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I just found out my boy friend and my best friend have been dateing also behind my back. Should i kill them both?

omg yes..but not literally. you should dump them both tho because that's like the meanest thing that could happen to you...and they're really not worth your time. you don't need "friends" like them who do bad things behind your back. get a new boyfriend and a new best friend while you're at it. believe me, it's for the better.

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well i dont need advie YET !lol but i wanted to tell you i think your advice colum still looks good

aw thanks!! =) i'm going to fix it when i get back from school...but thanks anywaysss!

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well dont worry about the uglyness of this site bcaz your the bestest advice giver EVER !! =)

okay .. im 14 / Gurlie .. and umm to get right to it there are four kids that like me at the moment .. one is my ex who i really like a lot and have been trying to get over ferever but cant and weve been sorta hooking up over summer [[ hes a sucky boyfriend & i pretty much hate everything about him but still i love him .. i dont kno ]], two is my ex's best friend and we only just started hanging out after this party where we really hit it off .. he was soo cute ! it was dark in the woods and we couldnt see anything and he was holding me so i wouldnt fall and then everyone was telling ghost storys and he was like holding me close so i wouldnt be scared and aww .. and then me and him went and layed in this feild and looked at the stars ..[[ but hes kinda a flirt so i dont kno if he REALLY does like me or was just like flirting ]], three is this kid i met the other day and yea hes cool but he goes to a different school but anyways we were being total dorks and it was really fun !! and i miss him alot but i dont kno if it would work and hes a year yonger soo its weird and i dont kno.., and fourth is my good friend that i dont like that way only as a friend and im scared if i end up going out with someone he'll be jealous and it will totally ruin our friendship and it kinda already has started because i feel soo weird around him and stuff.. i dont kno what to do or who to choose my heart decides one person and then gets mad bcaz i didnt pick a different person .. ughh please help !!

lol thanks!! =)

woah aren't you popular lol?? ok sorry, but at least you're not the girl who is constantly trying to get guys to like her right..? but i'm not you so i'm not going to make your decision for you, maybe just point a few things out....

guy #1-i guess he's okay. the thing is, he's a sucky boyfriend right? you went out with him before so you'd know. i know you love him a ton and everything, but really want to risk that again? don't you want to try going out with a new guy?? just because you don't choose him this time doesn't mean you can't EVER go out with him ever again. just talk to him and say you'd like to date some new guys, and thne see if you want to carry things further with him later on. hopefully he'll understand right?? if he doesn't, then wow i don't know that'll be pretty bitchy but i'm sure that won't happen haha.

guy #2-i think he sounds really cool. and the way he treated you, i don't really think that's JUST flirting, unless he treats a bunch of girls that sweetly. you should ask him whether he truly cares about you. guys feel uncomfortable about lying when they're JUST flirting and a girl asks him if he truly truly TRULY has feelings for her. i would ask him and probably talk to him about it. and he's your ex's friend too. talk to it about your ex too, like how he seems really sweet and you'd just like to see how it's like and all, you know?? wow i say like a lot haha but anyways, if it doesn't work out, it's not really worth ruining a friendship =(...but that's a different story

guy #3-sounds cool i guess but you two go to different schools. guy #2 sounds way better to me. you could but i don't know...nothing wrong with him tho. whatever you choose =D

guy #4-if you only like him as a friend, you shouldn't be FORCED to go out with him. you should never be forced to go out with someone you don't want to date. if he's a true friend, tell him that you like him a lot and that he's a great person, but you only think of him as a friend for now. if he gets super super pissed and never talks to you for like ever...then he wasn't worth it because **TRUE** friends wouldn't do that to each other. he probably wouldn't have been there for you in your time of need. he may be kind of sad and all for a few days, but he should cure. it's normal.

hmm..hope this helps! sorry for the long answer... good luck!! =D

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