there is this kid that is always following me around. i dont know how to say stop with out hurting his feelings. like if i go to the library, he follows me. if i go to the sotre, he follows me, what should i say?
xlostangelx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:18 am: Maybe you should try and talk to him once!! maybe youll grow to like him and you 2 can become friends!!! he must really like you if he keeps spending HIS time to follow YOU around...i'd definately try and talk to him and then after yuz talk for a lil while, simply ask why he followz yu so much..
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MaGiCLyDeLiSh88 answered Friday August 20 2004, 10:38 pm: Well you could do the nice but not to nice approach... "Do you need help with anything?" Or yOu could just flat out tell him "Will yOu stop following me?" Sinve yOu dont want to hurt his feelings you should just say sumthing like "hi or what's goin on?" maybe he justs wants yOu to notice him more? I dont really know... hope yOu get him to not folloe yOu.
Steph2 answered Friday August 20 2004, 10:38 pm: first ask him y hes following u. then ask him politely to stop. if he continues to do it, tell ur parents. then if it gets worse...well i hate 2 say it, but u could have a stalker...then u mite have to go to court or somethin or get a restraining order idk but tlk 2 ur parents!
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Airie answered Friday August 20 2004, 3:05 pm: ask him, in the KiNdEsT way possible, why does he keep following u. Tell him its nuthin personal, u jus dont like people going everywhere u go, and that he shud cool it for a while. [ Airie's advice column | Ask Airie A Question ]
lil_kati22 answered Friday August 20 2004, 1:26 pm: teh can you say stalker!!! go up to him and be like "why do you follow me everywhere???" let him answer and if its a dumb answer just be like "well i dont like it so stop" but hey maybe he likes you or somethin then maybe you can get to know him and stuff and maybe youll go out with him in the future... : )
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~*Annie*~ answered Friday August 20 2004, 12:08 pm: Wow, how creepy! There's no need to be feeling protective with him, since he's being rude already. Just tell him to stop following you around. If he keeps doing it, tell an adult (it won't be cowardly, it helps). [ ~*Annie*~'s advice column | Ask ~*Annie*~ A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Friday August 20 2004, 11:57 am: Just say to him i kinda wanna go alone, or i really need to be by myself. Most likely the kid will understad, i doubt this would hurt his feelings. Hope I helped, let me know what happens. [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
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