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bein in lov and loving sum1 2 different things or not?
ive noticed that alotta people have questions on people they believe they are in love with and so on but sum of the people are realli young and i dont think that they notice that being in love and loving sum1 are 2 totally different things....well thats what i think i was just wonderin other opions on bein in love and just lovin sum1
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yea, i agree that there is a difference among them. They just dont realize the real meaning of Love, but if you try to tell them that, then you are in the wrong. Just let them think what they want to ans as they get older they will start to understand just what love means.
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being in love and loving someone are 2 TOTALLY DIFFERENT things! lol .. being in love is when 2 people are dedicated to each other and love each other with all their heart. loving someone could be like a junior-high crush .. ya know what i mean?! lol i hope i helped clear that up! rate me please =)
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Ya, I know wut ur saying. It's possible 2 b *in love* @ such a young age... but most likely a lotta these kids aren't. They don't realize the difference of *loving* sum1 and being *in love* w/ sum1. O well... they'll (eventually) learn...
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ya i know wut you mean. just cus they love someone doesnt mean they r in love wit them.
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yeah u are rite... a lotta kidds have really big crushes on people and they believe its love & stuff... and like Tinahofcourse said... when u are in love u dont need any1 elses opinion... but theres nothing really that we can say that will change their minds... they just have to learn from their own experience...
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Oh gosh, tell me about it. lol. But honestly, I'm not the one to say that there's some certain age limit when someone can expierence "being in love" or just the meaning of love. Nobody can tell you what's going on in your mind or your heart. But some of the ones that I read... it's like if you're really in love with someone; why do you need someone elses opinion if you are? Shouldn't it be definate to yourself? Heh. Sorry, I'm blabbing. But good point. :]
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being in love is like romantic crap
loving some one is like loving your best friend.
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I definitely believe love and actually being in love are two very different things. For instance, my parents love each other even though they bicker over little things, and when they're not bickering, they're acting like two teenagers in love - cuddling all the time and all. It's cute. Lol.
However, I also believe age is a state of mind, not being. Some of these kids may really be in love, and know it, and one can't really tell they they can't be in love because they're too young.
Though I do think a lot of people use/throw around the word "love" without knowing its real meaning. That, by the way, drives me CRAZY.
The people that do that later feel real love and realize "oops, that wasn't love..." that's how I feel about the time I thought I was in love and really wasn't. I'm in love now, and it's a totally different feeling. It's interesting.
There's my opinion. ^_^
-Siren =)
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bein in love nd lovin someone r two different things... buh yu cant put an age on love... its all on how yu are matured... yu culd be 15 nd have the mind of a grown up... buh there is deffenitly a fine line between tha two -haley
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yeah, love and being in love are two different things. some people dont realize the difference between the two. love is when you care about a person and all.. and being in love is deeper than that. when your in love, you put yourself on the line for that person. you love the person more than love itself. people on here who say, im 14, and im in love. theyre full of shit. they dont know what it really means to be in love. its all lust at that age. its just so annoying sitting here reading about 13 year olds in love..
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The thing about just loving someone is... that "just love" can eventually turn into being in love with them... and sometimes it can turn back into just loving someone. It can fluctuate between the two.
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yeah you're right. most of these young kids believe they are in love when really they have no idea that they will probbaly fall in love a thousands times b4 they really find the right one. love is more than just a feeling, its something you do. its hard to explain. but these young people have no idea how serious love is.
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