What are some good topic starters for meeting a guy? I go to a girls school so I don't get to meet them that often. But if I see a guy in public, what should I do to get him to talk to me (Or what should I say to talk to him) Without looking like a fool? What are your strategies for meeting a guy you don't know? Also, what are some good tips on what NOT to do? Thanks!
sk8rgurl answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 8:41 pm: all u have to do is go up and say hi. but if ur to shy u can always make up an excuse to talk to him.like have u seen a little gold chain? i lost it. or do u know "so and so"? something like that so that it breaks the ice and eventually u can get into a new convo!
xBaSk3tBallChIcKx answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 7:37 pm: Do not be shy!Walk up and say hi!Ask him how he is and where he goes to school.Ask him how he likes his school.Thats the starter.Then you can talk about music,movies,anything he seems intrested in!Here are the dont's!Make sure you never stutter,Don't seem desperate,Don't look bored while he is talking,Make sure u make good eye contact to!And you should be set! [ xBaSk3tBallChIcKx's advice column | Ask xBaSk3tBallChIcKx A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:27 pm: Meeting a guy you don't know...
Well, the first thing to do is to initiate a conversation. Don't wait for him to talk to you. If you wanna talk, open your mouth!
Just say hi, or if you're outside, comment on the nice weather, or something along those lines. (If it's raining or something you can still say that and be all sarcastic, lol)
You can talk about music, sports, whatever you're into.
Hope this helped a li'l!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Luscious_Kisses15 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:22 pm: When you see a nice looking guy, you may like, it can be so easy! Most guys like either, music or sports. So i can generally judge what type of catagory the guy goes in like prep, jock, emo, rocker, gotchic whatever. I mean it's pretty easy to tell, so if they're preppy i would say...where did you get your shirt? or i love your hair, cuz normally preppy guys love to talk about themselves. If he's a jock, then ask him what sports he plays etc. If he's emo, then ask him if he likes emo music. If he's a rocker...ask him if he's in a band or something. And if they're gothic..i. really don't know about gothic lol cuz they don't typically appeal to me.
But yeah, my advice is to just be very subtle and bring up topics that they seem to be interested in, i mean most people, especially guys like to talk about themselves so then you have a great conversation going!
*tasha* answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:06 pm: Hey!I just go up and say whats up.I get there name and stuff and ask what there doin.There age,school. All that info. Just be really casual. Don't freak out tho while you talk to him. Act like ya already kno the guy. And when you have to leave get his number.Thats what i do. GOOD LUCK!
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lostandconfused answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:05 pm: go up to him and smack him and say "YOU DOUCHE! YOU WERE STARING AT MY ASS" then skip away...hes sure to run after you then
Sunkiist answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 5:56 pm: Hey gurlie !! Okay here'sz the deal; If yu see a quy walkinq and yu wanna qet his attention yu need to qive him a look or smile that showsz yur into him. Give him like that flirty smile and he miqht just come up to yu or walk by aqain ;]. If yu rather qo up to him - yu could just start out with a simple `hey` and then he'll obviosly say hey back and then just be like `so are yu from around here [(like if yu meet him in a mall or moviesz, etc.)]` or yu can be like `hey i'm :whatever yur name is:`. Just make is simple. Don't like qo up to a quy and be like `hey can I talk to yu` or like `hey what'sz yur name i'm :yur name: and I noticed yu and yur really hott and yu seem nice`. Lol do not do that it'll freak them out. Just start it out simple as I said before and just say `hey` and start a conversation. But definatly start any conversation with like `so are yu from around here` and stuff like that. Also, if yu have a specific kind of quy yu like.. qo to were yu think they miqht be. Like, if yu like skater quysz then try qoinq to a skate park with another friend or even by yourself and yu can rent skate boardsz there and even if yu have no clue how to do it.. then just qo in there and try and maybe yu'll fall and a quy will help yu up hehe ;]. I hope I helped. If yu need anymore info just IM me. [ Sunkiist's advice column | Ask Sunkiist A Question ]
wishingstar answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 5:54 pm: hi.. well, i go up to guys a lot that i think are attrative and i just start talking to them like they were already my friend. i would say my name is so and so whats yours where u from and go on from there..if the guys talks back he obviuos is in to you to and the converstation will get easier!! [ wishingstar's advice column | Ask wishingstar A Question ]
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