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what should i do??
ok... i have a boyfriend.. and we have been dating for like a year and a half.. he started to act a little funny around me.. and i found out that his parents are fighting and thinking about goin their on ways..
but there is this other guy that likes.. me.. and i kind of have feelings for him too....i dont know which one i should pick.. i think i should stay with my boyfriend but my feelings are all messed up... what do you think i should do??
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I think its possible that your thinking about this other guy because your not really getting the attention you want from your bf. I dont think you should break up with your bf right now because that would just add to the stress. right now just be there for him, and when things get better for him and between you guys then if you still dont feel the same way about him let him know that, and move on. but right now he needs you.
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Your bf is going through a tough time and its important that you're there for him in his time of need. Maybe talk to him and let him know you're there for him. As for this other guy,think of it this way :what would you gain if you broke up with your bf for him? theres no way to tell for sure would it work out. Both you and your bf could end up unhappy. You have to ask yourself what you would lose and gain by staying with your bf. I often get restless in relationships but it can be so rewarding to do the hard thing and commit. I hope it works out for you!
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Are you kidding me? You’re sitting here saying his parents are about to split up and you’ve been together for a year and a half.. But u like someone else and don’t know what to do?? .. First .. Smack yourself.. Think of it the other way around.. He needs you.. especially right now.. If your parents were breaking up wouldn’t u want the person you’ve spent a year and a half w to be there for you .. instead of thinking about some other guy.. If you have to ask a question like that you really are messed up
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Your boyfriend seems to be pretty commited, why break such a thing and go with someone you don't know could be so commited?
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I'm very against leading a guy on when you don't like him. I think you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel and do everything in your power to stay close after you break up. That way, you can help him feel better and be there for him, because his parents' fighting is obviously effecting him. I understand you feel bad about that, however, don't let it effect you. After all, it's not your problem. I would wait a little on the second guy, just so your boyfriend doesn't go into drama overload all in one or two weeks. After that, feel free to get things heated up between the two of you. Hope this helps.
-cindy <3
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Talk to this other guy that you think likes you. Find out the story with him and go from there. If he doesn't like you, I would suggest to get over him and stay with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend is acting wierd because the fighting between his parents is effecting him. If you do not like your boyfriend anymore, I don't think you should stay with him because then you're basically lying to him.
Hope I Helped!=)
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I think you should stay with your boyfriend that way he'll have somebody to talk to about his parents..hope i helped
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