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Mom and her boyfriend!!
My mom got engaged to this guy after 7 years of them being together. But, i HATE him and so do all my sisters. He's cheated on her MANY times and she even walked in on him and another girl about a week ago!! She hasn't cried more than she has the day she walked in on him and the other girl. He knows he can get her back though, so he walks all over her! And, she's soooo weak when it comes to guys. She's become soo depressed and right now, shes in Virginia for vacation with him! She's coming back today. And ive tried talking to her many times about this as well as all my 5 sisters. She just won't listen. I want her to leave him. He's causing her nothing but harm! Also, to top it all off, he has an STD, Hepatitis C. And, he got it from another girl while cheating on my mom!!! And, she STILL won't leave him!!
What do i do?? please help...i rate high.
Thanks so much..
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ur mom i think feels that she wont ever find some special so she stays with this guy that sounds really bad 4 her.if he cheats on her and ur mom wont do anything about it then scare him off in every way possible talk to ur mom and tell her how u feel and if it still doesnt get her to change her mind then prove to her in every way possible that he is bad NEWs and u wont take that.i hope i helped GOOD LUCK.
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what a sick basturd!!! I mean, ehat kind of man would do that? You are probley close to your mom, and your sisters .. but your mom sees comfort when she's with him. Knowing she has someone to be with after you all move out comforts her. but with him cheating on her all the time, and with him having an STD, she's going to ruin her life. You must talk to your mom again ... all of your sister and you team up against her and try to talk some sense to her. Personnally, I would freak out at this guy. I would!!! But anyways, if talking to your mom doesn't work, make an appointment with your doctor. She could give your family some advice on therapy for the family, and perhaps talking some sense to your mom. She's putting her life on the line being with him!!!!
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girl u gotta talk some sense into ur mom!!!! omigoodness no one, and i mean NO ONE has the right to do that!! and if u cant talk sense into ur mom, talk 2 her parents ((obviously your grandparents)) or somethin cuz im sure they can help...and those diseases r deadly!! Hepatitis C has no cure!!!! it will slowly eat away at your body...its a liver condition...hes gonna die..so even if they do get married hes gonna pass eventually...but just talk to anyone u no that can talk sense into her...ANYBODY!! FAST!!! good luck and i hope i helped!
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Wow, it makes me mad to know that men like this are actually in this world. Egh. Okay well first of all i'm so sorry to hear that your whole family has to deal with this kind of bullshit. Nobody should have too. Your mom probably has a low self-esteem and can't stand up and leave this guy because of the thought that nobody else would ever love her again.
Question: Where is your father? Or is this man your father?
I suggest that you take matters into your own hands. Either try to find a man better for you mom, or just talk to her. Sit her down alone and bring your whole family. Show her how much this is affecting you. And how its def. affecting her relationship with you. Show her, make her see it. I hope it all works out. Keep in touch.
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well first you need to talk to your mom one more time alone...and tell her he isn't healthy is you make love to him you'll catch STD,Hepatitis C...and also remind her that your old enough to make decisions but she needs to think of her children to her children need to be happy with the man she loves...and tell her if he's cheating on you he doesn't love you and if you get married he'll still cheat on you he's not a good man also remind her you love her and w.e. decision she makes you'll still love her but if she chooses him you'll never grow on to loving him...I know this other thing might be hard but it's prolly worth the try...talk to the guy and tell him your mom deserves better then what he's giving her and just tell him what you think about him you might push him away from your mom or sumthing
well I hope I helped buhbyes good luck
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Unfortunately this ones really tough. Its unfortunate adults have the last decision, but theres still hope. You NEED to explain to your mom ONE more time.. hes unhealthy and he cheats on her and the fact that shes marrying him will make her cry all the time because he will constantly be cheating on her. Ask her if she wants to keep crying and if she wants to keep on having sad days or if she wants to move on and get a NEW life. Explain to her the whole control issue could even lead into an abusive relationship. You need to stress all the dangers and unhappiness of marrying him again and again. Hate to say it, but maybe you can bribe her. She MUST love you because your her kid so just be like if you marry him i refuse to live with you, or something extreme like that. I d k.. other than that you need to KEEP on trying and making things difficult and making him look really bad. Good luck! If you need any other help, inbox me, i really wanna help with this situation, let me know what happens.
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