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feel free to ask any questions, im always online so i will usually get bak to u pretty fast!or jus im me @ xo4uxo88!
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x's n o's
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*a LiL bIt aBoUt mE*
(A)ge~16
(b)irthday~may,9th
(C)olors~pink,babi blue
(d)ream boy~2 many to name
(E)ducated at~gbhs
(f)(best)~wow its hard.. i have soo many!
(G)reatest thing~ knowing that there is someone who will be there for you no matter what!
(h)obbies~hangin out with friends*movies*mall*modeling*dancing*partying*muchmore.
(I)im alwayz~busy
(j)~ez rayz tanning bed
(K)issed~yes,many times
(l)ocation~chesapeake,va
(m)ood~happy
(N)ame~bethany
(o)bession~guyz,n clothes
(P)erfect at~nothing.. nobody realli is
(q)uiet~deff not!
(R)ead~magazines
(s)ecraet~its supposed to b a secret(hehe)
(T)alent~modeling
(u)p 4~mainly anything, but depands
(V)ery best thing about me~ luv to help people,friendly,nice,
(w)orst thing about me~nothing!(hehe)
(X)treme handball~yea n pe
(y)oga~sure looks like fun
(Z)odiac~taurus
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When was the last time you...
. Slept in your bed: las nite
. were seen crying: 2 weeks ago
. Spent the night at your house: las nite
. You shared a drink with someone: yesterday with paul
. You went to the movies: friday
. You went to the mall: yesterday!
. Sent an e-mail: its been a long while
. Said "I love you" and meant it?yesterday
. Gotten in a fight w/ your dog/cat/bird/fish, etc.?: umm neva
. Been to New York?:yes(its wild)
. Been to Florida?: yes
. California?:yes(i luv tht place)
. Hawaii?: no
. Mexico?:yes
. China?: no
. Canada?: nooo way!
. Got a really bad feeling about something then it happened?: yea a while bak
. Wish you were the opposite sex?: umm no
. Had an imaginary friend?: noooo
. Red or blue?: red
. Spring or fall?: spring
. Santa or Rudolph?: rudolph
. Math or English?: defff english
* What are you going to do after you finish this survey?: find somthin to eat
. What was the last food you ate?: ice cream
. Are you bored?: kinda
. How many buddies are on?: 85
. Last movie you saw?: the village
. Last noise you heard?: door slam
. Last time you went out of the state: beginning of the summer on a cruise
. Do you have a crush on someone?:yes
. Do they know?: yes
. What's his/her name?:no tellin(its a secret)
. What do you think of ouija boards?: ??ummm
. What book are you reading now?: autobiography of miss jane pittman 4 honors english
. What's on your mouse pad?:colors
. Favorite magazine?: cosmopoliton
. Worst feelings in the world?: knowin that somthing can happen
. What is the first thing you think when u wake up?what am i doing today?
. How many rings before you answer?: depands on who it is
. Chocolate or vanilla?: vanilla...(hate choclate)
. Do you sleep with a stuffed animal?: no
. If you could have any job you wanted, ummmm i dunno
. Are you a lefty, righty or ambidextrous?: righty
. Do you type with your fingers on the right keys?: yes
. What's under your bed?: nothing
. Favorite sport to watch?:swimming n basketball
. Your Hair Color?: dak brown
. Eye Color: hazel
. Height Currently: no idea
. Glasses/contacts:no,contacts sometimes
. Siblings: yes
. Location: Gb
. College Plans: NYU
. Best Friends: umm alot but...mary,katie,tasha,matt,mike,n lotz more
. Are You Timely Or Always Late: both
. Do You Like Being Around People: yes
. Have You Cried Over Something Someone of The Opposite Sex Did Lately: yes
. Ever Liked a close Guy Friend: yes
. Are You Lonely Right Now: kinda
. Ever Afraid You'll Never Get Married:no
. Do You Want To Get Married: yes
. Do You Want Kids: maybe like 1
FAVORITE
. Room In house: my room
Type of music: everything except country!
. Memory: theres alot
. Day Of The Week:wednesday, bcz that means theres only 2 more days till friday
. Worst Day of the Week: monday
. Color: pink,babi blue
. Perfume or cologne: a&f
. Flower: tulip
. Month: may(my bday)
. Location for dates:
IN THE LAST 48 HOURS, HAVE YOU:
. Bought Something: yea, a pink tube top
. Gotten Sick:no
. Sang: haha
. Said I Love You: yea
. Wanted To Tell Someone You Loved them, But Didn't: no
. Met Someone New: yea kyle
. Moved On: yea
. Talked To Someone: yea online
. Had A Serious Talk: yea to mary
. Missed Someone: yea
. Hugged Someone: yea
. Kissed Someone: noo
. Fought With Your Parents: yea my mom
. Dreamed About Someone You Can't Be With: yea
. Had a lot of sleep: nooo
Gender: Female
Location: *vA bAbi*
Occupation: *sTuDeNt @ gBh*
AIM: xo4uxo88
Member Since: July 31, 2004
Answers: 80
Last Update: April 19, 2005
Visitors: 7131
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i'm 14 and i play a whole lot of soccer but and i try so hard to lose weight but for some reason i just can't stick with it. please help me with this. (link)
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*hey girl*
aww! this is always a tough situation that girls are dealing with these days!trying to loose wait:
try going to a local gym or the Y.M.C.A or just try walking around your neighborhood every night or somthing, i know u may not want to do this, but if u really want to work on it, these are some things that you could do.
Also try to watch what you eat. . etry to eat more vegtables & fruits once in a while,that could also help!
best of luck!
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Hey so you model? Know any good sponsers that wont lie and steal my money?! thanks!! My column is at "xO.Carrie"
Thanks!! (link)
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*hey sweetie*
try the modeling agency's such as 'ford' they really seemed to help me out alot! n i found no problems with them!!!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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i'm 14 and i play a whole lot of soccer but and i try so hard to lose weight but for some reason i just can't stick with it. please help me with this. (link)
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*hey sweetie*
try going to a local gym like the ymca or somthing, if u work out there tht shold help u alot! also try jogging or running or jus walkin around ur neighboorhood, tht will also help alot! while walkin try walkin with some weights they dont necessairly have to b heavy, but it will help with the weights!!! its hard i know but the more u do it, the more u will c a change!!!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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hey ive been going out with my boifriend for 6 months strate by tomoro but ppl always giving us hard times. for some reason they always trying to break us up n ppl reallyhat eus together...not all ppl but just ppl the i guess are my ememies or idk. alotta ppl r encouragable or say that hees great but i deserve someone better but i really luv him alot. ppl always preading rumors round or trying to break us up or ppl trying to hook u with him so he cheats on me so i get hurt...cuz it wouldnt be the first time hees cheated on me. hee always becomes sorry and now he realized how much it hurts to so he finally stopped.but to the point...ppl always giving us hard times about going out n i dont want that to biuld up stress over him n think that maybe we should just break up...cuz its happend before. and i dont want that happening.. so wat should i do? i really dont think ppl should be in our biznes but they choose to be n i want them out!
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*hey sweetie*
hmm... well i think tht all these people who are saying all these things are jus jelous, maybe they think that by saying all these things about u guys, tht it will make u guys break up, as hard as it may seem try to ignore them, n show them tht the things tht they are sayin about u guys are not goin to tear n mess up ur relationship with ur bf, bcz u guys are not goin to break up! its simple, there jus jelous, n want to go out with him! u know the truth n tht is all tht matters! let me know how things go!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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Hey my girlfriend of almost 2 months is very emonational. One mintue she will be laughing and the next she crying! Could she be pregent? Because we have done it. But that was about 2 months. Theres also an Age Differnce between us she just turned 14 and day ago or so. And im sixteen. She says i don't make her upset.But i know i do. But i dont mean to. Okay she always says this "You shouldn't Be with me im 14 and your 16! you should be with much older pretty girls then me!" or "People take about us because were age differnce but i love you". And i understand she loves me but people give us a hard time. Well, Mostly her because she younger! How do i help my girlfriend? Thanks.
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*Hey sweetie*
i wouldnt think that ur gf mite be pregnet, or maybe she could be!i would talk to her and she what she says. maybe she could somehow get a pregnency test to determine if she is pregent or not, buti highly doubt it! when she comments about what she says to you just let her tell you, maybe she is saying some of the things bcz she is inscure or something else. I personally think that your age n her age differenace dont really matter! just try talkin to her as hard as that may be, n it will get threw to here hopefully!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me? (link)
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*hey sweetie*
no theres nothin wrong with u... tht time will come to u when the time is rite, even if u dont think it mite come for a long time! jus b patient even though its a hard thing to do!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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Ok well i have naturally wavy frizzy hair and after I straighten it then go outside it gets friizy again and it looks even worse than it did before I straightened it. What should i do? i have picture day on Wednesday! (link)
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*hey sweetie*
try asking ur mom our osmthing if she will take u to get ur hair done or somthing, i know what ur sayin about the frizzy hair thing, it does get frustrating!but jus work with it!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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what is a good way to get a guy to like you? i need girls and boys advice. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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*hey sweetie*
jus b urself!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." That day I came home and started crying. I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer. (link)
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*hey sweetie*
awww i know how u feel! this situation happens alot in highschool n it hurts! first of all i think that you are doing the rite thing, it sounz like u are having a hard time trusting him n he thinks that there is nothing wrong with trusting him bcz he is tellin u the honest truth, even the sweetest things he can say to u, he may jus be trying to make u feel good so that you will believe him! i think tht the note was a good idea, bcz u told him ur tru feelings about him and what u think. Sounz like u still like this guy alot even though he has hurt u soo much by the lies and false promises, its hard to let guys go away like that even after threw everything they have done. I think maybe you should try talkin to him one on one, n see if he will be willing to talk to u and work things out, it dosent necessarialy mean that u guys will b able to work things out n be like u were b4, but maybe u can still b good friends! try inviting him ova, 2 talk or somewhere where u guys can b alone! tht should help!
*if u ever need nething else feel free to drop me a message*
*tell me how it turns out*
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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what is a cherry popper (link)
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*hey sweetie*
It means if a guy puts his you know FAR Down in there then you will bleed b/c he's poped your cherry, n it also means basiacally you lost ur virginity!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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im tryin to get a flat stomach so im doing 100 situps a day, nd my stomach is gettin a little harder , but i wanna do some more excercizes to get it flat .. ne 1 kno ne? plz i rate 5's! (link)
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*hey sweetie*
try goin to the ymca or a local gym n see if they have ne programs there that you could do!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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do guys get grossed out when a gurls cherry pops nd blood comes out? (link)
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*hey sweetie*
most guys dont bcz they know that its supposed to happen!so i would say no!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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hey, I just lost my virginity like, 12 hours ago, and I was wondering if it was normal to be swollen down there Because i was really sore so i stuck one of my fingers in there and it was really swollen. Is that normal? (link)
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*hey sweetie*
yea! its deffintley normal, donmt worry about it!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
i rate good (link)
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*hey sweetie*
well i tihnk that its totally up to u! if you realli want to sleep with this guy then go for it! if he means that much to you, n u have strong feelings 4 him then it soundz like ur ready! but do what you think is right!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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i am not really sure how to ask this question but ... i am really sick -i have leukemia- and i was wondering how to tell my friends?? (link)
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hey sweetie
omg thas sooo sad, im so sowie to hear that! try telling them by inviting them over to ur house or somthin!or think of a place that you guys could go! hopefulli they will take it well!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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I've been thinking of growing a mustache and goatee.
I was just wondering though.....do girls like that or is it generally a turn-off? (link)
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*hey sweetie*
i guess it depands on the grl and wht she likes, personally i think its a turnoff! but others may not!some may think it looks good!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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can you get an orgasm from a guy fingering you? or just sex? (link)
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*hey sweetie*
yea most likely u can!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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i wanna start shaving should i just ask my mom? (link)
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*hey sweetie*
as embarasing or as much as you dont want to ask, i would say go 4 it! its not tht bad!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany*
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I've had a huge crush on this guy for almost a year now. He know's I like him, but he tries to ignore it like most guys do. He's in with the "popular" croud, but he's still acts really sweet and out-going and doesn't care what other people think. He waves at me a lot, he stares at me a lot, he plays with my hair and asks me to do stuff with him (in school, i.e. be his partner), and he also talks with me a lot more then other people. And just little stuff like that.
I know that a lot of people say "If you like someone, you automatically think they like you back", but I really think he likes me. But that's just me, and my friends think it's stupid to talk about, so does anyone have any adivce? Does he like me? o_O;
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*hey sweetie*
well it seens like he mite have an intrest in u! n it has been a long time since u have had a crush on him. it sounds like he likes you and mite want ot b more then frienz with u! try going out with him one nite n get to talk to him, n then maybe something will happen!
best of luck
x's n o's
*bethany
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what does (link)
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*hey sweetie*
its a heart!(lol)
x's n o's
*bethany*
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