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Ok i know im kidna old but I had a babysitter kind of coem ovr after school till my dad comes home. Shews was 21 and really cool, im 13. Last week she left and i was really sad i cried, i know this is wierd but do you guys think im over reacting. She came everyday for 2 years.
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I know that its hard to get over someone that is kind of like family to you, but its okay. I don't think its stupid. You can still call her and she can still visit you. Don't worry, okay.
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No i dont think you are overreacting...i mean after seein her everyday for two years you'd get used to her being there and when suddenly she stops things would feel weird and wrong...it'll take some time to get used to it, but noone said that you'll never see her again, do you have an email adress or a phone number? try stayin in touch that way...in a couple of months you'll completey forget...
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yes you little pussie
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It's not weird and you didn't overreact. You two must have formed a friendship over the two years, everyone's sad when a friend leaves.
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It's not weird at all. While she was your "babysitter", I'm sure she grew to be a good friend. It's hard to lose a friend of any kind when it comes down to it. Things will be better in time.
Hope it works out
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~Aeromonkey~
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No, I don't think you're over reacting. According to you, she was cool and it seems you really liked her. Maybe not as a babysitter, but as a friend to hang out with. Its kind of like if you see your friend everyday and then all of a sudden they move. It can be sad. Unless she moved far away, maybe you should call her up and tell her you've missed having her around and if you two can do something.
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OMG over reacting u r not!!! im yur age and ive had my babysitter since i was like 6! shes like my best friend and shes 23!!! she comes over whenever my parents r gone at night, and we always have the best time with her! so dont be ashamed! but guess wut, my babysitter offered to take me and my sister shopping, to the beach, or w/e we want and im sure yur would wanna do the same! call her up and ask to do something!
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ur not ovareactin u realy liked her so wut?
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It's not weird at all so don't worry. She has obviously been a sister-type person for you to hang around with and you obviously enjoyed spending time with her. Therefore it's not unusual to feel this way. Just because she has left doesn't mean you have to totally lose touch - you could go over to hers maybe or chat on email?
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absolutly not!... she was your babysitter and you loved her... not at all were you overreacting!!... she was like almost part of your family and another mom because she took care of you... hopefully she will come again soon and you will get to hang out with her!
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well honestly yea i do .. but i never had a babysitter so i really don't know... i' mean 13 years old is really old for someone to be having a babysitter i mean like 10 years old is old to have a babysitter... but if she was really special to you dont' worry about it... just wait until you see her again
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No, i don't think you are overreactign at all. I mean if she left for one day, yeah that would be a bit dramatic on your part, but if she left for good then NO WAY! i knoe the feeling. I have a best friend (( it's been 10 years now)) and she moved to England about 3 years ago. Just remember, you can always keep in touch and visit each other! Hope I helped! :D
~*jemmy*~
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No! You just really liked this babysitter. But dont feel weird at all. People get attached to other people and are upset when they leave. x0`
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Yes, thats very weird.
I suggest you go buy some ducks and take out their feathers. So then they have no feathers and you can laugh at them when you feel sad.
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No! Sometimes your get attached to people that have cared for you for a long time. If you cared about this babysitter so much that you cried, you can't be overreacting!!!
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No you are not overreacting! You have the right to be upset. You probably feel really close to your babysiter. Let your feelings flow for a while then try and pull yourself together!
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awww babe no that aint over reacting at all! im sure if someone close to me went away like that after knwoing them so long i would cry too..
u know people say just let your tears out.. well that just shows it's alright to cry.. you shoudln't hold something in, it only makes things worse and i'm sure you will see her soon enough she'll come visit you and you'll go see her, you'll talk to her on the phone i'm sure!
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I don't think that's wierd at all. She came over every day for two years. That's a lot of time to spend with someone, and it can be really hard to have to part with someone that you've spent so much time with. Don't sweat it, you didn't over react.
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