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falling apart!!!
hi! ok well i just started highschool . and my best friend goes to dif. school then me . and were allowed to talk to much cuz her mom dont like me and its a long story . well she sneaks phonecalls to me . and ovr the summer we would talk bout dif. things and she was totally dif. ( good dif.) b4 she started this new school. and she called me 3 days ago and she was acting REALLY preppy , and her voice sounded fake . and she kept bragging bout her new friends and her boyfriend she has ( boyfriend , its only been 1 week since school started) . and like she'll talk to me for bout 5min. and she'll ok i hav to go , and she just hangs up and duznt evn say bye and she duznt evn giv me a chance to talk . and its pissing me off a lot!!! i dono wtf happned to her , shes totallly different and wen she called one time i missed the call cuz i left my phone in my car and i got it and i saw the # and called it bak and her NEW friend answers so i ask if jenna was there and her NEW friend sez " jenna! its ur lil friend" i was like WTF!! and its pissing me off and i dono what to do . do i sound jealous?? i dont wana sound like a bitch but she's turned INSTANT POPULAR PREP!!! help plz!!!!!!! :(
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it sounds like she really started to be rude to u. ask her y she's acting like dat and tell her dat it's really annoying. if she doesn't stop i think u shouldn't talk to her anymore! u don't need ppl like dat and u'll make ur own friends who WON'T treat u like dat!! hope i helped! and hope u meet some friends who don't treat u like dat!
~Reenie~
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she jsut started high school, it can be a scary place when your alone. she found some new friends which is good. "its your little friend" isnt really an insult, nothing to worry about. hwoever her being that rude to you on the phone is. you culd always try the tried and true method of asking her waht happened.
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It sounds like ya'll are growing apart, or she may just be trying to hard to fit into her new school.
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SHOW HER UP!!!!! get a new hair style, either get a boyfriend or make one up, and basicly do the same thing she is doing to you!
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well, considering the fact that itz a brand new scene for her and a new school, maybe shez just trying to fit in..or maybe shez just overwhelmed with everything goin on that shez forgetting wutz really important..
and no i dont think yu sound jealous cuz yu are only caring and dont wana lose her..and itz okay if she has more friendz and all, but she shuldnt brush off the old..
i think shez just trying to fit in and be happy with her school and having friendz in her new school ..and since yu 2 dont go to the same school, then she needz other friendz at her new school to even get thru the day maybe!!
and with the family problem thing..that culd be an issue of why shez changing...maybe she lovez the fact of being loved by sooo many ppl and having all these new ppl just love her already, and she needz that kinda love in her life so shez turning to friendz and will take any love that she can get ..maybe thatz even y she has a new boyfriend already..cuz shez not used to being loved the way she needz to be by her family maybe, and she is just so happy with all this new love she is getting...
i really think yu shuld talk to her face to face alone somehow and just let her kno how yur feeling..let her kno that yuve alwayz been there for her and alwayz will be no matter wut, but yu dont want thingz to change..let her kno that yu dont mind about her having all these new friendz but yu just wish she wuldnt throw out the old ..cuz new isnt nessecarily better!!
hope i helped :) good luck hunniee hang in there!!
lOvE aSh
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well i don't think you sound jealous. you are just conserned ,but everything will be ok shes just going through a phase if you give it a little time things will calm down and she will start talking more again. and maybe you should also try talking to her about it. maybe just right now she just trying to fit in. but you don't have to get worried i am sure everything will just work out.
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well i dont think u sound jealos i personaly thin that she iz the one bein a bitch to u and like avoiding u n shyt thaz not kool juss cuz she iz at a new skoola ndhas new friends duznt give her a reason to juss forget about you and treat u like crap so juss confront her and be like wat iz up wid u, u have changed a lot since u gut all these new friends and your at a new skool and stuff i thought we were suppose to friends and see wat she has to say bout it!! hope i helped if u need n e thing drop 1 in my inbox k!!
Caitlin*
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Who cares if she is a prep or not. Friends change and move on. You arent a convenience to her. Make some new friends for yourself and start ignoring her phone calls. Stop worrying about her and do something for yourself.
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Nope, you don't sound jealous to me. This happens to a lot of people when they go to a new school and make new friends. Just talk to her whenever you can and just tell her that it's pissing you off when she brags about her new friends and everything. Hope I helped :)
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No you dont sound jealous. Usally this happens when friends go to different schools. They find new friends and dont hang out much. Just find new friends at your school and hang out and stuff..and talk to her when you can..
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