea your around the normal weight so dont listen to him.
<3 simone
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Well first im in 7th grade i weigh 66 pounds but i am stick thin and i am only 4'5.... your way taller then me and my friend is tall and wieghs 117 and is STICK THIN!! So you must be as flatt as paper. SO what you should do is just ignore them. Dnt look sad or mad just ignore them and keep on doing what your doing and if theyy keep bugging u get revenge or something on themm if they dont stop 4 a real longg time get revenge somehoww.
Hoped I helped
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he has problems
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You sound really skinny, im 5'2 and way like 115 and i know im not obease so u cant be fat... hes acting hecka stupid...
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Darling, I bet you anything he has the biggest crush on you!
But if thats not the case, why not shoot him back with a witty retort such as 'Im cute, Im not fat, and unlike you I actually have things to do in my life.'
If he keeps on at it, just try to ignore him. People like that are just NOT worth bothering about.
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You are NOT fat, you are very thin.
It's just a well-known fact that if you want to insult a girl, any girl, just call her fat. No matter if she's nothing but skin and bones... or if you don't even have any idea what she looks like because you've only talked to her on the internet, she will still get insulted and upset. So it's the all-purpose female insult, don't take it personally.
By the way, it's possible he likes you but he feels that you are out of his league so he insults you to make himself feel better.
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Well, according to this Body Mass Index calculator I am looking at, it says you are fairly thin for your height. If you want to see for yourself, go to www.am-i-fat.com And is this kid whose saying your fat, fat? Because if he is he's obviously just jealous since you're so skinny. Or he likes you. It is proven that guys pick on girls when they like them. But anyway..Don't let him get to you.
I hope this helped =]
X_Amanda_X
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Clearly the boy is either blind, or just an asshole.
You may not be Paris Hilton, but 5'4" and 105 pounds is skinny to me. You are actually underweight. According to this site: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
You are an 18. You need to be 18.5 in order to be average. This is just according to the site.
So what you need to do is punch the kid in the face, kick him in the balls a few times and tell him to stop being an asshole. You're not fat, he's probably insecure about what's not so big on him. =)
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You are DEFINITELY not fat at all! haha I'm 5'3 and about 100, and i'm one of the smaller girls in my grade. 105 is really thin for being 5'4. Don't listen to him. Guys get a kick out of making fun of girls and making them self conscious of themselves. He's just being dumb. Just tell him to knock it off becase you know you aren't fat and its not getting to you. I have learned that guys will only keep doing something or saying something if they know it bothers you. and if it doesn't bother you, or at least they dont think it does, it will get old to them and they will stop.
hope i helped!
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Don't listen to that guy! He's just being a Jerk - when the fact is, he probably thinks HE'S fat...guys are stupid about things like that - they dont think about what they say! i'm about your age, and another thing is, he might like you, and thats the only way he figures he can get your attention. So just ignore him! wish ya luck!
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youre definately not fat..!! that weight is perfect for your age and height! dont worry about him..and just try to ignore it! hes trying to get a rise out of you but in return act like it dosnet bother you at all! if it keeps getting worse then maybe talk to a teacher..but dont worry at all about being obese, because youre NOT ♥
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Well your efinatly nNNOOTT fat, so who cares what they say? As long as your not self concious then it doesn't really matter. At the most you could be is a little chubby--but isnt almost everyone, and anyways hes probably just tyring to poke fun at anyone who seems sensitive..hope i could help
Good luck!
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Wow! This guy sounds like a little asshole. You're not fat at all hun, you're perfect. Don't worry about being fat because you aren't one bit. If you are happy with your body, then so be it. Don't let him bring you down. All that matters is you are happy with yourself. Guys at that age are immature and sometimes they do this because they like a girl. (I know, weird way of showing someone they have feelings for her.) But when they do like a girl, they tend to tease them a lot. He could be doing that, or he could just be a major asshole. He knows this is getting to you and that is why he keeps it up. Once he knows what he's saying to you isn't bothering you, he'll stop saying it. So just ignore him.
♥ Krissy
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what a total JERK!!! 105 for your age is a wonderful size!! you are definetly not fat....i highly doubt other people think that about you, if he doesnt stop soon just tell a counselor or tell him that he shouldnt waste his time in life telling people whether their fat or not....he sounds extremely stupid
Good Luck
~Steph
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stick up for yourself girl.tell him to shut the fuck up. i have no idea why he would be saying that unless he likes you cause your skinny as shit.please dont do anything stupid like stop eating or something cause you would be crazy if you do that.you would be like mary-kate.if you want him to stop you need to make him stop
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He could be saying that because he likes you but tell him that you are not fat and if he keeps saying that to you you can tell him to lose weight or dont let it bother you cause you no that hes wrong
hope i helped
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well if you think you are fat.. if YOU... you should do something about it.. but if you think you are fine ... than you shouldnt care what this guy thinks.. and well My friend Amber is like you and she is really skinny so I no that you are skinny.. so I hope that helped ....
Xo Melanie oX
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definately not fat. At 15 this is humour of the highest order to boys. If you look skinny this will make it even funnier to them to call you fat (boys are WEIRD :)).
Ignore and wait until they grow up enough to realise the best way to get your attention is to grovel at the feet of your gorgeous body rather than tease you about it.
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this might help..you put in your info, and it'll tell you if your normal, obese, or underweight. i ran yours through and it says that you barely make da "normal" because your so close to being underwight..check it out yourself
[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
so you can tell that boi where 2 shove it!
ppl are not stupid...they wont think your fat cuz of sum blind ass
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Babe, you aren't fat at all. Guys are jerks like that and he probablly says it because it bothers you soo much. The more you show him you care the more he will do it. He is immature and just won't learn. He is probablly the only one who thinks that so don't listen to him at all. Sometimes when guys like you they will tease you like that. So, the next time he does that just laugh it off and come up with a smart comback and insult him once or twice.
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yah, you are skinny, and definately NOT fat! you should ignor him. if you say something back ro show a reaction, then he is getting what he wants, he is getting a rise out of you,and that is his satisfaction, so dont do that. if you dont do anything, then he will most likely get bored and move on!
anything else? just ask!
Im always willig to help!
-Kelsey-
:)
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You are by no means fat.
Maybe this guy likes you or maybe he is just an ass. Tell him to get a life and then ignore him. :)
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