i am about to go to a new school and i am worried that i wont make friends. aside from that, i am worried if i make friends they'll be with the losers or something. i changed schools because i didnt have any friends there and now i want a fresh start. any tips?! PLEASE help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? thinkpink03 answered Monday October 3 2005, 4:39 pm: Yah i would worry about that too but not too much because it shouldnt matter if theyre "losers" or popular or anything you should just focus on making friends before you make the "right" friends. if you want to be kinda shallow like that =) i would just try to observe and see who is "cool" and all that. try to befriend them. besides that, just be nice to everyone because you never know they could be considered cool or not you never know just choose friends by whether or not you like them not on their status.
fashion_frenzy06 answered Sunday October 2 2005, 9:09 pm: well the key things to making friend are tobe yourself and make converstaition like ask somone you think looks cool enough not to be a geek and then ask them like what there name is and what do you do for fun and can i hang out with you sometimes and just start like that!!! It worked for me! [ fashion_frenzy06's advice column | Ask fashion_frenzy06 A Question ]
imunloveable792 answered Sunday October 2 2005, 5:24 pm: ok when i was adopted i had to go to a new school and it realy scared me but i found out it is easy to make new friends bye smiling at people and being real nice and try sitting next to them at luch or something even if you dont know them talk about things like sports, things at your new school and they will start to like you so dont be scared even if you become friends with the "geeks" it doesnt matter because at least you have some friends and will be next to you when things happen i hoped i helped AMBER MARIE CARROLL [ imunloveable792's advice column | Ask imunloveable792 A Question ]
XoNeLLiE143oX answered Sunday October 2 2005, 3:50 pm: well, you should just be yourself, and if anyone talks to you then try to make friends with them. it shouldnt matter if theyre losers or not, just as long as theyre your friends. whatever you do, DONT try to act like someone else, because then peoplen will get the wrong impression of you. hope i helped!
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Pink_G_Raf answered Saturday October 1 2005, 8:21 pm: The best way is just to not think too much, be nice to the people who welcome you, don't judge them from the start or classify them as losers. Get to know them a little bit first. Even if you don't end up liking the people you met in the first few days, they know people in the school, they can introduce you around. It's not that bad, it's scary to start at a new school and all but give it a little time, be friendly and be open minded and there should be no problems! :) [ Pink_G_Raf's advice column | Ask Pink_G_Raf A Question ]
Uniq_The_Geek answered Saturday October 1 2005, 6:02 pm: lol. im a freshman in hs and i felt the same way. I was scared nervous and the whole package. but when i got to that new school it wasnt that bad. i made freinds and if theyre your friends theyre not losers. i made friends with goths preps crazy people just have fun. trust me i going thru it rite now. good luck. bye"!
summergrl05 answered Saturday October 1 2005, 12:33 pm: you should be outgoing. thats how u make friends. I just started high school this year and i was really shy and stuff in grade school. then when i got there i was really outgoing and now im more popular than i could ever imagine. its great! but you should remember that nobody is a loser. if you see somebody sitting alone, you should invite them to hang out with you. remember how it feels like to feel left out. dont judge anybody.
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SiCkxOfxLiFex45 answered Saturday October 1 2005, 11:19 am: well, it seriously shouldnt matter if they're with the losers or not, cuz as long as they're true it shouldnt matter, but, i know a lot of people who said they were geeks at their other school, and when they came to my school, they were popular or w/e ya wanna call it, anyway, you shouldnt worry about it, im sure it'll be fine
ItzMzManda answered Saturday October 1 2005, 11:07 am: Don't judge the people that want to be your friend. Who cares if people think they are losers. People are people, we are all the same. Don't be so picky about your friends. Be happy that they are willing to opening up for you. Try to just talk to everyone and be friendly. Don't stick yourself in groups that you dont feel comfortable in be yourself and you'll find a group. Don't change yourself because its not worth it. Hope this helps!
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