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why do girls have to be this way
I'm not relaying my whole story, but why do girls have to be such whores and bitches in junior high and high school?
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haha it's in our nature i guess...
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Well most people think it is becuase of the people they hang around with becuase lats year i was like a real snob around some of my friends but i got over it though but now i'm like really popular so i don't know, Mabey its becuase of the people they hang around.
~Kristy~
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Because they are attention whores that just do whatever is "in" and only care about popularity. Too fucking superficial.
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Most of them are preps and preps are known to be whores and bitches. Some girls just want attention so they'll do anything to get it. Hope I helped!
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because girls are visious! ..but really only becase we get jeaolus of each otehr and crap!
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well this could be a lot easyer to say if you were a boy or a girl. but anyways sometime we are going through different stages and were are just very confused I should know I am on of them so I am angry sometime too so I know how it feels sorry to say that but you just have to get over it. sorry.
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ignore dem, dey end up pregnant, single, and workin at mcdonalds, rili fat and ugly.
statistics show that your friendz from high skool you 4get, its your university friendz dat count. and since university is filled wit more of a selection findin normal ones shouldnt b 2 bad
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Dear, it's something we've all got to do-preparing us for the real world.
It's like the cycle of life-when we're sevvies, or freshies, or whatever, older kids make fun of/influence us. So natually, when we are older, we treat others the same way we were treated-like bitches. And in treating others that way, we become them. But I think we'll all grow out of it.
Hope that helped.
-katherine
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I think they just want to fit in. They want to be popular & they want the "cool kids" to like them, so they treat other people badly. For example, if the popular kids don't like someone, they'll treat them badly, so then other people follow that example in hopes of becoming popular.
I think it's horrible that people have to act like that. Just be yourself & ignore the people who act like that because they aren't worth your time. & always remember, if you're with your friends, then you're -always- with the cool kids.
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Because girls in Junior and High School are very rebellious. They are starting to gain independence from their parents which they never had, and take it as much more than it is. They fail to realise that they are not completely free. This last link causes them so much anxiety and defiance, that it carries out to the girl's friends and such.
They also are physically still changing, meaning elevated levels of hormones. This may also attribute to it.
-Steven
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Hii i realii dont no but it could be puberty lol!! you never no well hope i helped x0x0//♥\
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It is not just girls that are "whore and bitches". You will fin everyone is like that at junior high. Thisis a very stressful time everyone is finding themselves and at teh same time they don't want to lose thier rep in the process but thats life.
Girl who are being bitchy are either insacure and don't want to look weak or are having trouble coping.
Calling a whore however is not the right way to go about it, it depends what you mean because when a boy is a whore thats not what he is describes as he is caled aplayer girls get called hoes. Think about that>
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Ah, the great question - "Why are people irrational?"
Whether you realize it or not this is really the question you want an answer to.
You'll find that it's not just the girls, either. The boys are equally petty, vain, superficial and generally obnoxious.
Let me add a caveat - there are some people, even in school, who don't behave this way. When you find them, treasure them. You'll know them by their commmitment to achievement and their total disregard for what the vain, petty, and superficial think.
There are a number of reasons why people behave badly (irrationally); natural stupidity, bad upbringing, too much tv (and yes, I'm serious), and a generally useless education system are all contributing factors. In the case of your question, stop and think for minute - how are girls portrayed on TV? In video games? Take a look at Paris Hilton. GTA. TRW. Starting to see the problem?
That you asked this question, though, means that there is hope for you. You, in seeking to know why people act this way, have made a dramatic step toward rationality. Start by reading - maybe take philosophy if it is offered at your school. Take psychology if it's offered. Read Ayn Rand's books.
Oh, and one other thing; don't think it's just school kids. Every part of our society has it's share of superficial, ignorant, deluded people. If it weren't there to emulate, kids wouldn't. Ignore them, press on, and live a better, more thoughtful life.
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I wish I knew that question. It's part of life. Puberty too! Girls are also bitches while they are PMSing so remember that. & also very immature.
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insecurities
usually the biggest bitches are the ones who have problems at home-- but dont worry it gets MUCH better in high school!
hope i helped
<3 anne givings
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