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16 and Never Been Kissed
I'm sixteen and I've never made out with a guy (or anything above that...and I only kissed once) is that a huge turnoff for a guy? I havent really had any boyfriends, but now I'm interested and I'm wondering will this scare guys off?
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I honestly think it would turn a lot of guys on! To most guys a unexperienced girl is the greatest thing! There are some guys that will find it a turn off but most won't!
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amber lynn
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It shouldn't scare them off, in fact, it might be good for them. Because then you'll kiss exactly how your boyfriend wants you to. Don't stress, it'll come naturally!
♥ Melissa
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no it wont.guys like to be the one to break that cherry.not sexually i mean.you would actually make him want it more because he would feel honored if he was the first to do that stuff with you.
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♥ it could be a turnoff...if a guy is looking for "that kind" of girl..or a freaky girl..and it could be a turn on because then they dont have to worry about diseases and germs and stuff like that
x3-Janee'
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maybe now it would be a turn off, but there is a good guy out tehre for you who will be sooo happy to hear that! I was glad that i was my boyfriends first girlfriend!!
-Kellzie-
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I don't know why it would scare them off. If it does they are just nuts!
Its not anything you have to announce or anything. Don't worry about it. Someone is out there waiting for you. You'll meet up when the time is right! :)
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No it's not a bad thing, it's not a turnoff, and it won't scare guys off. Unless it's a guy who's asking you how far you've gone just because he wants to get into your pants...And you don't want guys like that anyway.
My friend is 18. She hasn't even KISSED a guy before, let alone make out with one. So don't feel bad.
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it wont scare them off. if a guy really cares, then it wont matter to him if you havent done any of that stuff w/ guys yet. the right time for you will come along. hope i helped!
XOXO **Nicole** XOXO
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It won't scare a quality guy off, and that's what you want anyway.
Some guys are really out there looking for one thing and probably do want a girl who really knows what she's doing. You don't need men like that anyway ;)
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Well, if you're interested now and it's OK with your family, then I say go for it. As long as you're not eplanning to do something as extreme as lose your virginity to this new guy, then he will probably not think much of it. A certain thing comes with deflowering you, but if you just want to make out I bet you'd be surprised at how many other girls waited as long as you have. If this guy seems pretty "experienced" though, he may figure it out. The key is to just stay in control, and let things happen. It may sound sappy, but trust me it's the truth.
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Actually, a lot of guys don't like girls who are just willing to do sexual things with them the first nite they are together. Unfortunately, there are those few who are just in the "relationship" to get you in bed. You just have to be careful with the guy you choose to be with. Guys do like it when girls aren't afraid to kiss them, or cuddle with them tho. If you don't want to do any with a guy..don't! Don't feel pressured into doing things either. I don't think guys will care that much that you haven't done anything like that yet! Guys don't like sluts.
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actually it all depends on a guy. but if the guy really likes you he shouldnt care about that. i mean everyone has a first time to try things. i dont think you shoudl worry about it. and i dont think it would be a turn off..
*~Stephanie~*
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well it depends ..it shouldnt matter but some guys seem to want someone whos been experienced..
then again guys like to be someones "first"
first kiss, first love, etc
it wont scare guys off..guys usually dont like sluts lol
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