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Im 16 and my boyfriend wants to me to have sex
im not sure if i want to yet but my main worry is his penis is quite big and it will hurt too much
should i worry? and should i wait? (link)
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You don't need to worry at all sweetie...if you guys really do truely love each other..he should be very gentle and caring. I would just wait and see what happens, if it does get to that..make sure he has a condom on for one...and you could always tell him to be gentle, ect. But it always hurts the first few times you do it. I would wait to have sex until I'm married personally..but everyone is different, if you think your ready I would go ahead and do it..he would never want to hurt you!!!
-Abby
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Can u help me ? .. ok i liked this kid named james and my friend said he was hot to but then there was this other kid named nick that liked me he was ok but my friend was persuading me to go out with the nick because she thought it would be good she was like " give him a chance james styll has a girlfriend u wont be able to go out with him " [ cuz he did ] but he told everyone he was gonna break up with her for me but i didn't know that so i went out with nick cuz everything my friend said i thought made sence but no it really didn't because then yesturday shes all up on him kissen and stuff when i`m ova here with my boyfriend that i`m not even sure if i like .. i know i shouldn't of went out with him so i told him in a nice way we should just be friends.. so now james tells me online he likes me and doesn't like my friend and he broke up with his girlfriend to go out with me and i told him i broke up with nick because i liked him to .. so now i think he is gonna ask me out because thats wat his friend said but what can i do b.c if i go out with him my friend will probably be madd but i really like him tho !! PLEASSE HELP !!! (link)
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Alrighty..Well first off you and Nick are just friends..so no hurt feelings there! It sounds to me like, your friend wanted you to go with Nick because she liked James, and it would get you away from James so she could have him! If James asks you out..I would for sure say yes, if you guys like each other you should give it a try! Your friend might act as if she is mad..but she should understand that he likes YOU. She also might be a little jealous! Hope I helped a little sweetie...if none of that makes sense go ahead and IM me on AIM...or ask some more questions if I didn't answer it right!!! Good luck!
-Abby
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Do you know of any sites where I can post up my pictures for free? (link)
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www.photobucket.com
www.picturetrail.com
www.shutterfly.com
http://community.webshots.com/
Those are some...I tend to like community webshots because you can have tons of pictures uploaded on your album..but is boring, you can't add backgrounds, music, ect. Photobucket has tags and the URLs for online journals such as livejournal and xanga to post pictures easy...and you can add backgrounds and icons, ect!! I don't have any experience with shutterfly, but it looks good also!!
Check out my community webshots--
http://community.webshots.com/user/romano5036
Hope I helped..
-Abby
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my friend cuts herself just for the heck of it. she doesnt know why either. i know it sounds crazy but she does it anyways. i've tried to talk to her about it and she promise she'd stop but i see cut marks on her all the time recently and much more than usual. what should i do? should i tell somebody....please help!
signed....scared for my friend (link)
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I have a friend exactly like that! Maybe your friend does it for attention, or maybe she is missing something, and cutting makes her feel as if it is there, same thing with attention! Cutting is a very serious thing, and its very hard to stop by yourself, I would tell a school counselor..but thats probably hard now because its summer (lol) I'd let her parents know, or if you feel uncomfortable telling them, go ahead and yell yours, and maybe they can get ehr some help, or tell your friends parents. Don't be scared of your friend being mad for telling anyone or anything, in the end she should be happy, for helping her!!
-Abby
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Choose one or the other 4 each question!!
Chad Michael Murray or Johnny Depp??
Ruben or Clay??
Bush or Kerry??
Hilary Duff or Lindsay Lohan??
Apple or Banana??
Ben Affleck or Matt Damon??
Paris Hilton or Jessica Simpson??
Chicken or Tuna??
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Johnny Depp
Clay
Kerry
Lindsay Lohan
Banana
Matt Damon
Jessica Simpson
Chicken
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I noticed you have a green tank top with blue lace or something like that I have been wanting one with those colors like that soo bad where do you get them from!? thx!! (link)
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I got mine from abercrombie!!! They have a ton of those kind of colors...your welcome sweetie!
-Abby
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this aint a love life question...but here it goes ~~~>everytime i try to burn a cd....it melts...i tryed couple of times but it dont work...keeps on melting...wtf am i doing wrong??!?! also...in another ocasion my computer told me to press "any key" to continue...but i cant find the "any key" to press so acidently i pressed something n KABOOM...i dunno wut happend but i'm scared my computer is gonna blow...oh n one more question b4 my computer blows on my face...i watched southpark and theres this episode where they said its healthy to stick food in yr ass and shit it outta yr mouth.. so u tried it and it didnt work so then...i tried hangin upside down and it still didnt work...wut can i do?
HELP PLZ PLZ ASAP!!! (link)
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haha..I got that as an e-mail once...nice joke though!
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thx for siging my guest book! my pt is xoxkimixox07 I am adding new pictures soon so be sure to check it out! you're very pretty and so are ur frieds!! Oh and I will ask you for some advice..if you were going on a 3-4 day trip would you invite one of your really close friends or one of your okay friends that you want to get closer with? (link)
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Alright, I will!! Aww thanks sweetie :)) I would invite one of my okay friends!! You guys can have a good time getting to know each other and you will have another really close friend! I wouldn't worry about your really good friend being mad or anything either, she/he should understand!!
-Abby
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The fights are over the DUMBEST things..like they think I am becoming stuck up and trying to be cool with a diffrerent crowd and their telling me I am a major bitch and stuff..well actually thats only two of my older friends who are but still it bugs me and makes me not to be friends with them anymore..bc i never even did anything to them..yeah I am starting to hang out with diffrerent people. (link)
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That is really dumb...you just want to meet new people, your doing the right thing hun!! If I was you, I would disown them!! You deserve better then being called a stuck up bitch...
-Abby
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wat candy is your fave:
A)Hersheys (with or without almonds)
B)Twix
C)M&Ms (any kind of M&Ms)
D)Other (if you pick this kind wat is your fave)
thanx!! luv ya!! (link)
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Other..butterfinger!!
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I think I am drifting apart from some of my older close friends..I cant help it either I just think I am changing but sometimes I get sad that I'm becoming less and less close with them we always get in fights now and I hang out with a lot diffrerent people than them..should I just move on and forget about them or what? (link)
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Well, I would find some new people to hang out with, but still stay in touch with your older friends! And it all depends on what the fights are over..? If they are little silly fights, I would talk with them about it...and it they are major things I would move on!! If you have any more questions go ahead and ask..Hope I helped a little, good luck!!
-Abby
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Does anyone know any good buddy icons sites? I really hate doll icons, so I need some good sites that don't have a ton of dolls. (link)
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http://iconhell.com/ is my favorite...
-Abby
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my family and just switched to a new church that my cousin goes to. My youth group is taking a trip to flordia to a camp and we just moved so i don't know anyone. i really dont want to go alone and i asked my cousin if she was coming and she said she doesn't know. and i dont think she likes me very much but i really cant tell. the trip is this month and I'm scared that i'll be all alone. (link)
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I just went to a camp also!! You just need to be yourself, and let them see who you really are. I'm sure you will meet some new people and make new friends! Try to make the best out of it, have fun hun!
Abby
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What should I do for my 18th birthday thats coming up in 2 weeks? (link)
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I would have some type of party also, go to a strip club!! YOUR 18!! Just have tons of fun :)
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ok i started my period when i was 10 i am now 13 i was wondering when will the menstrual cycle end how old will i be like in my 40's or wut? can someone tell me im just very curious (link)
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I started when I was 10 also, The average menopause is at the age of 51, so maybe you will go through it a little earlier then normal since you started earlier :) Hope that helps a little..
-Abby
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what r some creative ideas you guys did with your rooms or want to do? (link)
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I painted all my walls different colors also...but I made my own painting type things that are really easy even if you aren't artistic!! You get this one type of material, called muslin I beleive..and cut it out to the size you want, and tape it on cardboard..(Make sure there is extra space so you can frame it) Then you have to melt different colors of crayons with wax, to make the colors you want to use. Once they are fully melted, you paint whatever you want on the muslin, once its dry you crunch it all up so you get cracks!! It's ok if wax falls off of the muslin..it looks more absract! Once you have it cracked in the places you want, you soak it in Rit Dye..you can buy it at Wal-Mart..probably Target too, you add the dye to water and just let it sit for a little while. The dye fills in all the cracks and extra spacing around the edges and looks really cool!!! I didn't expain it to well, so if you ARE interesting, go ahead and e-mail me! I will get you the directions for sure and explain it more throughly, hope this helps a little bit!!
-Abby
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