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okay so there is this guy (grant) who is 16 (and im 15)that i have been talking to for about 3 n a half months and before school got out he told my best friend that he wanted to wait until summer to get with me that way he has more time to spend on me since hes busy w. school and now..its like he doesnt have enough time for me. i like him sOo much and he knows it but it seems like hes even more busy now that school is over. i dont know if i should wait for him or find somebody else but everytime i look at another guy i compare him to grant and there is just no 2nd place. some of my friends tell me that i should give up and my other friends tell me that i should wait but grant is everything that i ever wanted in a guy..HELP!
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did you ever talk to grant about it and see what he wants?...you shouldnt sit around and wait for him if he wont give you the time of day..who knoes maybe youll find someone whos better than him and even more of what you wanted
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STay with him if you like him thAT MUCH, ask him if he likes you , just flAT OUT ask him to come too your house or go to the movies , but if he sAYS NO TO BUSY OR SOMETHING ELSE JUST TELL HIM IF YOU DONT Have enought time for me then i AM JUST GONNa give up on you
sincerely ASKLane
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Well tell him how you feel.. and that you really wanna do something with him during the summer and that summer is almost up and you really would like to get wit him.. haha that sounds weird.. but i hope you know what i mean.. and i hope everything works out with you and grant =)
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i would say quit worring about it cause i think he wanted u to wait for him so he could get some from someone else or else why would he make u wait if he has less time now then he did originaly so i would suggest just moving on the later on down the road if he comes back to u i would give him another chance
good luck
Gabe
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well..
i think that if he eally liked you that he would make time for you...if you need more advice email me at big_blake08@yahoo.com or add me as big_blake08
P.S willing to help anytime...
Blake08$$$
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Well, if Grant is everything you ever wanted.... perhaps the best things in life are worth waiting for. Love, if that's what this is, is a game of patience. Let me cite to you an example, my friend, (we'll call her S) is in love with this guy, (let's call him P) Well, P has just joined the navy, five year term of service. S is absolutely broken up about this, but knows that she can't stop P from doing what he has to do. S loves P so much, that she is going to wait for him to finish up those five years. Now here's my advice, sit down and really think about Grant, if you think that something as serious as what my friend S has is possible with Grant, then go for it. Otherwise, you're just going to get hurt. I don't mean to sound so rough, but that's life. You only get one, so choose your long term interests carefully. I know you'll make the right decision. Good luck.
-The Knight Owl
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Of course during summer plenty of people are busy with vacations, friends, and what not. What you should do is talk to him, email him, IM, call him or something. Ask him where he stands, if he wants to be with you or not. And tell him yo'd like for him to try and spend more time with you. And if it doesn't help, then yes you should go on and find someone else. And then, you shouldn't compare him to everyone. Every person is different and won't have all of the same ways and sometimes its hard to accept when what you had wanted isn a choice anymore. Talk to him and see where it goes. Hope I helped. *Amber*
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well u should talk to him...if u can...n ask him whats up...but if u dont talk to him then u should look for someone else until he has more time for u...its not like u cant just dump the person ur wit for him later on....
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