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friends wife is total bitch
I have a question that is really complicated. One of my best friends is married to a woman who is not only a complete bitch, but they have nothing in common. She is ten years older than him and chain smokes and has a drinking and gambling problem. It is her second marriage and his first. She is a grandmother, her two grown children are both herion addicts and have stolen thousands of dollars from his credit card. She is verbally obusive to him and makes him miserable. She never makes any effort to look nice for him, she dresses terribly and even told him once that she didnt give a shit what she looked like and didnt care what anyone thought.
There is nothing going on between me and my friend, he knows I'm a virgin and saving myself for my husband.
The problem is that she is jealous of our friendship. He came over yesterday to drop off a desk for me and she came over with him. She never said hi and stayed outside the whole time puffing on a smoke. When I came outside to help him bring the desk in she just glared at me.
It is true that we get along really well and I would love to be with him, but I would never do anything as long as he is married to her.
How should I act around her?
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I think that if he is a true friend and if you two really are that close, you should tell him how you feel. If you haven't talked to your friend about it, he may be thinking along the same lines as you and you don't know. It will be a weird talk to have but imagine all the good that it could do! The only thing you have to do is make sure that you say it in a tactful way and with respect. Ask him what he likes about his wife and when he comes up with not much (which he probably will) then you can explore that and make him realize that he would be so much better off with someone like you. Making him realize it by himself and having you there supporting his decisions will make it easier on both of you. All you have to do is not criticize her, just make him realize that she super-sucks! She should be out of the picture in no time!
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You seriously dont need a person like that in your life. Who cares what she thinks. Shes a bitch. You can either ignore her or talk to your friend about his wife and tell him this "story" or you can glare at her back. Just dont let it get to you. Hope i helped!
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Ignore her. If she cant care for herself and can't respect you and your bond with her so called loving "husband", then you should careless about that whore bag! Okay excuse my language but seriously, come on get real. That girl is obviously insane and a psychotic lunatic MAKE YOUR FRIEND REALIZE THAT AND TELL HIM HOW YOU REALLY FEEL. IT DOESN'T MATTER IF HE DOES HAVE A WIFE, COME ON, YOU CALL THAT A WIFE? I call that a freeloader, I DON'T EVEN CALL THAT A PERSON. Geez, that personis really screwed up I don't event hink you should hang around your friend's wife! But seriously, tell him how you feel and tell him how you REALLY feel about his wife and if she can't accept what you're going to say, find a new friend and i know this may sound mean and im sorry but im seriously. come on, you cant help but wonder what's going on in ur friends head marrying some drug addict! let alone have children! Haahhahahha. so please take my advice is you want, im sure it will help. ask me any questiosn if you'd like and hope this advice really helps you. stay cool.
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