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Question Posted Wednesday August 18 2004, 5:22 pm

I broke up wit my boyfriend and I still love him to death.. And i cant stop but I broke up wit him cuz of parental reasons ** He's 15 and im 13 ** Now all i do is think of him... But what makes me feel worse is that he was cring the whole day :-( i dont know what to do.. Cuz If i didnt break up wit him i would get into troble, loose my trusts from my parents and never get to see him or talk to him.. But now that i broke up wit him i can talk to him and see him :-(


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Fallen4eva91 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 4:48 pm:
I think if you love him enough go for it. But then again you might lose your parents trust and never be able to date dun dun dun..... so talk it over it works for me sometimes .. Hope i helped you if ya need more advice im me at fallen4eva91

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Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday August 19 2004, 12:30 pm:
well, tell him you still like him. You dont have to be officialy "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" .. just explain to him why you had to break up with him! He'll understand. Just say you want the same relationship, the only difference will be your titles for eachother. Not so bad, hey right?

So good luck sweeeets..

xoxxo

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Sunshine answered Thursday August 19 2004, 3:28 am:
Maybe you can work out a compromise with your parents. Suggest that they allow him to come over to your house (while your parent's are home) to watch a movie or have dinner, then maybe you can work up to going out in groups. Then eventually, once they get to know him, they'll trust him enough to let you see him one on one.

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umpalumpa8793 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 11:23 pm:
well u guys are differnt ages and differnt thoughts are goin through ur head thats wat ur parents say right? well now u can see andtalk to him but maybe u should wait then try to go out withhim after u talk w/ ur parents and they know him well

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Chatychic08 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 10:55 pm:
Hey sweeti, why dont you just tell him that? tell him what is really going on and how you really feel about him and jus try to stay close and talk to your parents about it more. If you really like him that much tell your parent you like him and hes what makes you happy. Im sure things will have to work out. Hope i helpd, if you wana talk about it at all anymore or anything at all lemme kno.
xOxO `MaGz

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babygirl17 answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 8:51 pm:
That's kind of the last relationship i was in.. My parents really didnt like him. But.. If you really love this kid as much as you say you do. and he loves you. Then what I would do is see him "secretly" That's really the only option you have because unfortunetly we are still minors..

I hope this helped.

If ya need anything drop one in my inbox..

~*Jackie~*

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unreachable answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:48 pm:
Tell your parents how you feel and that nothing bad will happen between you. Let them know he's a good guy (if he is...) and ask if you all could hang out so that your parents can see his behavior. Promise that you won't do anything that would break your trust with your parents. This may go a step too far for you, but my friend did it just so she could be with her boyfriend....the only time she could go out with him is if it was supervised OR certain places where they could be checked up on. But if they still don't accept him, you have to accept that and let your parents decide. They ARE your parents, and they should know what's best for you.

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xaDvIcERsAiRx answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:47 pm:
If you really love him, then your parents should understand. i say, have a secret relationship; theres no use breaking 2 hearts and having nothing come of it.
tell him (when your parents arent there) that you still love him and u werent really meaning it.

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wishingstar answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:05 pm:
hey gurl well listen i bet it is hard to see someone you love cry and not be with. but, at that age you should respect your parents request. It might seem hard right now but, trust me sweetie you are 13 years old there is going to be ton of new boys entering and leaving your life..its just the beginning.but, i think as of right now..still be your x-boyfriends friend.its better still being in that persons life someway than not being with them at all!!! and if u still hurt just try and take it day by day!!!

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xcry4noguyx answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 6:03 pm:
Parents dont understand anything these days. Im gonna be rated bad by other members for this but you should ask him back out and hide it from your parents. What they don't know can't hurt them, right?

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the_haha_boat answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 5:58 pm:
you made the right choice, just remind him that this was the only way you two would ever beable to talk, or do anything. Maybe when your alittle older your parents will let you go out with him again if they see how good of friends you guys have been even though you wouldnt be dating. good luck

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Lil_Hott_Mama answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 5:48 pm:
talk 2 ur parentz bout diz tell dem how you feel bout diz guy!mayb dey will accept him

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