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what should i do?stuck between 2...
OK...muh bf and i are goin good but sometimes i cant take it because hes so immature and i wanna dump him sometimes but then im like i cant hurt him bc jus the other day he told me he loves me..and like i havent said it bakk bc i dont..but what do i do?i wanna break up with him but hes the greatest friend..& i dont wanna loose him
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Well, if you don't love him then ur hurting him already by leading him on...you need to sit down and really talk to him one on one...explain to him that u really love your friendship..but you two need to cool off...if hes a true friend then he'll understand and you'll continue your great friendship...you can do that OR if you do love him you could learn to look past his imperfections such as his immature attitude
he seems like he really likes you...so take time to think it all out and i know u'll do the right thing hope i helped ya! (please rate!)
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just tell him the relationship isn't working out but you still want to be friends.
*Jess*
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yeah* guys can be immature sometimes- but its not really thier fault. i dont think u should break up wit him because if hes really nice and he loves you then you really dont wanna lose him. its nice to have a bf thats also a good friend. just forget about it.
hope i helped!
ami*
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well what you can do is explain to him that u wuld like for him to act a little more mature....and explain what a great friend he is to you and how much it wuld hurt iffu lost him...and tell him that u wuld rather not go out but he is one of the GREATEST friends u have ever had...hopefully he will understand :)
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Okay, I think that if yu don't feel the way he feelsz about yu and yu wanna dump him - yu should cause it'll hurt him more if yu wait and yu shouldn't be in a relationship with him if yu don't feel riqht about it. But yu should definatly talk to him first. Just be like `listen.. yur really cool and I like yu alot - but i'm havinq some problemsz :and then explain yur problem:`. If he'sz true and a qood friend.. he'll understand. Maybe he'sz actinq this way for a reason. The bets thinq to do is talk first and see what'sz up. Then decide what yu feel is riqht for yu and him.
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well set him down nd explain to him that yooh liked him but it changed .. now yooh jus wana be firends nd that yooh dont wana hurt him but yooh dont like him that way anympre.. tell him that yooh still wana be friends but yooh jus dont wana be more .. i hope i helped some nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
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talk it out with him, you said he was a great friend so if he's worth having as a friend/boyfriend he'll understand. Tell him how you feels, and if he really likes you, he'll take it to heart and try to act better. And hey, no guy is worth not feeling happy, so no matter how much you think you're going to hurt him, he said he loved you so he'll still want to be friends.
Once again you can only hear so much advice, you have to make decisions on your own, think about the consequences to both of your actions. Like if i stay with him, i'm not gunna be happy and i'm gunna hate hearing him say he loves me when i can't say it back. Or if i break up with him, what happens if he doesn't want to be friends? is he worth losing, even though i'll be happy?
Hope i helped
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well if u wana break up with him and still want to b friends with him then talk to him about it ask him to be more mature! then you would have your best friend and the man of your dreams!
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If you love him too, then he can get over his immaturity, or you can. Is he only immature around his friends, because that happens sometimes, and maybe then you could just not hang out w/ him when hes with his friends. If the case is that your not happy though then you should end it because its not doing either of you good. Good luck w/ whatever you decide to do.
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You *CAN'T* stay in a Relationship because ONE paRtneR doesn't want it to end. If you'Re unhappie.. you need to get out. Yes, I'm shoRe he'll be upset, but you need to do the Right thing heRe! It's unfaiR to you to keep putting up with something you'Re not Really into, and it's unfaiR to him because.. honestly.. what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to somoene who won't give you theiRs??? Tell him you caRe foR him, but you don't want a Relationship with him. He should undeRstand.. it's in BOTH of youR best inteRests!! I wish you the best of luck!! Hope I helped!! =D
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Just tell him what you just told us. Just be like "I know you told me you love me and everything, but I just don't have those kind of feelings like that for you like you do for me. And I don't want to hurt you because you're a great friend. And I want to keep you as a friend, its just I don't think its working out for us because I don't have those kind of feelings anymore and I don't want this to keep going on if I don't have them for you anymore..I'm sorry. But, you're a great friend and I just want to know if you can still be my friend..?" Just say something like that and let him know he's a great person and you still want to have a frienship just not a relationship. Hope this helps and good luck. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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