Ever since I've met this guy, and went out with him, dating people has slowed down for me. I went out with 8 guys last year and this year only 1 because all I do is think about him. I really want to start dating different people but everytime I want to forget about him, I get a sick feeling and think that I DON'T want to forget and not have feelings for him because I want to be with him soooo bad but he likes another girl. We still talk though. Is there any advice? should I forget about him or go for him? I'll rate fives for every answer except smartass ones!! <333
craziixobabii09 answered Tuesday September 13 2005, 6:39 pm: Alright i had the same problem. Talk to him about it and see if theres any hope for you guys in the future if he says no then forget about him i kno its easier said then done but you can do it.. it'll take a while but once you start dating someone else he wont be on your mind as much and ull slowly start forgetting about him.. it works believe be the only way to forget a love is to love another. [ craziixobabii09's advice column | Ask craziixobabii09 A Question ]
XoXrandiiXoX answered Tuesday September 13 2005, 5:21 pm: well i know how you feel bcause i have the exact same problem...i just stopped talkin 2 him as much, every once in a while a "hey wats up" but dats about it. i found dat evry time i talked 2 him id get dpressed bcuz he has another gurl meanin I CANT HAVE HIMm which made me want him even more. so now i dont get reminded of him all dat much...it'll prolly b rili hard 2 just stop talkin loadz cuz your so used 2 it..but trust me it helps...plus witout da constant reminder its easier 2 start takin notice of all da other guyz around..i kn your prolly like " i dont want any1 else" because dats how i was...but honestly just gradually reduce the amount of time you spend talkin 2 him and in a while if you dont find any1 else and hez single..who knowz??
good luck and lemme kno how it worx out [ XoXrandiiXoX's advice column | Ask XoXrandiiXoX A Question ]
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