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Me and my boyfriend were together everyday, it could be for only 5 minutes sum days but we were together. Tuesday he left on vacation with his friend and didnt tell me and hasnt called me at all. He's coming back on Sunday but I dont know if this was his way of ending it or not. Its not like him to just up and go away. Anyways of approaching him if he doesnt call on Sunday and I stop by his house to talk to him? What should I say because I odnt want to lose him. I'm 18 and hes 19. We have been together for 8 months
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8 months is a long time, and I understand you would be pretty miffed if he didn't tell you. But maybe if you and your boyfriend were together everyday, then maybe he felt that there was too much clingy-ness (don't take that personally) and needed some space so he could hang out with his friends. Or perhaps his friend told him at the last minute and he couldn't get a hold of you (this can happen sometimes). I doubt that he's trying to tell you that it's over, but when he comes back, don't call him or come over, but when he calls you, ask him why he didn't tell you about his trip. If he is sorry, then give him another chance.
:) hope I helped (:
~*Annie*~
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I understand that you don't want to lose him. 8 months is a long enought time period to have "love" feelings about this person. I'm going to assume he will call you when he gets back from this "vacation" I think you should not return his call for however long he was gone and took him to get back. Ie: he didn't call you for 4 days, then dont call him for 4 days...lol. Don't let him know your stressin' it. It would have only took him 30 seconds to call you and be like hey im going here..I'll be back then, love ya'....No excuses!
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Ask him why he would just take off and not even call you. Maybe you guys shouldn't be together every day because eventually, you guys are going to get sick of each other!! Good luck..
-xXoBrianna
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wait for him to call call u that night unless he doesnt then juse call him and be like " y didnt u tell me? " or " when were u planning on telling me u were leaving? " somethin in that matter
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Just if he doesn't call on Sunday then call him and ask him "when were you going to tell me that you were leaving?" And just talk to him and straight things out.
-Katie
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Hey gurlie !! Okay, I think yu should start out by sayinq `is there somethinq wronq?` so then he miqht say somethinq that miqht be botherinq him so yu can work it out. If he saysz no then just be like `well why did yu leave without tellinq me?` and just lay it out and say it like it is. I hope I helped cause i've been in a situation like this recently. If yu wanna talk just IM me =).
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Well sometimes i forget to tell my gf im leaving, its just what guys do, doesnt mean hes leaving u sweetheart, just wait for him to get back and call him, if he doesnt call then its probably b/c hes tired. hope i helped.
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Hmm this one is somewhat tough. He might have been wanting to see if your relationship was strong enough, by going on vacation without giving you a warning. It could have also just slipped his mind, but that is probably not the reason. I say you should just call him late on Sunday or on Monday. You should ask him why he did not tell you about him going on vacation, and other things. That is all the advice I can give.
--Matt
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