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my ex want to go back out with me and i think i want to go back out with him to but i think all he cares about is looks and i gained 5 pounds over the summer because of a foot ingery and i dont look so great what should i do also i am 13 and female
qtpie101
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dont go crazy over this guy ur still young, if u want to go out with go out with him but if you dont and feel like he wont like ur new look then who cares about him hes not worth it neways
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"i have broken up with him 7 times."
I think you just answered yourself.
THERES REASON WHY YOU DUMPED HIM SEVEN (!) TIMES, DEAR.
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5 Pounds? That's nothing. I mean, it's summer and everyone probably ate alot (on vacation and stuff). I'm sure he won't even notice. And you said he wants to go out with you anyones, so it must not be much of an issue. If he says anything about it, he's just a jerk.
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Well if you only think he cares about looks.... maybe he does only care about looks. 5 pounds wouldn't bother any normal person... it shouldn't push him away. Watch him so you know if he's more concerned about looks...
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dont wrry bout it .. f he reallly like yooh then he'll still want to ndifhe doesnt hes an ass dont chang jus for him .. nd if yooh wana lose the weight then go for it but i dont think yooh have to change for him .. well good luck nd i hope i helped .. *megan
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if your ex wants you back then he should understand the circumstances. If he doesnt want to get back together just because of 5 dumb pounds..then thats shallow and he doesnt desserve you. 5 lbs is nothing! Just stay open about him and if you notice he isnt interested then forget him! Hope I helped..hope u 2 get back together :)
-melissa-
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if he only cares about looks, then hez not worth u dating him, accept his offer at first, then wen he sees u, if he changes his mind, then hez not worth your affection
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Thats a very good question But this is my opuion i think if thats what the guy just likes girls for there looks than he is a DORK he mite look good but deep down inside he is a DORK and if he just likes you for your looks then if you go out with him you all will not have a good conversation and when there is a pretty girl to him or a hotter than you he will be all over her and then you will be dumped down the drain so you pick what you wanna do...#
thanx for your question dont forget to tell me the feedback and rate me on my answer i gave you thanx Nicky* nick
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Well if he doesn't want to be with you because of 5 lbs. then he is not worth your time. How shallow can he be!
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*Qtpie101*
Hey! Well if u "think" u want to go back wit him, then ur not so sure! u still have doubts N stuff, right? Well if u think he cares so much bout looks then why do u like? Ask yourself this...do i want to be in a relationship like this? does he care for me like how i care for him? is this guy worth my time? are we better being friends? Why do i like him? I'm sorry to hear bout ur foot, hope u get better, but like u can alwayz lose weight! so don't worry, but yea juss talk it out wit him, tell him wut u think bout this thing, N if it's meant to be it'll happen! Don't rush into anything u ain't ready for aiight? Well communicate wit da guy! i Hoped i helped, if u need anything else fell free to stop by muh inbox!!! tell me how things go, Good luck, take care.
-Phuong
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Ok.. I'm gonna give you the advice everyone else has given me.. I was kinda in the same postition as you..Ask yourself these questions first.. Why did you break up in the first place? If it was something small give him another chance.. If it was something big like him cheatin on you.. don't give him another chance.. once a cheater always a cheater! Do you love your ex? If it was something small that you broke up about and you still love him.. Do it give him another chance.. Looks shouldn't mean anything.. hope i helped..
*~jamie~*
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well dont go out with him if you think he'll only go out with you for looks. And dont worry about loosing wieght for him, dont bother, at 13 you shouldnt have to be loosing wieght especially for men. 5 pounds isnt bad at ALL. But I would give this guy a try if you like him, but dont let him mistreat you!
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