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4 years
Okay i have been with the same guy for the past 4 years all high school you could pretty much say, but anyway...All this time i have been a virgin yeah we do everything else and yatta yatta but i dont know i think that i want to have sex with him, i know that im ready but idk I love him with all my heart but what if i could get better or something? i mean i know hes awesome at everything else but what if hes not good at sex? then what do i do just resort to everything else that has kepted me happy all this time? please give me some advice
-Cass-
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OKay wow..lol..i understand but i think that you should wait till hes ready and if he is then go ahead but what im sayin its gunna hurt and will suck after words..but if you reallly love him that much that wont show love its jus a thing..so do what you think is best
Tasha
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If he agrees with you.. then go for it.. but dont just have sex if you guys dont feel the same about each other.. and sex really shouldnt be focused on so much.. love is all you need from a guy to be happy.. someone who cares about u and doesnt just want u to be there to have sex with anytime he pleases.. he might do it with u once but then he might want more and more u know wut i mean?.. it's your choice.. i just wouldnt rush into sex yet.. but thats my opinion
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first of all, you don't want to regret it ~ you should trust the person you are losing your virginity to and sex should be something you share with each other, not a responsibility! just realize that by having sex with him, you'll be connected to him in a whole new way - i wouldn't make that commitment until i was sure of how i felt...another point - sex might not be all you expect it to be, especially the first time!! so maybe it's not worth it to risk! but that's just my opinion ~ hope i helped
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well im only 14 but trust me i no this stuff really well and if u ask me even if hes not good at it, it shouldnt matter that much....wat should matter is if u love and trust him enough
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i thinkif u are ready... 100% then u shuld think it over again i dont no ur age but if ur in highskool i think ur still too young if ur in college its up to u its ur decision juss think to urself if u love him 100% and if ur sure then.....
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Hello! :) I think you should only have sex if you are 100% sure that YOU want to do it. <3 Steph
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well don't do anything you don't want to do and i wouldn't rush into having sex with him if you don't want to, if you really think that he's the one than i would go for it but sex should a special thing so i'd cherish it, oh and usually the first time people have sex you don't really know whats good or whats bad its usually after a couple times when you realize that, oh and if you have any other questions you can ask, even personal things, dont be afraid! love ya! :) xoxo
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If he's so bad in bed you two can always practice to make it better. No one starts off pro, everyone starts off clueless and learns, or with some people they just stay clueless. If he's doing something wrong tell him, if there's something you're enjoying let him know. If you think that you could do better then go for better. If you have sex with your boyfriend and then decide to go for better, that's ok. There's nothing wrong with having sex with more than one person in your lifetime.
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hey..well pretty much every girls time its gonna hurt so i wouldnt worry about him bein bad till uve had sex a few times..but it should be special between the both of you and dont rush into anything you dont want to..anythin else drop it in my box...xoxojay
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ya shouldnt have sex right now...unless u know ur REALLY REALLY READY!...i mean u may love him alot...but alot of relationships end over that...if u think u want to....then talk to him bout it....n see how he feels bout it...and if u guys do it...and hes not good...teach him...theres always room for improvement...but most likely u should stick wit what keeps u happy not what u wanna do becuz u love someone....
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Hiya... I've been in the same boat kind of... I mean I've been with a guy for 2 years and going strong... And still haven't had sex with him... I think thats what held our relationship strong... And yes, we have done everything else too. I have had times when I wanted to.. But now I dont.. I mean if y'all are serious have you ever thought about waiting till yall are married, or saving it for the on eyou do marry? I mean... I have nothing against having sex at all... Just a thought... Hmm.. Have you guys talked about these things? Maybe you should talk to him? Ask him for his advice on you guys sexual life... It couldn't hurt... If you decide you want to have sex with him... talk to him about it... and if you don't ask him how he thinks yall can improve you guy's 'sexual stuff'... Ya know?? Well hope all goes well :)
-Britty-
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