Question Posted Tuesday September 13 2005, 7:03 pm
my boyfriend and i broke up a couple weeks ago. i think i might like my best friend but i'm not sure if it is just a rebound thing so i'm not going to say anything because he has a girlfriend anyway. plus, if it is, i wouldn't want to realize it once we were going out and hurt him and ruin our friendship. i am also interested in another kid who my friend also likes (she told me if i ever went out with him..or even to ring dance with him, she would never talk to me again.) he seems interested in me, but he has never really had a girlfriend or expressed an interest in anyone. he is the guy all the girls think is really hott (because he is) and really nice (because he is).
i just need someone to make up my mind.
should i:
1. keep liking my friend.
2. try to start liking the other kid more
3. find someone else to like.
4. like no one.
5. flirt with a ton of guys and jsut have fun.
shagrubble answered Tuesday September 13 2005, 10:20 pm: If it was me i would try to talk it out with your best friend if you relly like that one boy she dont wont you to date or anything. And let her know that you and her will still be friends long as she dont backstab you but you would relly like to go out with that boy. And if she still says no you would have to pick between whats more important to you and go from how you feel deep down. If you feel it will be worth losing a good friend then go for it, but if you want to keep your best friend i think it would be better to go out with the other boy and just be friends with the one for now. [ shagrubble's advice column | Ask shagrubble A Question ]
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