Ok, today my mom called me fat. Well, I don't think I'm fat because I'm 13 (turning 14 in 2 weeks), I'm 5'5, I weigh 113, and I pretty skinny but I don't have a 4 pack. I don't know what to do. I think I'm just gonna stop eating and become anorexic. I don't wanna go on a diet because I get of them in a few days and they are not help. Also, I don't wanna watch what I eat because I usually eat healthy food. Please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Health & Fitness category? Maybe give some free advice about: Health? AsKmEaNyThInG! answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 4:31 pm: You should not beacome anorexic!! You are not fat!! If you want a 4 pack then get some of those Ab videos and do those ( my sister used that and she lost weight)!! But if you are 5'5 and weigh 113 then you are fine!! And sometimes are parents lose their heads and call us things they dont mean (unless they are abusive)!! So dont worry you are perfect the way God made you!!
EmbracedxRain answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 4:30 pm: You are definately not fat! And you should not become anorexic. thats dangerous and has a lot of risks. you could die. All you need to do for that 4 pack is work out some. Do crunches and situps and what not. You don't need to diet! Your mom is crazy... hope it helps *amber* [ EmbracedxRain's advice column | Ask EmbracedxRain A Question ]
rockchik41 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 4:17 pm: your mom is evil! you're nowhere near fat. i'm 5'5" and i way about 10 pounds more than you. don't become anorexic...that's one of the most unhealthy things you can do to try to solve a problem your mom thinks you have with your weight. [ rockchik41's advice column | Ask rockchik41 A Question ]
TucanFullOfHoles answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 4:11 pm: yeah i have that problem too. parents suck basically. when she says that tell her it hurts and that she's a bitch. ask her if shes deliberatly trying to give you an eating disorder or just accidently.
Fallin2Pieces answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 4:08 pm: 113???? I'm 5'5 as well and I wish I was 113 lol. I am 120 and I'm not fat. I could lose a few so I look a little better ,but I wouldn't want to lose anymore than 5 pounds. Trust me sweetie, you are just perfect the way you are. You don't need to change your diet if you eat healthy. You don't need to worry about your weight at all. - Fallin2Pieces [ Fallin2Pieces's advice column | Ask Fallin2Pieces A Question ]
MissxAndrea answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 4:04 pm: Obviously your mom doesn't see what everyone else does because if you're that height and that weight then there is no need to be calling you fat! And please do not become anorexic and stop eating. It's addicting and it's hard to stop.
Mexicanchic62820004 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 3:58 pm: Aright, I think that u shouldn't listen to wat ur mom says because if u don't think that ur fat, then just tell her that. If u listen to ur mom then u might end up in a medical institution and u could go to bein ballemic. So if u kno ur not fat don't let ur mom tell u that.
HollisterBabe13 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 3:56 pm: Babe you are fine the way you are!If you want a 4-pack just try doing some Ab workouts.Try yoga!Its awesume!Whatever you do dont become anerexic.It wont do u any good.I hope i helped!Much <33 [ HollisterBabe13's advice column | Ask HollisterBabe13 A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 3:54 pm: Umm 113 isn't fat. Your really stupid if your going to become anorexic because when your body doesn't get any food, it thinks that's the way it should be and it adjusts to that so when you do eat, you'll gain more pounds. And that's pretty fucking retarted that your mom called you fat. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
BaBii_xO_aBbii answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 3:53 pm: You knw what I dont know much about weight lol so this might not help but realli I dont think your fat I mean maybi she called you fat bc she thinks you have a little fat in certain places maybi you should ask exactly why she called you fat nd exactly where she thinks your fat then if you think your fat thier just exercise if not then dont care I mean shes your mom she loves you and all but its up to you how you wanna look and if you think your not fat thats all that matters kay so Im sorri if I didnt help and if I did then thats good!
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Sweetie2oo4 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 3:39 pm: aaww hunni..dont go anorexic..5'5 at 113lbs is PERFECT! plus thats dangerous & unhealthy. dont listen to your mother, and how dare her tell her daughter that shes fat! even if you were, which you're not, thats your mother & she should have never said that to you! do not worry about what you eat & don't try to lose weight, your current weight is exactly where it should be. if you need anything else, im here!
Ask_Anything answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 3:15 pm: first of all, mothers should NEVER tell you that unless you are wayyy over weight!! im telling you for sure that you are not overweight. you dont need a four pack to be skinny either. please dont stop eating and become anorexic because you will regret it in the long run i promise. dont even bother with the diet, they're meant for older people. if you are eating healthy food already you dont need to watch what you eat either. i think the comment from your mom got to you, and personally i think that was very wrong for her to say that. you are perfect the way you are, and i have no other way to tell you that! but i beg of you to not become anorexic because before you know it your mom might start saying, "you're TOO skinny". other than that, you should tell your mom that her comment hurt your feelings (because you seem to think otherwise). im sorry she said that to you, just remember- at this age, we're still getting those growth sperts and slimming out! you have no worries! stay strong and healthy! -ask_anything [ Ask_Anything's advice column | Ask Ask_Anything A Question ]
ScOoByGiRL80 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 3:01 pm: You shouldnt become anorexic because that can kill you. And you shouldnt care what other people think, what matters is what you see when you look in the mirror.
-ScOoByGiRL80 [ ScOoByGiRL80's advice column | Ask ScOoByGiRL80 A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 2:55 pm: omg you're mom is a bitch!!! i'm sorry but she is! i just lost like 12 pounds and iwas skinny before i lost the weight! i'm 14 5'4" and i weigh 113!! you are so not fat! don't listen to her!!! she's probably jealous of you! [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 2:51 pm: Don't stop eating!!!!!
BAD IDEA!!
Your mother is very wrong. You're not fat at all. I'm 5'3" and I weigh 115. I'm not fat at all. If I'm not fat, you can't possibly be. Don't go on a diet, and if you usually eat healthy food, just stick to what you usually eat.
Ignore what your mom's saying. You're totally fine as far as weight goes. I can understand how you'd want to listen to your mom (even subconsciously), but in this case, really DON'T. Ignore her and just go with what YOU think.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
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