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my friend's 90 year old man who needs to put on weight for health reasons. he eats 3 solid meals and snack in between but does not seem to put on. if his weight drops, it will eat away the muscle. appreciate some answer how can he gain weight. (link)
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It's not because he eats a lot that he will gain weight. It's the kind of food that he eats that will make it easier. And no, I don't mean Cheetos 24/7 lol. There are many different things in food that make them do different things (ex. carbs). Also, if you visit a natural store, they do have "weight gainers" they come in powder and pill form. These are NOT steroids and they are perfectly healthy and legal. You just need to find out what works for him. And definetly, if all else fails, visit a doctor or ask jeeves... he should know! lol
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i am about to go to a new school and i am worried that i wont make friends. aside from that, i am worried if i make friends they'll be with the losers or something. i changed schools because i didnt have any friends there and now i want a fresh start. any tips?! PLEASE help! (link)
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The best way is just to not think too much, be nice to the people who welcome you, don't judge them from the start or classify them as losers. Get to know them a little bit first. Even if you don't end up liking the people you met in the first few days, they know people in the school, they can introduce you around. It's not that bad, it's scary to start at a new school and all but give it a little time, be friendly and be open minded and there should be no problems! :)
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I have a question that is really complicated. One of my best friends is married to a woman who is not only a complete bitch, but they have nothing in common. She is ten years older than him and chain smokes and has a drinking and gambling problem. It is her second marriage and his first. She is a grandmother, her two grown children are both herion addicts and have stolen thousands of dollars from his credit card. She is verbally obusive to him and makes him miserable. She never makes any effort to look nice for him, she dresses terribly and even told him once that she didnt give a shit what she looked like and didnt care what anyone thought.
There is nothing going on between me and my friend, he knows I'm a virgin and saving myself for my husband.
The problem is that she is jealous of our friendship. He came over yesterday to drop off a desk for me and she came over with him. She never said hi and stayed outside the whole time puffing on a smoke. When I came outside to help him bring the desk in she just glared at me.
It is true that we get along really well and I would love to be with him, but I would never do anything as long as he is married to her.
How should I act around her?
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I think that if he is a true friend and if you two really are that close, you should tell him how you feel. If you haven't talked to your friend about it, he may be thinking along the same lines as you and you don't know. It will be a weird talk to have but imagine all the good that it could do! The only thing you have to do is make sure that you say it in a tactful way and with respect. Ask him what he likes about his wife and when he comes up with not much (which he probably will) then you can explore that and make him realize that he would be so much better off with someone like you. Making him realize it by himself and having you there supporting his decisions will make it easier on both of you. All you have to do is not criticize her, just make him realize that she super-sucks! She should be out of the picture in no time!
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