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ok.. how many of you think its possible to love at 15? i kno there's girls on here and guys that say they love their bf/gf. but do most of you take it as "puppy love?" i think it is possible. bc see my bf now.. ive been with him 9 months and i lost my virginity to him and the thing is my mom and family dissapprove of me and him together... because hes black n im white. but i still go to see him and he comes to see me at like the park and stuff and we hang out. and im 15 and so is he. i mean i kno this may sound stupid but i really can see myself with him forever. like i dont want to be with anyone else. i kno i love him and not that fake stuff. i would do anything for him. i kno u all dont think i kno what love is bc im so young but thats ok. but i do love him with all my heart and i would die for him... but how many of you believe that u can love someone at 15?
id like to hear ur comments. ill rate. thanks..
Manda
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i think it's possible to be in love at any age. but sometimes wat ppl think is love is really just a crush. but it's not always that way. i think if u've been together for 9 months and u still say u love him then it sounds like u really do love him!!! Good Luck wit ur bf!!!!
~Reenie~
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i do believe you can love someone at 15, because i've been in your shoes. i fell in love when i was nearly 15, and i have been in love with him for 7 or 8 months now, even though we're no longer together.
as for the family disapproval, you need to talk to you mom about it, and tell her exactly how you feel for him, and make sure she knows how much it hurts you to think your mom disapproves of something you love so much. also your mom is being racist by being against this relationship, so try explaining to her that you don't appreciate her being racist.
maybe she will see how mature you are being about the situation and change her opinion.
good luck :)
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Congrads on you and your boyfriend for being together for so long. Yes, I believe that you can love someone at 15. Love doesn't come in a age, you can love anyone at any age.
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well i think that it is possible to love at 15,
i know that i am in love with a girl. and for your parents to disaprove it may be a little racial i must say but i am sure that they have there reasons. you should sit with them and explain your feelings for this guy and see what they say. if they start yelling i would tell them that u love him and that they need to except the fact that u are going to see this guy. and if they don^t well then it is there prblem it isn^t your fault that u are in love.
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I think you can fall in love at 15. Actually, I know you can. My BESTfriend fell in love at 14, and they are still together!! Thats awesome that you feel that way...and dont worry about what anyone else thinks of it! So yeah...I believe you can.
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it is totally possible to be in love at 15, and believe me, there's nothing wrong with that, but if your parents don't approve, try to prove out his good points, and y u fell in love w/him in the first place, then maybe your parents will start believing that u really love him, and won't try to seperate you two, just b/c he's black...GOOD LUCK!!
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it is possible to love at 15 .. yooh can love at any age about .. well color doesnt matter nd it shouldnt if yooh really feel the way yooh say yooh do then dont brak up cause of that .. nd dont break up cause of ypour parents .. your parents arent ogin to like your boifriends all the time .. nd if yooh really love him nd some how ond day yooh two grew uo nd got married your parents will b ther all the way cause yooh kno their your parent nd no matter wat if your happy htey are happy for yooh .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
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I feel that you can love at any age.. you learn from your parents to love at a very young age soo.. yeah.. but you should ((in a couple years maybe)) talk to your parents about this.. bcuz if you do marry him.. your parents should aprove.. bring him home with you for dinner or something let them get to know him and understand who is is..
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I think its possible just not too common. Lots of teenagers are in this position, just make sure your partner feels the same about you as you do him. Good luck and i hope your parents come around.
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Youth doenst matter. Although you must take what your parents say into consideration, they do not rule your lives. Talk to your parents, and maybe invite him over for dinner!
Hope I helped!
P.S. Its not to young. I've been in love with the same guy since i was 10 and i already want to marry him!lol Plus, i kno this author who fell in love with a girl at 13 and they've been married for 20 years this year. And the same thing with my parents, 21 years. Like aaliyah said, age aint nothing but a number...(rip)
ALissa
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You can love someone at any age if you feel, you would die if you ever lost someone who you loved, cared for and was behind them 100% in there problems threw out life..I also think its childish for your parents not to approve on him, because at the moment my oldest sister is seeing a guy who is not only 3 years older then her but he is also black and she is white. I haven't met the guy but my mom approves on him and everything. Maybe you should sit down with your parents and point out why he is so special to you and why you want to marry him. Just one note of advice marry him while your done with school and all. You don't want to have marriage problems while your still in H.S. and in College. -good luck
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I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 1 year and i beleive i am in love with him and i am also 15! It isn't the "puppy love" because i can see me and him getting married and having a family together so yes i 100% beleive you can love at the age of 15.
-Katie
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Yes you can love someone at 15. You can start loving when you start puberty. If you think that you will be with him forever, then I must say that this is love, you having sex also adds to that scenerio. I wish you and your bf a good live together.
--Matt
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I think it's possible, but not likely for the average person. Most are confused at the time. They meet someone, and they feel this rush of feelings that they think is love. Other times they see everyone talk about it, and they so desperately want it they almost fake it. Most of the time what people at this age think is love turns out to be merely a crush.
But in your case, I think it's very possible. To be with someone for nine months and still be crazy about them is rare to see at your age.
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If you really feel for this guy, i think maybe you really do love him. I think its up to you to decide if you really do love him. It sounds like you really care for him and that is a good start, because a good relationship starts with caring, and will grow into love. Time will tell you if you do love this guy. Be true to yourself and tell me how it goes!!!
~Cayd
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I think there are rare oppurtunities where people do meet their real love. The way you describe it it sounds so natural and i guess.. meant to be. But the thing is make sure he's feeling the same way back so you dont get hurt. If hes a good guy and doesnt have a bad record of anything ignore authorities and keep on going out with the guy. The fact that your mom doesnt like him b/c hes black is pretty sad. And I dont suggest you having sex with the guy at 15.. but of course the choice is yours. And remember even when this rare young true love does occur, it doesnt even always last. It would seem a little un-natural for you guys to be together until your 20, but hey it could happen. As long as you enjoy who your dating and hes respecting you.
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It's not necessarily the age of someone that determines whether or not they are in love. It's the way that they descibe it.... such as "I've been going out with him for a month, he treats me like crap, but I can't help it because I love him soooo much, and he loves me, even though he makes fun of me all the time."
maybe you are in love at 15. But it is going to be hard for the both of you if your parents don't approve, but I will say that I think your parents are extremely wrong and need to stop discriminating against the color of a person's skin.
Yes, I know your parents reacting badly towards someone you love can hurt a lot. My mother never liked my first love because she did not want him taking me away from her. But she came up with excuses about our relationship every chance she got. She certainly never hid the fact that she didn't like him from me, or even him and she put him down most chances that she got. I know it was only because I was her youngest and she didn't want me to go away from her and get hurt by a guy like she always got hurt... but she never quite realized that it was her that hurt me most of all by not trusting mine and his feelings.
I don't know if you will ever be able to get your parents to understand how much it hurts you that they feel that way towards him, but I wish you luck trying to get them to realize it.
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