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Member Since: September 14, 2005
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Last Update: September 16, 2005
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my boyfriend and i broke up a couple weeks ago. i think i might like my best friend but i'm not sure if it is just a rebound thing so i'm not going to say anything because he has a girlfriend anyway. plus, if it is, i wouldn't want to realize it once we were going out and hurt him and ruin our friendship. i am also interested in another kid who my friend also likes (she told me if i ever went out with him..or even to ring dance with him, she would never talk to me again.) he seems interested in me, but he has never really had a girlfriend or expressed an interest in anyone. he is the guy all the girls think is really hott (because he is) and really nice (because he is).

i just need someone to make up my mind.

should i:
1. keep liking my friend.
2. try to start liking the other kid more
3. find someone else to like.
4. like no one.
5. flirt with a ton of guys and jsut have fun. (link)
I think you should try going out with the other kid because I think your friend is just jealous of you. If she really liked him so much, then why isn't she going out with him now? Anyway, I hope you find my answer usful. Good luck!


theres this boy and he liked me last year and asked me out.i told him i was taken but i would still like to talk to him.i broke up with my boyfriend over the summer and he knew about it.then he agian asked to go with me.i told him that i see him more s a friend.now is the new school year and my friend Diane thinks this boy is kinda ugly.i dint think he's ugly and neither do my friend Brittany.now i kinda like him and he's is still trying to go with me.even though looks arent important to me at all i dont want my friend Diane saying shit about him or me. should i just forget her and go for it or do you think a friends opinion is important (link)
I think you should go for it. If your friend doesnt like what you are doing, then she probably is not a good friend. Why should you respect her opinion if she isn't going to respect yours? If your friendship with her is really valueable to you then talk to her and tell her that you like him and you dont care how he looks.


alright, so i really like this kid from my church, and he knows i like him and all..but we never talk when i see him, i guess it is cause i dont know what to say , but whenever were in a group and im there he seems to walk away, or maybe it seems it to me?..i really want to at least have a friendship with him..what do i do?


ill rate high for good answers that help! (link)
You should probably approach him slowly like saying "hi" everytime you see him and work your way up to a conversation.




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