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hey !! i'm arielle. i'm about 5'3" ; i have blondish brown hair ; hazel eyesz ; i love havinq fun and qoinq crazii ; yet i also am calm and normal too ; my birthday is july 22nd ; my favorite store is pac sun ; my favorite season is winter ; i love playinq quitar ; i have a fender strat. ; i'm in an awesome band ; i love stayinq up late and doinq stupid thinqsz with my friendsz [(especially tara)] ; i love playinq quitar ; listeninq to music ; hanqinq out with friendsz ; qoinq crazy with tara (my bestest friend) ; doinq stuff with my band ; skateboardinq ; qoinq to the mall ; layinq out in the sun ; swimminq and beinq on the computer =)

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Okay, well, I'm 13, and two days ago I went to the bathroom and saw some blood in my...well, underwear...and I didn't talk to my mom about it I just waited to see what happened in a little while after I changed. The next day I didn't get any more blood, I just got big amounts of discharge, and this has never ever happened to me before. My face also broke out, and I was craving chocolate and I was really tired. Does this mean I'm going to get my period soon?

hun.. did you even know what a period was because that is everything that happens when you get it

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Me and my boyfriend were together everyday, it could be for only 5 minutes sum days but we were together. Tuesday he left on vacation with his friend and didnt tell me and hasnt called me at all. He's coming back on Sunday but I dont know if this was his way of ending it or not. Its not like him to just up and go away. Anyways of approaching him if he doesnt call on Sunday and I stop by his house to talk to him? What should I say because I odnt want to lose him. I'm 18 and hes 19. We have been together for 8 months

Hey gurlie !! Okay, I think yu should start out by sayinq `is there somethinq wronq?` so then he miqht say somethinq that miqht be botherinq him so yu can work it out. If he saysz no then just be like `well why did yu leave without tellinq me?` and just lay it out and say it like it is. I hope I helped cause i've been in a situation like this recently. If yu wanna talk just IM me =).

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What are some good topic starters for meeting a guy? I go to a girls school so I don't get to meet them that often. But if I see a guy in public, what should I do to get him to talk to me (Or what should I say to talk to him) Without looking like a fool? What are your strategies for meeting a guy you don't know? Also, what are some good tips on what NOT to do? Thanks!

Hey gurlie !! Okay here'sz the deal; If yu see a quy walkinq and yu wanna qet his attention yu need to qive him a look or smile that showsz yur into him. Give him like that flirty smile and he miqht just come up to yu or walk by aqain ;]. If yu rather qo up to him - yu could just start out with a simple `hey` and then he'll obviosly say hey back and then just be like `so are yu from around here [(like if yu meet him in a mall or moviesz, etc.)]` or yu can be like `hey i'm :whatever yur name is:`. Just make is simple. Don't like qo up to a quy and be like `hey can I talk to yu` or like `hey what'sz yur name i'm :yur name: and I noticed yu and yur really hott and yu seem nice`. Lol do not do that it'll freak them out. Just start it out simple as I said before and just say `hey` and start a conversation. But definatly start any conversation with like `so are yu from around here` and stuff like that. Also, if yu have a specific kind of quy yu like.. qo to were yu think they miqht be. Like, if yu like skater quysz then try qoinq to a skate park with another friend or even by yourself and yu can rent skate boardsz there and even if yu have no clue how to do it.. then just qo in there and try and maybe yu'll fall and a quy will help yu up hehe ;]. I hope I helped. If yu need anymore info just IM me.

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OK...muh bf and i are goin good but sometimes i cant take it because hes so immature and i wanna dump him sometimes but then im like i cant hurt him bc jus the other day he told me he loves me..and like i havent said it bakk bc i dont..but what do i do?i wanna break up with him but hes the greatest friend..& i dont wanna loose him

Okay, I think that if yu don't feel the way he feelsz about yu and yu wanna dump him - yu should cause it'll hurt him more if yu wait and yu shouldn't be in a relationship with him if yu don't feel riqht about it. But yu should definatly talk to him first. Just be like `listen.. yur really cool and I like yu alot - but i'm havinq some problemsz :and then explain yur problem:`. If he'sz true and a qood friend.. he'll understand. Maybe he'sz actinq this way for a reason. The bets thinq to do is talk first and see what'sz up. Then decide what yu feel is riqht for yu and him.

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Hi, I had a serious crush on this guy...and he used to like me too but now he has a gf and I don't think he likes me at all anymore. It hurts sooo bad...please I want to get over him and stop hurting, but don't tell me to try and like someone else because I don't want to like anyone else. I like him. Please, help me find someway to get over him because I can't take it anymore, and I need to stop lieing to myself in hoping that someday we might be together or whatever. Thanks for your help!

Hey, hun. Okay i've been in this situation before and I know exactly how is feelsz. It sucksz - but what I did was; I sat down with my best friend and talked to her about everythinq and I told her pro'sz and con'sz about the situation and just let it all out and cried hysterically. After that I felt better cause I qot it all out. The best thinq to do tho babe is just to do alot of stuff that yu LOVE to do with friendsz and/or family. I'm sure yu have tonsz of friendsz that are alwasz there for yu. So, if yu love shoppinq.. qo to the mall with yur friendsz and shop.. or even have a sleepover and rent moviesz and just lauqh and have a good time !! But it dependsz on how yu are as a person. Sometimesz the only thinq that can heal a broken heart is time. But I suqqest yu just spend time with other people and watch scary or funny movies and just qo crazy and act stupid. It helped me.. I hope I helped yu. Wish ya luck gurlie !!

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