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HELP PLEASE !
Can u help me ? .. ok i liked this kid named james and my friend said he was hot to but then there was this other kid named nick that liked me he was ok but my friend was persuading me to go out with the nick because she thought it would be good she was like " give him a chance james styll has a girlfriend u wont be able to go out with him " [ cuz he did ] but he told everyone he was gonna break up with her for me but i didn't know that so i went out with nick cuz everything my friend said i thought made sence but no it really didn't because then yesturday shes all up on him kissen and stuff when i`m ova here with my boyfriend that i`m not even sure if i like .. i know i shouldn't of went out with him so i told him in a nice way we should just be friends.. so now james tells me online he likes me and doesn't like my friend and he broke up with his girlfriend to go out with me and i told him i broke up with nick because i liked him to .. so now i think he is gonna ask me out because thats wat his friend said but what can i do b.c if i go out with him my friend will probably be madd but i really like him tho !! PLEASSE HELP !!!
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Well talk to you friend and tell her what you have been through and you just really like this other kid and you just want a chance with him let your friend know that you value your guy's friendship and you wouldnt do anything to hurt your guy's friendship-trix
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hi, well i think u should talk to ur friend...n tell her how u feel...n mention to her that u liked him n she was the one presuring u to go out wit nick even though u werent sure if u liked him and everything! see wut she gonna say...hopefully she will understand n she wont mind u goin out wit him...if she doesnt understand n w/e n ur not so "CLOSE" wit her...then i guess u should go wit da boy...but if ur close wit her...then ur in dip doodoo...i dunno then...u just have 2 choose ( i guess) xoxo effy
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Ok first off you should be the one mad at your friend because seriously to me it sounds like she told you to go out with nick so she could get with james! If shes all over him and stuff... what a awesome friend =/... I think you should go for James, He likes you.. you like him, why hold back? If your friend gets mad she'll get over it. Just tell her that you've liked him for a long time and now he wants to go out and you dont want to miss your chance cuz your not sure if it'll come around again. Good luck
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Well i know it's tough cause you dont wanna hurt her feelings, but she deserves it for goin out with James and she knew that you really like him! If she is mad explain to her that you have liked James for so long and this is your chance, he actually likes you. She should understand, but if she doesn't understand, then maybe you shouldn't be her friend. Because friends are supposed to be supporting.
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Hmm... think about it... YOUR FRIEND TOLD YOU TO GO FOR NICK BECAUSE SHE WANTED JAMES. She probably knew James was breaking up with his girl, and wanted to take advanugae of that before you could so she persuaded you to go the other way. The way that you really didn't want to go. Thats some messed up stuff. You were right to tell Nick you just want to be firends. And if you like James, then you should go with your gut instinct like you should of in the 1st place. Forget about your friend, she obviously wasn't thinking about you when she pushed you into this whole situation. Just make sure though, that you talk to James about completely cutting your friend short, because you don't need him dippin and dabbin between the 2 of you. If you feel you can trust him then go for it. And let this big mess be a lesson to you: DON'T ASK ANY GIRL WHO MAY LIKE THE GUY YOU LIKE FOR ADVICE BECAUSE SHE WILL BE SELFISH, EVEN IF SHE IS YOUR BEST FRIEND. GIRLS ARE JUST THAT WAY, UNFORTUNATELY. Good Luck! :)
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well basivally this is a question where you have to think...gals or guys? which one is more important to u?but if u choose ur guy..ur friend should understand that u like him and u just can hide ur feelings for him and if she is a TRUE friend then she willrepsect that *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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Alrighty..Well first off you and Nick are just friends..so no hurt feelings there! It sounds to me like, your friend wanted you to go with Nick because she liked James, and it would get you away from James so she could have him! If James asks you out..I would for sure say yes, if you guys like each other you should give it a try! Your friend might act as if she is mad..but she should understand that he likes YOU. She also might be a little jealous! Hope I helped a little sweetie...if none of that makes sense go ahead and IM me on AIM...or ask some more questions if I didn't answer it right!!! Good luck!
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well it seems like u relie like this kidd and if u rellie like him then go out witt him but talk to ur friend about it first bercasue guys may come adn go but friends shuld stay forever.... i hope i helped
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In my opinion, it's only fair. Your a little mad at her for convincing you not to go for him just so she could date him, right? She already knew how you felt about him. Since she knew how you felt about him, she shouldn't be surprised. If you are worried about her opinion, however, tell her how much you want to date him. Tell her you want to go out with him but you don't want to hurt your friendship. Just make sure you tell her before you start to date this guy.
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ok.. this is kinda confusing but.. i think that you should go back out with nick because he seems really nice and then if james didnt ask you out.. then im sure youd be mad because youd have no boyfriend.. so i think you should apoligize to nick and you will prolly go out with him
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You're right your friend probably will be mad. Talk to her about it and ask her if she would care.. i mean maybe she wouldn't cuz she knew how much u liked him but if she does care then i wouldn't go out with him. i mean guys come in go but ur friends are there for you.. what happens when something goes wrong with james n you wanna turn to your friend, but shes not there. (not saying it would, just example) Is it worth hurting your friend just to get the guy? And if you really really really wanna go out with him at least wait a while until ur friends feelings are gone for him, & talk to ur friend about it first b4 you do anything.
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