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i go to a private school and its really small. i'm in 8th grade and next year i'll be going to a public school for the first time. i know i'm ready. i'm smart so that won't be hard. and all my best friends are going there, and i know lots of people that go there. and i'm planning on playing tennis. but do you think there is anything that i should watch out for/look forward to or anything else i should know? (link)
well im in 11th grade, and i just moved from an ultra small private skool, to a very big public skool. and its rili not bad at all. but i do think you should go in and scope out your klasses, and make sure you kno how 2 get around your skool, bcuz dat was rili da hardest part 4 me...i kept tryin 2 get 2 a staircase and endin up outside! lol...goodluck


I have golden brown hair (dyed ) , green eyes and a fair complexion (with some pink tone in my cheeks).I wish some advice abour coloring my hair . I want a change but I don't know how to do it. I think that black it isn't quite good for me (my natural hair color is dark ash blonde )..What do you think about highlights ?Please , please , give me some advice . (link)
well i kno a few girl who have blonde hair wit red and black highlights...or red wit black and blonde highlights....anyway try a bunch of diff colors.....i kno it souns kinna funni , but it looks amazing
gd luck


can anyone help me with a new sn? my nick name is bree.. i like x33 and my number is 22 now it dosnt have to do anything with the number but usually i write bRee x33 but as for now that sn is taken.. can anyone help? it doesnt have to do with my name or anything.. i juss need a new sn.. that was juss a suggestion.. ahh!! i rate high! (link)
umm you could check out this website which has tons of kool things on it...includin a whole section on screen names
www.mess.be

i luv it...dere soo much stuff on it
gd luck :)


okay, theres this kid im friends with in school. i think its the only reason i go.

and i have a bunch of friends, i dont like talk to them alot as much as i think of this boy.

and i heard from one of my firends that he likeds me because he stars at me in class..

and also he is in my gym and when ever i have to run a mile or so hes like "RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN!" really loud. and to no one else (its foloowed with my name)

so i think i like love him? what do you think? (link)
like? yehh....puppy luv? maybe......love love? no way

you are no way in love with this boy...your too young 2 kno real luv, although it may feel like that.

gd luck


Okay, My name is melissa, and i'm fifteen. Theres this guy at my school who keeps calling me fat. He says that i'm obese and that i should just stop eating!!! The problem is, that i'm 5,4 and i'm 105 pounds. I dont think that's fat, and all my friends say i'm stick thin....but, i dont know. If he calls me that, do other people think that? And...if not, how do i get him to stop?

Please help! I rate high!

~Melissa~ (link)
this might help..you put in your info, and it'll tell you if your normal, obese, or underweight. i ran yours through and it says that you barely make da "normal" because your so close to being underwight..check it out yourself

http://www.cdc.gov/nccdphp/dnpa/bmi/calc-bmi.htm

so you can tell that boi where 2 shove it!

ppl are not stupid...they wont think your fat cuz of sum blind ass


Ever since I've met this guy, and went out with him, dating people has slowed down for me. I went out with 8 guys last year and this year only 1 because all I do is think about him. I really want to start dating different people but everytime I want to forget about him, I get a sick feeling and think that I DON'T want to forget and not have feelings for him because I want to be with him soooo bad but he likes another girl. We still talk though. Is there any advice? should I forget about him or go for him? I'll rate fives for every answer except smartass ones!! (link)
well i know how you feel bcause i have the exact same problem...i just stopped talkin 2 him as much, every once in a while a "hey wats up" but dats about it. i found dat evry time i talked 2 him id get dpressed bcuz he has another gurl meanin I CANT HAVE HIMm which made me want him even more. so now i dont get reminded of him all dat much...it'll prolly b rili hard 2 just stop talkin loadz cuz your so used 2 it..but trust me it helps...plus witout da constant reminder its easier 2 start takin notice of all da other guyz around..i kn your prolly like " i dont want any1 else" because dats how i was...but honestly just gradually reduce the amount of time you spend talkin 2 him and in a while if you dont find any1 else and hez single..who knowz??
good luck and lemme kno how it worx out


I'm not relaying my whole story, but why do girls have to be such whores and bitches in junior high and high school? (link)
ignore dem, dey end up pregnant, single, and workin at mcdonalds, rili fat and ugly.

statistics show that your friendz from high skool you 4get, its your university friendz dat count. and since university is filled wit more of a selection findin normal ones shouldnt b 2 bad


my friends gf broke up with him and hes really depressed and shes such a bitch to him was and still is im like forget about her u can do some much better hes like no i cant! im like watever yea u can i dont knw wat to tell him (link)
make out wit him...dat'll work


I have to go on a diet of strictly about 10 apples(or more) and 6 water bottles(and more) per day for 3 days. Do NOT ask why; but I'm a HUGE eater, so ive been having really really bad urges to eat other food. I mean i will stand there and stare at cooler ranch doritoes qiestioning my will power, i just want to eat good food so bad! Soo bad! What is the world can i do to resist these urges to eat good food??!
Thanks for anyone who tries to help(and fives).

xxAnixX (link)
herez a thought: dont spend hours starin at doritos!..try doin other stuff 2 occupy urself.


Ok i know im kidna old but I had a babysitter kind of coem ovr after school till my dad comes home. Shews was 21 and really cool, im 13. Last week she left and i was really sad i cried, i know this is wierd but do you guys think im over reacting. She came everyday for 2 years. (link)
No i dont think you are overreacting...i mean after seein her everyday for two years you'd get used to her being there and when suddenly she stops things would feel weird and wrong...it'll take some time to get used to it, but noone said that you'll never see her again, do you have an email adress or a phone number? try stayin in touch that way...in a couple of months you'll completey forget...


okay so im best friends with this girl. we always get into really stupid fights and stuff and she ALWAYS talks about me behind my back, or even when im looking straight at her. tons of people in the school hate her and always ask me why im best friends with her. she also treats me like crap, uses me, and walks all over me...everybody tells me that. except for some reason i keep making plans with her. ive never really said anything bad about her, except when we got in this huge fight last week. i was talking with her on the phone with her boy-toy (this guy who shes obsessed with whos just usuing her) and then i say brb and i set down the phone and when i come back i hear her saying to him "omg shes so annoying she acts like 2 different people like when shes with me shes like omg i love you bff and then when shes around the popular people shes like eww i hate you" (and ive never done that...and its not like theyre the popular people we're really good friends) and then i confronted her about it the next day and she denied it, then i told one of my good friends (who hates her) the whole story, so she bitched her out for me...then she comes like storming into our class and tries to bitch ME out...and we made this huge scene so then we didnt talk for 2 days and everyones like to me good job she treated u like shit dont make up with her (even tho when we get in fights like we make up the next day) so then she called me like the night after our fight (it lasted a few days) and she was sobbing and like asking for forgiveness so im like ill think about it...then she was talking shit about me more the next day and i was just watching her and she knew i was watching so it pissed me off..so we kinda made up but we dont talk anymore..should i just forget her completely or start hanging with her again? (link)
Forgive her? are you kidding? It may feel like since you were best friends its wrong to just ditch her but YOU DONT OWE HER A GADDAMN THANG! forget her and enjoy your other friends...trust me the only reason she's asking for forgivness is because she needs you to be her friend and give her power...move on and dont waste your time...
good luck!


My life is running on a basis of two things-acting and writing. There are (obviously)other things in my life, but these seem to be my strongest activities. I have had major roles in plays and have been very sucessful with writing as well, winning a $125 prize, a newspaper contest, etc. They are both things that I love doing and are good at, and find it hard to decide hich one I shopuld focus on. I would really like to choose one so that I may start to try out for plays or write for the paper or something, but I find it hard to decide. I am a straight A student, so grades shouldn't be a problem. Please help!
~WILL RATE 5'S!!!!~ (link)
Wow! you must b rili talented...I understand that you would like to focus on one major thing but if you love both of them i dont think you should stop either...mayb you could try to mix the two together...like writing scripts for plays to act out. I definatly think that you should try out for plays, and in ur spare time if u have a moment or two work on a story for publication. Its rili refreshin to hear about sumone who is rili focused on pursuing the things they love...good luck and keep me posted on how things turn out!


Ok well im a singer and i sing in like coffee houses and stuff. Well i sing like country music and the 2 songs i always sing are Whiskey Lullaby with a guy and God's Will, and whenver i sing them i always start crying and i dont do a good job, how can i get over this? (link)
I think you should either try not to think too much about the words of the song,just sing the words without relating to them, or just practice it enough alone in your room so that you get used to the words and they seem less sad.
Good Luck


I graduate in 3 days, and my parents wanna know what I want for my graduation present....

Any Ideas? (link)
Hmmm....a new car? Or is there anything that you always wanted to do but never got around to it? like skydiving or something?


Okay, here's the deal: for my socials project, our teacher asked us to pick a section in the book and do a presentation on it. I picked a section that describes how war started in Vietnam, and how the soldiers got enlisted and about the suffering, and the nurses i.e. He does not, though, want us to take the easy way out and use a board with pictures on it to seal the project. We may use visuals, and get this - we have to be a character in that time period. So I have to be someone in the 60s. I have a few ideas - to be a nurse recalling the event with pictures [maybe powerpoint], or a reporter making a documentary about it. Does anyone have any ideas? Anything would help, and its good if you speak from experience too.

I appreciate it! =) thanks. (link)
Hey Daliahead!!!
how are you? Missed you at school today!...Why is your cellphone always turned off?!
um lets see...geography...Mr.Vroon eh? don't u just love him??:p..i dont know I think You should use a poem written about the war...
xoxo
randahead




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